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[hotwords229_A]

me intuitively knowing @hotwords229_A is posting new Cock Talk questions today

Hey @EvaLane why don’t you take your request and shove it up my ass!

And by that I mean . . .

Anal!

Do you like it in the ass? Giving or taking?
How did/do you broach the topic of anal with your partner?
Do you like to be teased about taking it in the ass?
What advice would you give a novice about strap-ons?
Were you always curious about anal, or did it develop over time?
Would your partner be surprised if you suddenly blurted out that you wanted to use a strap-on?
Do you prefer a device or the real thing? How is it different?
Did you ever get a surprise in your butt? ie: an unexpected finger, a threesome gone awry, The Shocker, etc.? Did you like it?
What is your ideal scenario for first time anal?

 

[SixShooter14]

Hey @EvaLane why don’t you take your request and shove it up my ass!

And by that I mean . . .

Anal!

Do you like it in the ass? Giving or taking?

Giving has been fun. Not into receiving.

How did/do you broach the topic of anal with your partner?

First time were were dumb teens and neither had done it.
Later partner was more experienced and we talked about it long beforehand.

Do you like to be teased about taking it in the ass?

No

What advice would you give a novice about strap-ons?

N/A

Were you always curious about anal, or did it develop over time?

First time was curiousity, but it's not a particularly amazing experience for me. Just another position in the toolbox.

Would your partner be surprised if you suddenly blurted out that you wanted to use a strap-on?

Yes, I think so

Do you prefer a device or the real thing? How is it different?

N/A

Did you ever get a surprise in your butt? ie: an unexpected finger, a threesome gone awry, The Shocker, etc.? Did you like it?

No

What is your ideal scenario for first time anal?

Both ready (mentally and physically) be patient and comfortable.

 

[lavendersilk]

Anal!

I'm very curious to see what cis straight men will say about this one. I think it is incredibly sexy for a man to put himself in a vulnerable position.

Do you like it in the ass? Giving or taking?

I fingered a guy once. He really enjoyed it. The majority of the men I've been with have no interest in getting their backdoor entered. Not even with a pinky finger.

I actually own a strap-on, but I've never had the opportunity to use it on a man. It remains on my bucket list.

How did/do you broach the topic of anal with your partner?

It has come up in sexy chats...

Do you like to be teased about taking it in the ass?

Meh...

What advice would you give a novice about strap-ons?

Be prepared to make some adjustments. One size does not fit all...

I'm talking about the harness.

Were you always curious about anal, or did it develop over time?

*shrugs*

Would your partner be surprised if you suddenly blurted out that you wanted to use a strap-on?

N/A

Do you prefer a device or the real thing? How is it different?

N/A

Did you ever get a surprise in your butt? ie: an unexpected finger, a threesome gone awry, The Shocker, etc.? Did you like it?

I had a guy try to slip it in without preparation. It was not fun. Don't fool around when drunk.

What is your ideal scenario for first time anal?

Lots of C.P.T. Communication Preparation & Time

 

[Xerxes82]

Why do people find glasses hot?

I could write a small novella on this subject. I don't know that it would make any sense to anyone but myself, but there are a bunch of different, sometimes related, reasons.

Suffixe to say, a girl with glasses is fucking hot. Lol.

Has anyone ever seen a sexy librarian even once in their life?

Yes, yes I have. And I may or may not have fucked her 'midst the stacks a time or three. If you'll forgive the TMI.

 

[cocokittysurprise]

I could write a small novella on this subject. I don't know that it would make any sense to anyone but myself, but there are a bunch of different, sometimes related, reasons.

Suffixe to say, a girl with glasses is fucking hot. Lol.

Are the glasses hot, or is it just a hot person that happens to be wearing glasses?

Yes, yes I have. And I may or may not have fucked her 'midst the stacks a time or three. If you'll forgive the TMI.

An actual librarian, or a college student/person working at a library?

 

[Xerxes82]

Are the glasses hot, or is it just a hot person that happens to be wearing glasses?

This is actually a great question. Sometimes column A, sometimes column B. When you get that crossover it obviously hits critical mass.

But there have absolutely been times in my life where I wasn't physically attracted to someone, but then I saw her in glasses and that changed everything.

I concede I may just be deeply, deeply weird however.

