Cock size

[RoanMtn]

whereas men with small dicks, spend more time pleasing the woman and less about their own pleasure.

You really hit the nail on the head with that comment. I always approached sex with the woman in mind, and what I could do to please her best. My needs were secondary (my cock is about 4 inches when erect). I also got off on her getting off.

 

[Bbl87]

I have a less than average dick. Around 5 1/2 inches. Anytime I am around guys with bigger cocks, mine gets even smaller. In the Army, when we would be in the shower bay, my cock was routinely very small and rock hard. It was embarrassing but hot at the same time.
I also agree about the tongue. I quickly learned how to eat pussy and satisfy my wife with my tongue much more often than with my cock

At 5.5", you are actually almost exactly at the worldwide average statistically speaking. At least length-wise.

You really hit the nail on the head with that comment. I always approached sex with the woman in mind, and what I could do to please her best. My needs were secondary (my cock is about 4 inches when erect). I also got off on her getting off.

I'm not really sure that size is a particularly important variable here, I think it has more to do with personality than genitalia size.

I'm slightly above average length and significantly above average girth, size-wise, and I'm very much focused in my partner's pleasure over mine. To the point it frustrates my wife sometimes because she wishes I'd be more focused on my pleasure during sex.

 

[Morton81]

At 7" long and 5.75" around I am above the average, and never realized it. That caused me to be more in tune with pleasuring my partner. Not complaining. A satisfied partner usually wants more. Condoms could be a problem until I realized I needed the larger size.

 

[Bbl87]

At 7" long and 5.75" around I am above the average, and never realized it. That caused me to be more in tune with pleasuring my partner. Not complaining. A satisfied partner usually wants more. Condoms could be a problem until I realized I needed the larger size.

I actually didn't find out I was above average (6.5" length and 6.1" girth) until I shopped for condoms while waiting for a vasectomy. In my younger days, I always just thought super tight condoms were the norm.

 

[Morton81]

I actually didn't find out I was above average (6.5" length and 6.1" girth) until I shopped for condoms while waiting for a vasectomy. In my younger days, I always just thought super tight condoms were the norm.

That was my thinking too. When I finally realized I needed larger I didn't need condoms anymore.

 

[Bbl87]

That was my thinking too. When I finally realized I needed larger I didn't need condoms anymore.

Ya, I bought one box of proper fitting condoms (SKYN Elite Larges, in case anyone of similar size happens to read this), and barely used any. For 2 reasons, A) My wife rarely wants sex anymore and B) On the rare occasion she "allowed" me to at that time, we realized we both hate condoms so mostly did other stuff. Now I've gotten the snip, so doesn't matter anyway!

 

[CTim]

In my younger days, I always just thought super tight condoms were the norm.

Same here. Always thought I was close enough to average. When I actually measured correctly a couple of years ago and put my stats in one of those measurement sites it spit out Kung Mega Loose, XXL, and Jumbo sizes. I was like....what, I'm no porn star.

 

[Bbl87]

Same here. Always thought I was close enough to average. When I actually measured correctly a couple of years ago and put my stats in one of those measurement sites it spit out Kung Mega Loose, XXL, and Jumbo sizes. I was like....what, I'm no porn star.

Right?

The reality is, my length is nothing to write home about, basically larger end of average, and there's so much focus on length it had literally never occurred to me I might need something different.

And girth really being the more important measurement to condom fit is something almost no guys realize. It's kind of funny, most of the condoms that fit me girth-wise have length to spare. Like Ron White said, "I might not hit bottom, but I'll stretch the edges."

 

[PMarky2]

...In my younger days, I always just thought super tight condoms were the norm.

Same here

 

[Luzi_]

Ich habe auch einen kleinen Schwanz und werde von anderen großen Schwänzen sexuell erregt und ich wünschte, ich wäre jemandes persönlicher Schwanzlutscher.

 

[Luzi_]

Mein Schwanz ist nicht der kleinste (17,5cm x 4,5cm) und ich wünschte mir oft, dass er etwas kleiner wäre, denn oft geht er bei meiner Frau nicht rein. Deshalb suchen wir uns gelegentlich Männer mit einem sehr kleinen, denn den könnte ich auch selbst lutschen und austrinken. Ich wünschte, ich hätte so einen persönlichen wie dich.

 

[kiggs]

I have 8 in and around 5.2 in girth. With shorter women it can be a struggle coz i hit their cervix. I wish I was a little shorter in length and more thicker. It's fun having sex with women who have longer vaginas though, as you can really get to the back.

There are so many dimensions to a relationship, you can overcome a lot.

 

[Luzi_]

Ich habe 8 Zoll und etwa 5,2 Zoll Umfang. Bei kleineren Frauen kann es ein Kampf sein, weil ich ihren Gebärmutterhals getroffen habe. Ich wünschte, ich wäre etwas kürzer und dicker. Es macht Spaß, Sex mit Frauen zu haben, die längere Vaginas haben, da man wirklich nach hinten kommen kann.

Es gibt so viele Dimensionen in einer Beziehung, dass man viel überwinden kann.

Mein Cousin hat über 8 Zoll, aber etwas dünner als deiner und stößt immer bei meiner Frau hinten an. Sie hat sich daran gewöhnt und es macht ihr mittlerweile Spaß, wer weiter nach hinten kommt, denn sie hat eine sehr kurze Vagina.

 

[kiggs]

Mein Cousin hat über 8 Zoll, aber etwas dünner als deiner und stößt immer bei meiner Frau hinten an. Sie hat sich daran gewöhnt und es macht ihr mittlerweile Spaß, wer weiter nach hinten kommt, denn sie hat eine sehr kurze Vagina.

yes some women like it, some hate it.

