Cock Milking

[shy slave]

Thank you to everyone who has helped me figure this out.

Eb ~ I started off thinking they were sort of the same thing, then I changed my mind once I read some articles and posts, and now I may change it back.

Sometimes this sex stuff is confusing

*Off to find headache tablets*

 

[waterkemist]

Milking

Etoile says"
Meanwhile, I am wondering...what IS cock milking? I would have assumed it was a handjob, like milking a cow means pulling on its teat! But apparently it has something to do with the prostate? How do you know when you've found the prostate? How is milking it different from just stimulating in general? I could probably Google this but I know somebody here will put it in nice simple terms for me."

It is about power exchange. Cock milking could be thought of as a handjob. But prostate milking is about giving up control. To touch the prostate, put a well lubed finger in his butt and point your finger right toward the base of his cock. You will feel the bump that is his prostate a few inches inside of his ass. The same "come hither" motion that works on a woman's g-spot works on the prostate.

The massage feels great. When done to me, my cock starts to leak pre-cum right away. With continued massage, more pre-cum leaks out, while the prostate works to produce even more. It does not take a lot of motion on the part of the person doing the massage. Some men can cum that way, but I have not yet. However seeing how close I can get to cumming from prostate massage alone is a lot of fun. I also have a strong desire to rub my penis at the same time. Now, if I am restrained and can't touch my penis, then the delicious torment begins. I wish I could show you in person, I think you would get a real kick out of it.

After a while, if the person getting his prostate massaged does not cum, he may lose so much pre-cum that he can not cum for a while until his body produces a certain critical mass of seminal fluid. That can be really frustrating. See why I liken it to power exchange?

The come hither motion is very good. There can be a tendency to want to poke the prostate, which is not as effective, and could lead to pain if done with too much enthusiasm! Also, few people know about sideways motion. Push against the prostate with only moderate pressure, then move you finger(s) from his left to his right. This tends to push his semen out, so you may want to reserve this move until several minutes into the game. You may see a squirt of semem, without him actually cuming.

OK, here is my analogy. Imagine someone rubbing and rubbing against your g-spot, but that they just missed the ability to be able to make you cum. Since only a few men can cum from prostate stimulation alone, that may give you an idea of the tantalizing frustration prostate massage can bring.

I wish I was there to teach you how to do it. I think you would like the feeling of power. If not, probably about a zillion men would volunteer.

--Waterkemist

(Not responsible for speling errors)

 

[neonflux]

ok, this sounds like heaven and hell combined - think I have to try it on my kink partner the next time I Top...

Etoile says"
Meanwhile, I am wondering...what IS cock milking? I would have assumed it was a handjob, like milking a cow means pulling on its teat! But apparently it has something to do with the prostate? How do you know when you've found the prostate? How is milking it different from just stimulating in general? I could probably Google this but I know somebody here will put it in nice simple terms for me."

It is about power exchange. Cock milking could be thought of as a handjob. But prostate milking is about giving up control. To touch the prostate, put a well lubed finger in his butt and point your finger right toward the base of his cock. You will feel the bump that is his prostate a few inches inside of his ass. The same "come hither" motion that works on a woman's g-spot works on the prostate.

The massage feels great. When done to me, my cock starts to leak pre-cum right away. With continued massage, more pre-cum leaks out, while the prostate works to produce even more. It does not take a lot of motion on the part of the person doing the massage. Some men can cum that way, but I have not yet. However seeing how close I can get to cumming from prostate massage alone is a lot of fun. I also have a strong desire to rub my penis at the same time. Now, if I am restrained and can't touch my penis, then the delicious torment begins. I wish I could show you in person, I think you would get a real kick out of it.

After a while, if the person getting his prostate massaged does not cum, he may lose so much pre-cum that he can not cum for a while until his body produces a certain critical mass of seminal fluid. That can be really frustrating. See why I liken it to power exchange?

The come hither motion is very good. There can be a tendency to want to poke the prostate, which is not as effective, and could lead to pain if done with too much enthusiasm! Also, few people know about sideways motion. Push against the prostate with only moderate pressure, then move you finger(s) from his left to his right. This tends to push his semen out, so you may want to reserve this move until several minutes into the game. You may see a squirt of semem, without him actually cuming.

