Cock Talk

And to think S&S is filled with nice people like you. Gee what a great place. Nothing in my comments today were about me. If they felt that way it must be because you were choosing to treat me that way. Funny thing is I didn't notice.
No thread of mine was created to spew hate. If you are going to try to accuse me of something be right about what you say.
You do not and have never meant anything to me. Clearly I made the right choice about you months ago. I've never fallen for your crap and I won’t stoop to your level.
You're not the victim here. You're too smart to have been innocently making comments about s&s not responding to certain people. You know why a few posters don't respond to your posts and it has nothing to do with general exclusivity and more about being burnt when you actually did matter to us.
 
You're not the victim here. You're too smart to have been innocently making comments about s&s not responding to certain people. You know why a few posters don't respond to your posts and it has nothing to do with general exclusivity and more about being burnt when you actually did matter to us.
Edited to not continue drama where it doesn't need to be.


It is not about me. I told you all it was exclusive and cliquey when I was a part of your friend group. This discussion has nothing to do with that because I was not talking about me. People comment on my posts when I post there. I do not consider myself excluded in S&S.

I do think that there are people that are. You like it-fantastic.
 
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It is not about me. I told you all it was exclusive and cliquey when I was a part of your friend group. This discussion has nothing to do with that because I was not talking about me. People comment on my posts when I post there. I do. I do not consider myself excluded in S&S.
I didn't want to post again but I'm so tired of you and your vague innuendo and savior behavior. I did not bring any of the past up-you and bogey did. Our past “friendhip” means nothing in this context. You being unable to separate things speaks volumes about your behavior. You claim I air dirty laundry OP. I don't agree but even if I did that is in the past and I don't bring it up threads like this.

And OP, don't be confused, I don't give a fuck what you think. I haven't since the day I found out who you really are and what you will do to people while being their “friend”.

I do not comment on your posts and I do not interact with you. I do not consider myself a victim in any way and I never mourned the loss of you or Bogey as you were not my friends. I made peace with the shifting of my friendships. Enjoy your time on Lit and stay the hell away from me.
What was the really bad thing I did to a friend? I was certainly not the person who pretended to be someone's friend just to see if they are boning the guy they had already dumped.

Edit to add, how you interact with the man in the situation and how you interact with me speaks volumes about you.
 
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What was the really bad thing I did to a friend? I was certainly not the person who pretended to be someone's friend just to see if they are boning the guy they had already dumped.
I tried to let it go but ok-sorry everyone but here is some drama for you. 😂

If that is the story you are telling yourself believe it. If you are suggesting I pretended to be your friend to find out if you were boning Bry you're delusional.

Grow up OP you are arguing with me about someone else’s husband. It is ridiculous. And you two boning was not my issue. I lost the person I thought was my closest friend it fucking broke my heart. I tried to be ok with it all and I wasn't. I will not bring up anyone else because they are not here and deserve some fucking privacy.

I do not care about you. At all. It is past and done. Leave me the fuck alone.
 
I tried to let it go but ok-sorry everyone but here is some drama for you. 😂

If that is the story you are telling yourself believe it. If you are suggesting I pretended to be your friend to find out if you were boning Bry you're delusional.

Grow up OP you are arguing with me about someone else’s husband. It is ridiculous. And you two boning was not my issue. I lost the person I thought was my closest friend it fucking broke my heart. I tried to be ok with it all and I wasn't. I will not bring up anyone else because they are not here and deserve some fucking privacy.

I do not care about you. At all. It is past and done. Leave me the fuck alone.
I guess it's totally normal that we were friends one day then I turned into a horrible person because of that one thing then. But hey thanks for telling me that you'll "forgive" him for whatever you think he did to you while you treat me exactly as you have shown on these threads.
 
I guess it's totally normal that we were friends one day then I turned into a horrible person because of that one thing then. But hey thanks for telling me that you'll "forgive" him for whatever you think he did to you while you treat me exactly as you have shown on these threads.
I do not talk to any of you. I have not in months. Let it go. Seriously.
 
I have erectile malfunction, not to be confused with dysfunction. My cock randomly gets hard all day from love. I need more love.
 
I hear you but you pop in and out of shenanigans and are loved when you are there but it can get crazy and people understand when you aren't.