An actual librarian, or a college student/person working at a library?

An actual, honest to god and completed all her schooling for it librarian.

 

[cocokittysurprise]

This is actually a great question. Sometimes column A, sometimes column B. When you get that crossover it obviously hits critical mass.

But there have absolutely been times in my life where I wasn't physically attracted to someone, but then I saw her in glasses and that changed everything.

I concede I may just be deeply, deeply weird however.

As a generally bespectacled person, this is so interesting. I can't recall anyone mentioning the hotness (or lack thereof) of my glasses. But I do suppose some people just look really good in them.

An actual, honest to god and completed all her schooling for it librarian.

I'm jealous... I have not stumbled upon any handsome nerd librarians, and this disturbs my soul.

 

[deft]

I can't recall anyone mentioning the hotness (or lack thereof) of my glasses.

I have an idea...

 

[cocokittysurprise]

I have an idea...

Whoo boy, let me buckle up for this.... what is this "idea", pray tell?

 

[deft]

Whoo boy, let me buckle up for this.... what is this "idea", pray tell?

Hot glasses selfie!

 

[peekingone]

As a generally bespectacled person, this is so interesting. I can't recall anyone mentioning the hotness (or lack thereof) of my glasses. But I do suppose some people just look really good in them.


I'm jealous... I have not stumbled upon any handsome nerd librarians, and this disturbs my soul.

you're HOT in them who are you kidding

 

[cocokittysurprise]

Hot glasses selfie!

I think I posted a picture of myself in glasses in the show us your face, thread.... wasn't trying to be hot, though.
I can not do "posed" sexy pictures if my life depended on it LOL

 

[peekingone]

I think I posted a picture of myself in glasses in the show us your face, thread.... wasn't trying to be hot, though.
I can not do "posed" sexy pictures if my life depended on it LOL

Smile click and shoot.

 

[deft]

I think I posted a picture of myself in glasses in the show us your face, thread.... wasn't trying to be hot, though.
I can not do "posed" sexy pictures if my life depended on it LOL

That's where the hotness lies, to be honest... unguarded moments, casual spectacle fiddling... because you don't realise it's hot! (To me, at least )

 

[EvaLane]

Hey @EvaLane why don’t you take your request and shove it up my ass!

Ok but you’ll have to practice your good girl poses

Do you like it in the ass? Giving or taking?

I will be mostly speaking as a enthusiastic taker during this wonderful, personalized, in depth Cock Talk questionnaire

How did/do you broach the topic of anal with your partner?

My husband and I met on Tinder, it wasn’t meant to be anything serious.

By that, I mean I laughed and rolled my eyes when he told me anal play was a must if we were going to meet up. Our date was set soon after

Do you like to be teased about taking it in the ass?

Absolutely! I mean, alright, I hardly really do “IT”. It’s mostly foreplay and sometimes some toys if it’s like a special night.

When is it a special night? When I decide it is

What advice would you give a novice about strap-ons?

I sadly have no real world experience with this, male or female, but this has spurred my imagination.

I can spin anything to fit into my kinks, but this may take some time

Were you always curious about anal, or did it develop over time?

I’ve been curious about everything for foreverrrrrr. Anal included.

Would your partner be surprised if you suddenly blurted out that you wanted to use a strap-on?

Yep, he definitely wouldn’t love that. My husband is a no-fly zone of sorts

Do you prefer a device or the real thing? How is it different?

The real thing, for sure.

In every context - anal, oral, on my face, out of his pants or in his pants or in anyway the real thing is better. The force and thrusts and desire, I can’t replicate that by myself.

Even with a partner using toys, we’re missing that heat and that extra edge that blurs the line between pleasurable and overwhelming.

Did you ever get a surprise in your butt? ie: an unexpected finger, a threesome gone awry, The Shocker, etc.? Did you like it?

Uh huh, something like something you suggested. Fond memories

What is your ideal scenario for first time anal?

I wouldn’t take back any of my first time experiences. They were ideal to me, nostalgic even. I don’t think first-time experiences like anal sex should be glamorized.

My advice? Just take it

 

[LadyLascivious1]

Anal!

Oh, hotwords. I have missed you and your delightfully filthy questions!

Do you like it in the ass?