OK, here is my analogy. Imagine someone rubbing and rubbing against your g-spot, but that they just missed the ability to be able to make you cum. Since only a few men can cum from prostate stimulation alone, that may give you an idea of the tantalizing frustration prostate massage can bring.

I wish I was there to teach you how to do it. I think you would like the feeling of power. If not, probably about a zillion men would volunteer.

--Waterkemist

(Not responsible for speling errors)

 

[shy slave]

Etoile says"
Meanwhile, I am wondering...what IS cock milking? I would have assumed it was a handjob, like milking a cow means pulling on its teat! But apparently it has something to do with the prostate? How do you know when you've found the prostate? How is milking it different from just stimulating in general? I could probably Google this but I know somebody here will put it in nice simple terms for me."

It is about power exchange. Cock milking could be thought of as a handjob. But prostate milking is about giving up control. To touch the prostate, put a well lubed finger in his butt and point your finger right toward the base of his cock. You will feel the bump that is his prostate a few inches inside of his ass. The same "come hither" motion that works on a woman's g-spot works on the prostate.

The massage feels great. When done to me, my cock starts to leak pre-cum right away. With continued massage, more pre-cum leaks out, while the prostate works to produce even more. It does not take a lot of motion on the part of the person doing the massage. Some men can cum that way, but I have not yet. However seeing how close I can get to cumming from prostate massage alone is a lot of fun. I also have a strong desire to rub my penis at the same time. Now, if I am restrained and can't touch my penis, then the delicious torment begins. I wish I could show you in person, I think you would get a real kick out of it.

After a while, if the person getting his prostate massaged does not cum, he may lose so much pre-cum that he can not cum for a while until his body produces a certain critical mass of seminal fluid. That can be really frustrating. See why I liken it to power exchange?

The come hither motion is very good. There can be a tendency to want to poke the prostate, which is not as effective, and could lead to pain if done with too much enthusiasm! Also, few people know about sideways motion. Push against the prostate with only moderate pressure, then move you finger(s) from his left to his right. This tends to push his semen out, so you may want to reserve this move until several minutes into the game. You may see a squirt of semem, without him actually cuming.

OK, here is my analogy. Imagine someone rubbing and rubbing against your g-spot, but that they just missed the ability to be able to make you cum. Since only a few men can cum from prostate stimulation alone, that may give you an idea of the tantalizing frustration prostate massage can bring.

I wish I was there to teach you how to do it. I think you would like the feeling of power. If not, probably about a zillion men would volunteer.

--Waterkemist

(Not responsible for speling errors)

Waterkemist Thank you for this. I like your analogy it makes sense to me.

I have learn a great deal from people on this thread which helps me to focus on why I want to explore this and what I would like him to get out of it.

The only things I am still puzzled over are:

Was Miss Rebecca lying and does she really wear plaid?
Does she milk that particular cock, and if she how?

 

[Shankara20]

Was Miss Rebecca lying and does she really wear plaid?
Does she milk that particular cock, and if she how?

no
very carefully

 

[Ebonyfire]

Thank you to everyone who has helped me figure this out.

Eb ~ I started off thinking they were sort of the same thing, then I changed my mind once I read some articles and posts, and now I may change it back.

Sometimes this sex stuff is confusing

*Off to find headache tablets*

It seems that it reflects where and how you learn things. Regional differences. Whatever you call it or want to call it, how you do it depends on your purpose.

Eb

 

[Ebonyfire]

Hand jobs

Require stroking of the shaft. You can achieve orgasm and/or ejaculation using milking without touching the shaft or stroking at all.

Eb

 

[Ebonyfire]

Success at being multi-orgasmic for a man is basically learning how to separate ejaculation from orgasm. Which can be done BTW since they are separate events.

Eb

 

[indyswinger]

My GF has been "milking" my cock on a regular basis for quite som time now. It took her awhile to finally hit the "spot" on a consistant basis but once she found it "LOOK OUT" She typically starts by tying my hands to the bed post and stretching my balls .... sometimes using a leather ball splitter or sometimes using a "gates of hell" and using several steel rings around my balls. I've had up to 8 rings on them and the pull feels wonderful. She thens starts teasing my ass with a well lubed finger and slowly starts working it in until she hits my prostate. The first few bumps almost send me over the edge and it's usually not long before the cum starts running freely. She loves to watch it just run out of my cock .... sometime with a hard on and other times with it flaccid. She knows it a combination of pure pain and torture and pleasure. Occasionally when she thinks I've drained enough she will just leave the room for awhile and let me simmer and then other times she'll finish me off with a hand job until my balls really unload.

