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That is super cool! And so flattering for her! My husband and I have always had an open relationship, and he really doesn't mind me being with other men. I've been very lucky to find a kindred spirit like that. Of course, he doesn't mind me being naked at parties either lol. Your wife sounds like a LOT of fun!
I do have this fantasy of losing a bet with my bf and he chooses to have me wait on him and his friends naked as they watch football on Sunday
 
All of this stuff about tying women up is a total turn off for me. Why are you men so hateful and fearful of women?
I feel i must chime in. I dont believe that hurting or hating someone is a turn on either. I think if it is arousing to both or all parties go for it. But if its uncomfortable or painful for anyone its no fun. Being bisexual male i often have been turned on by dominant men verbally degrading me very arousing. It might be offensive to some woman but for me it gets me throbbing. But some poeple assume if it arouses them, it must arouse the other person. This is where communication can be a huge key to very gratifying sex. Some people are also lured into thinking they need to put themselves in an awkward position to be accepted. However, there are many people who view this as very erotic and enjoy the sensation of losing control. If these woman get excited from this, go for it! But if not, no one should be forced into this kind of situation.
 
All of this stuff about tying women up is a total turn off for me. Why are you men so hateful and fearful of women?

I feel as though some men desire women but don't really like women as people. One of the most odious versions of that is guys who get off on the idea of dominating women who don't want to be dominated. But beyond that it is fairly common for men to want to control women in more subtle ways and make acceptance of us conditional upon us abiding by society's rules. That suggests they regard us as possessions more so than equal people.

So to your point their isn't much of a line between being hateful versus just not liking very much. And I think men are fearful of women because we clearly hold the balance of power in sexual relations - not just one to one but throughout society. A man who imagines himself a stud struggles to accept the reality that any woman he finds attractive can almost certainly outpace him in every way when it comes to sex or attracting mates.

It is interesting the way this behaviour works against men and women alike. I get a big thrill out of being a naked woman among clothed men. And if I feel like I am in a safe environment I can get pretty adventurous. For me that means a very controlled environment like a strip club or one where I know and trust the men present or certain types of public spaces where nudity is accepted. But as soon as one meathead starts behaving like a tool then it is all over. Why do some guys think that my being naked means I am open to being verbally or physically assaulted? I think that for 99.99% of women who enjoy being naked around clothed men there are two choices: 1) I am naked enjoying myself and you can observe and interact with me respectfully; or 2) I put my clothes back on. There is no third option where I want you to get naked too or say rude things or try to grope me or tie me up and abuse me. Any guy who insists on believing that nonsense will not be invited to the party so to speak.

The men who actually like women figure this out. Reality is that I like being sexual. I like being playful and am open to some risqué behaviour. And men who genuinely like women as people seem to have a much better idea where to draw the line. Personally if I am around guys who aren't like that I draw the line much further back because I don't trust them and then everyone misses out.
 
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