Cnc

[lil_jenni]

Sorry for the double post, but I had both a question and a comment.

When it comes to sex, (as far as I know), up to the point of penetration a woman has the right to say no, and being so, I'm not sure a contract of this nature would be valid in court if rape charges were filed. Perhaps someone who knows more about the law and rape could comment on this.

The woman or the man or whoever is involved in a sexual act has the right to withdraw consent at any stage, period. This may not be the law everywhere, but it's what is fucking right. I just don't want any assholes reading this to think if they can get the tip in they are home free even if the person being penetrated decides she or he or they don't want to continue.

As for contracts for sexual activity, they are typically not enforceable in western legal systems for a variety of reasons. A search of BDSM websites should turn up quite a bit of info on this, as so-called contracts are common but really only to help the parties set boundaries rather than be binding agreements. They may also be evidence of consent, but only at the point of initiation of the encounter.

 

[MiaBabe23]

Sorry for the double post, but I had both a question and a comment.

When it comes to sex, (as far as I know), up to the point of penetration a woman has the right to say no, and being so, I'm not sure a contract of this nature would be valid in court if rape charges were filed. Perhaps someone who knows more about the law and rape could comment on this.

Everything that Jenni says above is correct, and it’s also the case that some agreement or ‘contract’ that purports to give complete consent wouldn’t change the fact that, legally, morally and every other way you can think of it, consent can be withdrawn at any point - a contract can’t give entitlement to commit a felony
If consent is withdrawn, it’s withdrawn, even if it causes some mild inconvenience of blue balls. It’s not difficult to grasp

 

[Ajoe207]

Does anyone else have such big fantasies about CNC and forced s*x? I sometimes leave my apartment door unlocked hoping to fulfill my fantasies.

You might enjoy this audio (or not)

https://www.literotica.com/s/reluctant-office-breeding

 

[FreckledSprite]

Does anyone else have such big fantasies about CNC and forced s*x? I sometimes leave my apartment door unlocked hoping to fulfill my fantasies.

I do. It’s my favorite scene to role play. I’m especially into Dubious Consent, and while I enjoy the physical force of Forced Sex, I’m more into the manipulative/coercive side of CNC. I’m not at all interested in stranger rape despite getting slightly aroused when I’m scared.

 

[taboo_sarah]

I’m especially into Dubious Consent, and while I enjoy the physical force of Forced Sex, I’m more into the manipulative/coercive side of CNC.

I second this

 

[allthetimeitsthere]

I do. It’s my favorite scene to role play. I’m especially into Dubious Consent, and while I enjoy the physical force of Forced Sex, I’m more into the manipulative/coercive side of CNC. I’m not at all interested in stranger rape despite getting slightly aroused when I’m scared.

Dubious Consent sounds interesting.....lots of ways to play that/have done that..

 

[Breastobsessed84]

Some of my best fantasies are cnc. I listen to audios on reddit as I use my dildo. Not sure if anyone has listened to those, but they can get a bit dark, but some days that's what it takes to get me going. I like lit audios too but not as much as reddit ones, or at least I haven't found the right lit audio yet

Soundgasm also has some veeeery dark ones

 

[Breastobsessed84]

I struggle with this. On the one hand, I don't want to ever be raped again. But... I want that feeling of loss of control, albeit only when I know I can get control back as soon as I want to do so... Or at least believe I can do so.

So, it's more than a fantasy for me, but I need a safety net. Yet, and I know this seems contradictory, sometimes my husband is too much of a safety net. He's not really into it. He's doing it for me because sometimes I need it. But it lacks... edge. Yeah, I feel sorry for him too.

I don't know the reason some other women need the loss of control (there are lots of thread on here where it's discussed), but I know for me I'm probably seeking the control I didn't have before by voluntarily giving up control and knowing/believing I can take it back.

Actually, I'm going to rephrase my above "it's more than fantasy" comment. It's not a fantasy for me at all. When I need the loss of control, thinking about it is not enough. I need to experience it, even in the slightly too safe environment my Hubby provides. But I need it ultimately in my control, so too safe is better than less safe.

Yep, clear as mud I am. Again, I feel sorry for my husband too.

You say clear as mud, but to me, this makes perfect sense

 

[Breastobsessed84]

Oooh really? I’ve never tried soundgasm before

Anything you can think of is probably on there

 

[tristianc]

This is such a big fantasy of mine

Me too, huge turn on.

 

[Justplainjeff]

Nah, I live in mini Baltimore (nickname for Hagerstown) lol I just don't have anything people can steal unless they enjoy toys, Legos, and Stitch items. The doors are locked while I'm sleeping though! I grew up in the country and we never had to lock our doors.

Oh, my! Watch out. There have been several large thefts of Lego sets, here. Here is Greater Seattle.

 

[STRC]

Does anyone else have such big fantasies about CNC and forced s*x? I sometimes leave my apartment door unlocked hoping to fulfill my fantasies.

Okay, I have read most of this thread.....Have an idea maybe what CNC is.....but not really.......so What is "CNC"? (Be Gentle I'm old)

 

[STRC]

Consensual Non-Consent

Thank you very much....I was thinking along that line but never heard of it before........