Cock Talk

See... a nice discussion and you have to go and be all grumpy. I'm not sure why you felt the need for that, especially given that it has been a pretty healthy and enjoyable discussion.

I was very clear in several posts that I said I hadn't read his other posts. Nevertheless, one's past behaviours does not make the statement true or false, only less palatable to the observers.
Please know the difference between "grumpy" and calling you out for your bullshit.

I tend to be direct. There is a time for tact. When it's needed, I'll attempt it. You were chiding people while admittedly not knowing the facts and you picked a side with extremely limited information. I'm sorry you didn't like being called out for it. Perhaps think before you speak next time.
 
In your eyes, in your mind
I'm a three out of ten
Out of nine, I'm just fine
I'm only whatever

What the fuck, suck my cock
I'm only a seven, out of twelve
When I wank, at the bank
I'm ten out of ten, my friend

/
okay I need 2 hours of sleep before my first work-day in almost 5 weeks. Night folks.
Oh, I love you, time traveler. Sorry that you have to go back to work.
 
I made some dad jokes at best and didn’t do what you’re talking about in the S&S thread. Ask any person here if if I PM’ed them with anything inappropriate. Also, I probably only made 10 posts in that thread total.
You made bad jokes. Every one of them was at a women. There was a reason my "swing and miss" joke played so well and it wasn't because I'm funny.
 
Please know the difference between "grumpy" and calling you out for your bullshit.

I tend to be direct. There is a time for tact. When it's needed, I'll attempt it. You were chiding people while admittedly not knowing the facts and you picked a side with extremely limited information. I'm sorry you didn't like being called out for it. Perhaps think before you speak next time.
Your facts are your own opinion and I didn’t do what you accuse me of.
I'm interested by all of the opinions by folks who've had zero interaction with the individual being discussed, and that somehow being pretty means that it's easier for me to be attacked by strangers, I guess? I'm very confused at this point
Show me where I attacked you?
 
I haven't read his work. That's why I asked. What's an example of "heavy innuendo"? This sounds like a term out of that sexual harassment seminar HR keeps sending me to.

Bloviating? I'm not sure why it's a negative to post long thoughts. This is part of my issue with SnS (though I do enjoy it from time to time). There is no room for deep conversation, by design. However, this thread is one that welcomes long interactions. So to come in a thread and criticize one of bloviating (a word I had to look up) is a bit silly.
Im not doing your homework for you, we can either choose to know what we are talking about or we can be (won’t say his name, this isn’t the politics forum)

I agree a healthy discussion is good, but it’s been when it’s a dialog where we are exchanging and responsif to what folks are actually saying and understanding the points of view where people are coming from.

Monologues are a very different communication technique from a dialog. Now we can get into the nature of is Lit a cliquey experience or not. I’d tend to think it’s no more or less cliquey than the world at large.

People naturally are drawn to those that bring them joy and improve their daily experiences. I’m vocal but my close audience of engagement is pretty narrow, which may come across as cliquey or not, I don’t know.

But there are very few people in the thread being discussed that reject anyone coming in friendly and respectful. You come in hot or start calling people names, you’ve broken the mores of a community and it becomes hard to recover from that like any other community.

I’d say that thread, in particular has been very welcoming to people relatively new, much more so than threads centered around one cult of personality which require fealty to that personality.

Making friendships on here does not equate to cliquish behavior and I’ve seen very few instances where someone, in almost any thread, has coming in being a nice person and not been allowed to sit at the lunch table with the other posters. If you’ve observed such behavior, as one who is calling clique, please point it out and feel free to name names, even if it’s mine. I’m a big kid, I can take it. If you are just calling clique without hard evidence……well then you are just being annoying for the sake of being annoying, which is the worst.
 
Again, not sure why you're so angry about what has been a healthy discussion.

The content of a statement is neither negated or affirmed by a person's reputation if the statement is a good statement.

I don't really understand what the bold part means... because no, that's not essentially what I said.

Many of the things we are discussing are matters of opinion. There will be different opinions. I know some people really like the thread and feel welcome. I made a statement from my point of view and made for the provision that I can be wrong. If you are so set in your ways that you can't make for that possibility, then you should reconsider how you approach topics of discussion. Several people have mentioned that they don't feel that the thread is inclusive, by nature. Even some of those you tagged.

It's a healthy discussion, bogey. I'm not sure what kind of bad day you're having, but take a breath. Crank up that oxygen machine and sit back and have a breather. :) It'll be alright, bogey.
I'm having a great day other than the Orioles losing but I appreciate the concern.
 
I’m not around much this week so . . .

How ‘bout them circumcisions? 🤷‍♂️

BTW, I am circumcised and loving it! 👍
There is this classic moment in Perfect Match (dating show on Netflix) where the guys are concerned about whether or not the new guy is circumcised because the house was at the time foreskin free.

Spoiler alert; turtleneck
 
You made bad jokes. Every one of them was at a women. There was a reason my "swing and miss" joke played so well and it wasn't because I'm funny.
I made the same jokes that everyone else makes in that thread and you had to be all “white knight”
 
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