Cock size

[Shi_One81]

Interesting. What *does* get you off? Clitoral stimulation?

Yes, clitoral stimulation from light touch or a vibrator.

 

[Achilles4_0]

Watching porn is another sure fire way to feel inadequate. Those huge cocks on display belong to a very small percentage of the male population. I'm 6.5 long by 6 round. So maybe slightly bigger than average. Porn is a double edged sword. It really turns me on seeing cocks way bigger than mine, that feeling of being outgunned. But after I've come, that's when all the doubt and self criticism flood in.

The not being big enough nor good enough, less of a man.

Watching porn is another sure fire way to feel inadequate. Those huge cocks on display belong to a very small percentage of the male population. I'm 6.5 long by 6 round. So maybe slightly bigger than average. Porn is a double edged sword. It really turns me on seeing cocks way bigger than mine, that feeling of being outgunned. But after I've come, that's when all the doubt and self criticism flood in.

The not being big enough nor good enough, less of a man.

FYI, white65, you are way above average-large in length and plenty thick. Don’t worry. Instead, do porn. You are suited. Average cock size Is about 5.1-5.5 by 4.6 measured professionally by medical staff.

 

[Achilles4_0]

Love it and the fact that you trim/shave

I almost always go down on my wife until she cums first as compensation for my penis size

Did you just get out of the pool?

 

[van_delay]

Did you just get out of the pool?

Like a frightened turtle

 

[Bbl87]

FYI, white65, you are way above average-large in length and plenty thick. Don’t worry. Instead, do porn. You are suited. Average cock size Is about 5.1-5.5 by 4.6 measured professionally by medical staff.

The thickness is actually beyond what I'd call plenty, ha.

As someone who is almost a dick twin of his, haha, 6 inch girth is larger than most porn stars.

 

[Bbl87]

I was with you until the 2nd part..

Why is it "apparent" that guys with smaller penises are more willing to go down on their partners?

Like you I have a much larger than average penis (8 1/8 long and 6 1/4 girth) and I agree, it's been a problem with a lot of my partners. It's still a problem for my wife. ..But I absolutely LOVE going down on her - so I fail to see the connection

Same experience. I'm not massive but decently endowed, and I love giving oral.

 

[Cardinal]

This question is primarily for the guys, but women can comment also. I happen to have an abnormally small penis, barely 3 inches, FULLY ERECT! and quite thin. During my "formative years", I became aware that my best friend Larry's cock was HUGE!! Viewed side by side, his erect cock put mine to shame and I felt sexually inferior to him, fueling my lifelong passion for sucking very big cocks. Long story short, I ended up becoming his personal cocksucker, and have continued sucking cock and giving men blowjobs to this day. I enjoy being down on my knees, sucking cock and have accepted that to be a Cocksucker is my assigned sexual role. Have any other men had similar experiences?
I believe that our personalities are molded by our early experiences. I'm convinced that the extreme size disparity between my friend's cock and my own was a determining factor in influencing me to become a lifelong, submissive cocksucker. I also learned, early on, that although I'm unable to satisfy women using my pathetically small penis, I'm able to bring them to orgasm orally and this is my default method in having sex with my wife. I am currently married to a wonderful woman,and she seems to be quite satisfied with our sexual routine. Will women accept having successful oral sex performed on them over penis in vagina sex?

Now that you’re married do you still suck cock? Does your wife know that you’re a cock sucker?

 

[P0peye]

Now that you’re married do you still suck cock? Does your wife know that you’re a cock sucker?

Yes, I still suck cock whenever I get the chance. I did confess to my wife about my history as an avid Cocksucker and oral obsession, but without divulging my ongoing activities.

 

[satinmoonn]

as a woman, I’ll take good oral over anything any day size can be important but it goes both ways, too big and I’m unpleasantly sore in the morning…

 

[SandysBoy]

I love all these things, too! But I’m also thinking about my cock pressed against another, feeling my cum cascade down on a very hard cock.

 

[LMWM321]

I'm always a little suspicious about the 5.2' average I see a lot recently. Okay, I'm not a woman, I'm not gay either so my experience is of course limited but based on real life talk with friends and JOBs, I find the average being slightly over, more around 6.

Also, I always love giving clitoral simulation, mouth, fingers, toys whatever she wants to enjoy, I think it's a lot of fun !

Bear in mind that men with smaller than average penises are more apt to be self-conscious about their size (they shouldn't be be, but are) so are LESS likely to let their dick be seen outside of a steady, established relationship. They're engaging in fewer one-night stands. And growing up, they were probably more likely to prefer showering in privacy at home to doing it in front of a bunch of other guys in the locker room after sports, so that would skew what you've seen.

And you can forgot what you see in Porn. Porn is about as representative of average Penis size as the NBA is representative of average height. In other words, It's NOT.

Researchers who have studied penis size assure study participants their privacy so they are able to collect data from a far more representative sample of men.

Do you see or know a Urologist? Ask him/ her.. They see ALL sizes of penises.

 

[Achilles4_0]

You are spot on. Smaller guys are less apt to go to a nude beach or undress in a gym locker/shower situation, and less apt to enter medical studies. Men are also prone to mis-measuring their units and don’t know the difference between bone-pressed and non-bone pressed measurements, often unaware how to measure girth, and are prone to exaggerate. All these numbers are known to the medical profession. The most quoted study by Veale et al says the average flaccid is 3.6 inches and erect is 5.16 inches, with a erect girth of 4.6 Is inches. These measurements were consistent across all races. And if anything with these studies, the numbers are probably over estimates as smaller endowed men are less apt to participate. Also, they used bone pressed measurements which are greater than non-bone-pressed by adding back the fat pad.