 

[Luzi_]

Ja, manche Frauen mögen es, manche hassen es.

Ich wünsche mir trotz alledem, einen viel kürzeren und dünneren, denn die passen besser in einen Mund. Deshalb nehmen wir auch viel Spielzeug (auch Plastikeier und Silikonschlangen), dass ich ihr reinstecke und sie es wieder herauspresst.

 

[kiggs]

Ich wünsche mir trotz alledem, einen viel kürzeren und dünneren, denn die passen besser in einen Mund. Deshalb nehmen wir auch viel Spielzeug (auch Plastikeier und Silikonschlangen), dass ich ihr reinstecke und sie es wieder herauspresst.

I hear you. I would say shorter + thicker. they seem to really like that.

Question: is it true that german girls really like black guys? Asking for a friend.

 

[Luzi_]

Ich denke, es stimmt, denn es ist etwas südländisches. An der Größe kann es nicht liegen, denn die Durchschnittswerte liegen in Europa höher, als in Afrika. Ausnahmen bestätigen die Regel. Wir bevorzugen Männer aus unseren Breiten.

 

[Sarge9mm]

My wife of 25 years has climaxed only twice in that time from normal, sexual, penis in vagina intercourse. She tells me that before me she only climaxed this way once before. She enjoys fucking though, being "covered" by a man gives her pleasure, the filled up feeling and the thrusting in and out sensations feel good for her and she enjoys watching and feeling the guy enjoy himself by fucking her, she just doesn't cum this way.. She comes readily and hard with oral sex, having her pussy licked. Also with her favourite toys, working the clitoris, never insertion. Our normal lovemaking is me licking her out until she cums, she has a few minutes recovery time then I fuck her to my hearts content until I cum.

I've never had complaints from oral or regular sex. Always make sure she gets off orally. And absolutely love using tots on her

 

[Illgiveitatry1]

YES!! Whenever I would jerk off with my best friend Larry, the immense disparity between our respective cock sizes was ludicrous! He would stroke his huge, thick cock with both hands, while I would jerk off my pathetically small, skinny penis using my thumb and forefinger. I was so JEALOUS! But by finally accepting the reality and agreeing to become his personal cocksucker, I was able to focus on facilitating the orgasms of men more virile than myself and I learned that I could derive more enjoyment and erotic fulfillment from their beautiful cocks than from my own. I'm proud to be a Cocksucker.

That sounds so hot I would love to become someone's personal cocksucker. I'm jealous

 

[gtnlynn]

My wife's experiences with different size cocks was in college, and she almost never had an orgasm from simply fucking. The guy with the smallest cock was one of her best lovers because he used his hand to always give her multiple orgasms. The guys with bigger cocks Usually didn't notice that she wasn't satisfied with just fucking. Cunnilingus was not that common back then.

 

[Spoogecup]

This question is primarily for the guys, but women can comment also. I happen to have an abnormally small penis, barely 3 inches, FULLY ERECT! and quite thin. During my "formative years", I became aware that my best friend Larry's cock was HUGE!! Viewed side by side, his erect cock put mine to shame and I felt sexually inferior to him, fueling my lifelong passion for sucking very big cocks. Long story short, I ended up becoming his personal cocksucker, and have continued sucking cock and giving men blowjobs to this day. I enjoy being down on my knees, sucking cock and have accepted that to be a Cocksucker is my assigned sexual role. Have any other men had similar experiences?
I believe that our personalities are molded by our early experiences. I'm convinced that the extreme size disparity between my friend's cock and my own was a determining factor in influencing me to become a lifelong, submissive cocksucker. I also learned, early on, that although I'm unable to satisfy women using my pathetically small penis, I'm able to bring them to orgasm orally and this is my default method in having sex with my wife. I am currently married to a wonderful woman,and she seems to be quite satisfied with our sexual routine. Will women accept having successful oral sex performed on them over penis in v

 

[Spoogecup]

OMG.. My situation almost exactly ! I'm also barely 3 inches when totally hard (rarely see it that way except getting out of bed in the AM... The high school locker room provided me with a convenient setting to appreciate the

 

[smallercuck]

I'm very small and it's affected my life, a lot.

I've been worried about being 'outed' for my size since I can remember. I never dated within my circle of friends because I feared my "little secret" would become general knowledge. I was less active in sports than I might have liked to be.

If you read my stories there is always a small guy -my stand in. Sometime he's humiliated or pathetic. Sometimes he's loved. His size is always a going concern. I'm in my 50s and I'm still not really okay with being small. That "little fella" is both a burden and my fetish.

 

[PMarky2]

I have 8 in and around 5.2 in girth. With shorter women it can be a struggle coz i hit their cervix. I wish I was a little shorter in length and more thicker. It's fun having sex with women who have longer vaginas though, as you can really get to the back.

There are so many dimensions to a relationship, you can overcome a lot.

Even at 7" and 5.5" I find I have to be careful. My wife lost a lot of elasticity after menopause, and I could easily bottom out, which had not been the case previously, though a little caution was still necessary. When that happened it was game over. Unfortunately, various autoimmune issues have 'solved' that problem - she just finds penetrative sex too uncomfortable now.

 

[Escierto]

Even at 7" and 5.5" I find I have to be careful. My wife lost a lot of elasticity after menopause, and I could easily bottom out, which had not been the case previously, though a little caution was still necessary. When that happened it was game over. Unfortunately, various autoimmune issues have 'solved' that problem - she just finds penetrative sex too uncomfortable now.

Will she take you in the ass? My girlfriend's cock is a little over seven inches and I can take her all the way up my ass.