 

[Ebonyfire]

She typically starts by tying my hands to the bed post and stretching my balls ....

Stretching or moving the balls away from the body...reminded me of this:

This is an interesting bit I have used over the years. And like everything else, there are men who will have different responses.

But have you noticed that when a man ejaculates, his balls retreat up into or closer to he body?

Well all if you keep the balls (by stretching or by other means) away from the body, many men cannot ejaculate and this can facilitate an orgasmic response.

It is one way to stop a man from coming provided he has not gotten to the "point of no return" where ejaculation is inevitable.

And of course like I said before they are exceptions., but I have not met many of them.

 

[shy slave]

Stretching or moving the balls away from the body...reminded me of this:

This is an interesting bit I have used over the years. And like everything else, there are men who will have different responses.

But have you noticed that when a man ejaculates, his balls retreat up into or closer to he body?

Well all if you keep the balls (by stretching or by other means) away from the body, many men cannot ejaculate and this can facilitate an orgasmic response.

It is one way to stop a man from coming provided he has not gotten to the "point of no return" where ejaculation is inevitable.

And of course like I said before they are exceptions., but I have not met many of them.

Interesting.

I had noticed how the balls react just before cumming, but never thought to stretch them away to prevent it.

Nor am I going to try it out on him, but it is an interesting idea.
Thanks Eb

 

[ShinigamiSama]

Interesting.

I had noticed how the balls react just before cumming, but never thought to stretch them away to prevent it.

Nor am I going to try it out on him, but it is an interesting idea.
Thanks Eb

you could try something similar that he'd be crazy to object to just to try it out
if you give him oral, play with his balls, and when you feel them contract gently hold them where they are, just enough make it more difficult for them to retract, I've done it to myself a few times, the extra second or two it gives is rather intense if you get it right

 

[Ebonyfire]

you could try something similar that he'd be crazy to object to just to try it out
if you give him oral, play with his balls, and when you feel them contract gently hold them where they are, just enough make it more difficult for them to retract, I've done it to myself a few times, the extra second or two it gives is rather intense if you get it right

It is amazing how versatile a man's body is when you get to know it. There is a lot you can do if you have the know how.

 

[ShinigamiSama]

It is amazing how versatile a man's body is when you get to know it. There is a lot you can do if you have the know how.

I hear the same about womens' bodies as well
need to get know one well enough though

but I do agree, theres a lot more that can be done than, fuck'n'suck

 

[Ebonyfire]

I hear the same about womens' bodies as well
need to get know one well enough though

but I do agree, theres a lot more that can be done than, fuck'n'suck

Well in my world fuck n suck mostly is not on the table, lol.

Eb

 

[ShinigamiSama]

Well in my world fuck n suck mostly is not on the table, lol.

Eb

so I'd figure with that av of yours

 

[Ebonyfire]

so I'd figure with that av of yours

My hair? LOL

 

[ShinigamiSama]

My hair? LOL

looks more like something else that would fit with your title.
and thats quite a bit of hair o.o

 

[Shankara20]

Interesting.

I had noticed how the balls react just before cumming, but never thought to stretch them away to prevent it.

that is why I take off any weights I might have on when I'm about to finish a wank...

 

[Etoile]

looks more like something else that would fit with your title.
and thats quite a bit of hair o.o

Were you thinking it was a flogger?

 

[ShinigamiSama]

Were you thinking it was a flogger?

thats the word I was looking for
thanks

 

[Ebonyfire]

thats the word I was looking for
thanks

I have a lot of hair although this pic is of a picture of nubian locks. I regularly trim my own hair so my hair is about six inches from my waist in places right now.

 

[ShinigamiSama]

I have a lot of hair although this pic is of a picture of nubian locks. I regularly trim my own hair so my hair is about six inches from my waist in places right now.

ahh
ok then
my hair has gotten to my shoulders at its longest so I didn't even stop to think that was hair
oh well
long hair is sexy though

 

[dplovers]

A small g-spot vibrator and two well worked fingers get hubby to goo quite well.

 

[Aeroil]

There is a toy called an Aneros that is designed for prostate milking.

Dunno how well it works, though I'm sure somebody here does.