 

[Achilles4_0]

I don’t know. I’m not talking porn or even public shower but those size don’t match with real life experience so I’m wondering why. Also if we take those as an average it means that a fare share are well under those numbers. Or maybe the average is higher in Europe compared to the US

Honestly, how much experience does a straight guy have in judging cock size by their experience? Also, in most places to see other cocks they are soft. The study in the British Journal of Urology published almost 10 years ago, correctly measured flaccid and erect cocks in over 15,500 men. I doubt any of us can imagine that number.

 

[Achilles4_0]

Maybe it will make the smaller guys feel a bit less self-conscious and feel better about themselves. Also, we will realize that porn sites and even sites such as this serve to perpetuate the “myth” of the hung penis as the norm. In fact, the really huge cocks, 8 inches plus are quite rate.

 

[Bbl87]

Well I said my experience was limited, though over the years I had my fair share of JOBs. Again I’m not sure where the difference comes from.

It could be a variety of things.

It could be that "larger" men are more sexually active so they will be seen more in anecdotal experiences. They are also more likely to participate in studies about penis size in all liklihood, which may mean even the study averages may be a tad high.

There is also the tendency of men to over report size both in self reported studies and in banter. By the by, people also will tend to overestimate size when asked to guess, that is likely a side effect of that.

Worldwide average vs "western" average does matter too. Western averages tend to skew higher, though still below 6 inches.

 

[Achilles4_0]

It could be a variety of things.

It could be that "larger" men are more sexually active so they will be seen more in anecdotal experiences. They are also less likely to participate in studies about penis size in all liklihood, which may mean even the study averages may be a tad high.

There is also the tendency of men to over report size both in self reported studies and in banter. By the by, people also will tend to overestimate size when asked to guess, that is likely a side effect of that.

Worldwide average vs "western" average does matter too. Western averages tend to skew higher, though still below 6 inches.

I believe you meant more likely to participate in studies than smaller guys, skewing the results higher.

 

[Bi4Older84]

Honestly, how much experience does a straight guy have in judging cock size by their experience? Also, in most places to see other cocks they are soft. The study in the British Journal of Urology published almost 10 years ago, correctly measured flaccid and erect cocks in over 15,500 men. I doubt any of us can imagine that number.

This is a great point-prior to exploring my bisexuality, I had never seen an erect cock IRL, and probably only a few soft cocks. I think that most me ultimately take their concept of size based on pornography, without realizing that those cocks are on the end of the bell curve, most of the women are super petite, and that there are all kinds of angles and tricks that are used to make men look larger.

 

[Diann_Mom]

A gentleman once said to me, "Would you like to have 12 inches?"

I quickly responded with a yes.

As it turned out he gave me 6 inches twice.

He didn't actually lie to me and the 6 inches worked out well enough!

 

[Bbl87]

I believe you meant more likely to participate in studies than smaller guys, skewing the results higher.

Ya, I meant to say "smaller" individuals were less likely but apparently left out that pivot. Thanks for catching that.

 

[Bbl87]

A gentleman once said to me, "Would you like to have 12 inches?"

I quickly responded with a yes.

As it turned out he gave me 6 inches twice.

He didn't actually lie to me and the 6 inches worked out well enough!

I'm gonna have to use that one!

 

[Bbl87]

Interesting take but in college the one friend who was always ready to watch porn and pull his cock out was also the smallest guy I know IRL. He was definitely not ashamed of his size.

Well, clearly you're convinced your anecdotal experiences trump large scale scientific studies, so I don't know what else to tell you.

 

[Bbl87]

Lol I’m not convinced of anything. Not sure why you guys take that so seriously. I’m just more interested by people’s personal experience than studies we know shit about the methodology they used and how accurate they are (I’ve actually heard time and time again that penis size studies aren’t very reliable because how hard - no pun intended- it is to select candidates and obtain reliable numbers).

You can actually read alot about the methodology. CalcSD is probably the best online repository of data, and they do a decent bit of digging into the studies, their methodology, how and why they included some studies but not others, etc..

And yes, penis size studies can be difficult to get a representative sample, which is why a metastudy including a variety of different studies is a good way to normalize the data. Which, by the by, is what CalcSD does and why I like it as a reference point.

And this isn't coming from somebody who is "average" sized trying to justify it or something. Penis size is just something I've found interesting on an academic level in the recent past so I actually looked into the research on it. Started when I had to go condom shopping again and had to measure to get a proper fitting, ha.

 

[LMWM321]

I’m just more interested by people’s personal experience than studies we know shit about the methodology they used and how accurate they are (I’ve actually heard time and time again that penis size studies aren’t very reliable because how hard - no pun intended- it is to select candidates and obtain reliable numbers).

Ask a urologist. ..Serously. ..Ask a board-certified urologist. They see TONS of penises - both erect and flacid - and have no reason whatsoever to over or understate size. They'll tell you you the average flacid penis is under 5" and the average erect penis is under 6" and average erect girth is under 5" (ie., basically the same averages reported by CalcSD).

AND they will probably tell you to quit fixating on penis size and focus more on the health of the person it's attached to.

And no, they don't grow 'em bigger overseas. ..If they did, wouldn't women's vaginal openings and vaginal volume be bigger in those countries as well? ..Curiously, you never hear about that. And that's because it's not a thing.. Just like dicks being bigger in certain countries isn't a thing.

 

[Achilles4_0]

Lol I’m not convinced of anything. Not sure why you guys take that so seriously. I’m just more interested by people’s personal experience than studies we know shit about the methodology they used and how accurate they are (I’ve actually heard time and time again that penis size studies aren’t very reliable because how hard - no pun intended- it is to select candidates and obtain reliable numbers).

The study I quoted was published in the British Journal of Urology, to the best of my knowledge around 9-10 years ago and has been quoted in other studies and distributed around the mainstream news media, both print and TV news