Last week, I invaded the UK thread. I assumed people knew I was being somewhat tongue in cheek but a lot of those forks likely don't know me well or at all. It could be seen as a cliquey thread but yet I was welcomed and felt comfortable there. I don't think that's always been the case here.
I do. I pop in and out cos it's fast paced, the time zones are different to me mostly, and also unless I'm there constantly, then banter and jokes are made that I have no idea of the relevance of.

I don't think anyone misses me when I'm not there, and everyone is perfectly lovely when I pop in with my snark. But I have looked in from the outside. And I know it can feel exclusionary. Even when I KNOW that noone there intends it, and would hate that it does.

I also know that threads where the same group of people post and chat both on and off lit and have a shared history can be daunting to new posters. There are threads where I won't join in, even if I have some frankly hilarious to say or insightful to add because the posters seem to be enjoying the company of those already there and I'd feel like I was disrupting their flow if I gatecrashed.

I'm not commenting on the guys who's posts started the discussion. Just on whether lit can appear cliquey. Of course it can. And referencing that chats go on with smaller groups in pm and in groups off of lit can only reinforce that perception, however unintentional that may be. Pile ons ore never pleasant, no matter how warranted they seem.

I've been inside and outside of cliques. And I know that you can be oblivious inside. And it can feel awkward outside. I try to include people as I'm sure most people here do. Almost all of you are lovely.

Anyway. As much as it pains me to say it..most of what @Lord Pmann said was correct.

Was there talk of cut v uncut cocks?

Uncut is the norm over here, except in some religious or medical instances. So I have experienced only one uncut.

In some ways it's... very different. In others, not so much. It does look like it could be more easily damaged.
 
I do. I pop in and out cos it's fast paced, the time zones are different to me mostly, and also unless I'm there constantly, then banter and jokes are made that I have no idea of the relevance of.

I don't think anyone misses me when I'm not there, and everyone is perfectly lovely when I pop in with my snark. But I have looked in from the outside. And I know it can feel exclusionary. Even when I KNOW that noone there intends it, and would hate that it does.

I also know that threads where the same group of people post and chat both on and off lit and have a shared history can be daunting to new posters. There are threads where I won't join in, even if I have some frankly hilarious to say or insightful to add because the posters seem to be enjoying the company of those already there and I'd feel like I was disrupting their flow if I gatecrashed.

I'm not commenting on the guys who's posts started the discussion. Just on whether lit can appear cliquey. Of course it can. And referencing that chats go on with smaller groups in pm and in groups off of lit can only reinforce that perception, however unintentional that may be. Pile ons ore never pleasant, no matter how warranted they seem.

I've been inside and outside of cliques. And I know that you can be oblivious inside. And it can feel awkward outside. I try to include people as I'm sure most people here do. Almost all of you are lovely.

Anyway. As much as it pains me to say it..most of what @Lord Pmann said was correct.

Was there talk of cut v uncut cocks?

Uncut is the norm over here, except in some religious or medical instances. So I have experienced only one uncut.

In some ways it's... very different. In others, not so much. It does look like it could be more easily damaged.
But you are missed when you aren't there and I believe this is not the first time I've told you that.
You know I'm friends with many of the regulars there but we have discussed when the pace gets frantic and missing jokes, so not understanding what's going on. You and I are pretty simpatico on jumping in when we feel comfortable and avoiding when it gets crazy. Certainly it can be intimidating but I have never seen it unwelcoming until/unless someone was disruptive or rude.
@UnquietDreams confirmed that @crazychemgirl goes out of her way to welcome folks and make them feel welcome. He also had a point that she hasn't been around as much lately due to other obligations and the place can have a different feel w/o her there.

As far as you saying Trump, I mean pmann, was correct, well, good luck in hell.
 
But you are missed when you aren't there and I believe this is not the first time I've told you that.
You know I'm friends with many of the regulars there but we have discussed when the pace gets frantic and missing jokes, so not understanding what's going on. You and I are pretty simpatico on jumping in when we feel comfortable and avoiding when it gets crazy. Certainly it can be intimidating but I have never seen it unwelcoming until/unless someone was disruptive or rude.
@UnquietDreams confirmed that @crazychemgirl goes out of her way to welcome folks and make them feel welcome. He also had a point that she hasn't been around as much lately due to other obligations and the place can have a different feel w/o her there.

As far as you saying Trump, I mean pmann, was correct, well, good luck in hell.
I don't believe we are disagreeing. Maybe arguing over the slightest of variances. And that would be more fun over an old fashioned.....
 
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