I love it.

Giving or taking?

Usually taking, but I really enjoy introducing my partners to a bit of anal play too. Every single guy, especially those who had never tried it and had no interest on their own, came like a firehose when a finger was introduced during a blow job. And were very enthusiastic about repeats.

How did/do you broach the topic of anal with your partner?

I just said I tried it recently and really enjoyed it. It was one of the things I was introduced to during an open relationship

Do you like to be teased about taking it in the ass?

Not particularly, but I’m not shy about my enthusiasm for it. Enough so that my sister called at 3am once to ask an urgent anal sex toy related question

What advice would you give a novice about strap-ons?

I haven’t had any experience with them.

Were you always curious about anal, or did it develop over time?

Nope, I was vocally opposed. Then a new parter talked about it in a way that was devoid of pressure and made it sound so incredibly hot. I remember getting turned on just texting about it. At that point, how could I not try for myself?

Would your partner be surprised if you suddenly blurted out that you wanted to use a strap-on?

Probably, but I’m also the adventurous one so I’d say that’s less about me than them.

Do you prefer a device or the real thing? How is it different?

I’ve experienced the real thing and sex toys, but not a strap on. They’re both fantastic in different ways, similar to how sex and masturbation are different flavors. They both have their perks.

Did you ever get a surprise in your butt? ie: an unexpected finger, a threesome gone awry, The Shocker, etc.? Did you like it?

Nope, no surprises.

What is your ideal scenario for first time anal?

With someone you trust who has experience and you’ve talked a lot about it. A lot of build up is a must and a warm up orgasm and/or clit vibrator are great too.

 

[hotwords229_A]

The majority of the men I've been with have no interest in getting their backdoor entered. Not even with a pinky finger.

We are inherently afraid of this.

I laughed and rolled my eyes when he told me anal play was a must if we were going to meet up.

It would have been funny if you showed up to your date wearing a giant strap-on!

Oh, hotwords. I have missed you and your delightfully filthy questions!

Every single guy, especially those who had never tried it and had no interest on their own, came like a firehose when a finger was introduced during a blow job. And were very enthusiastic about repeats.

This seems to be the story I hear over and over. Curious.

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

Hey @EvaLane why don’t you take your request and shove it up my ass!

And by that I mean . . .

Anal!

Do you like it in the ass? Giving or taking?

Yes!

How did/do you broach the topic of anal with your partner?

The first time? It probably went something like "Hey we're good Christians so let me fuck you in the ass... its holier.

Do you like to be teased about taking it in the ass?

I like to be teased in all the ways.

Were you always curious about anal, or did it develop over time?

Ive always been a sexual and adventurous girly so it was a natural progression for me. For my partners, I don't think I've ever been with someone who wanted to be pegged but I like to make it clear Im open to pleasure in all the ways and all you have to do is ask.

There is a dumb stigma for men and Im glad to see it shifting. Yoir body does amazing pleasurable things. Why not explore every single thing that makes you feel good?

Would your partner be surprised if you suddenly blurted out that you wanted to use a strap-on?

Lol probably not but he would shut me down with extreme speed and force.

Do you prefer a device or the real thing? How is it different?

I always prefer the real thing but using toys in conjunction with the real thing is nice. Sometimes you want to feel really filled up.

Did you ever get a surprise in your butt? ie: an unexpected finger, a threesome gone awry, The Shocker, etc.?

Lol not exactly. But the first time I had my ass eaten, I was amazed how good it feels.

Did you like it?

I hope my feelings are clear, lol. I also think you can have a slightly different variety of positions with anal, especially if you have a big booty. For me this is a perfect, bent over the bed and fucked position.

What is your ideal scenario for first time anal?

Planned, relaxed, lube, slow at first, then off to the races.

 

[Apisto42]

@PrettyLilPussy19 and @LadyLascivious1 :

Bless you girls. You make life worth living.

 

[cheekygirl75]

Hey @EvaLane why don’t you take your request and shove it up my ass!

And by that I mean . . .

Anal!

Do you like it in the ass? Giving or taking?

I’ve only done it once, taking, but would be interested in trying again. Not so interested in giving but I would if my partner really wanted it.

How did/do you broach the topic of anal with your partner?

I honestly don’t remember how we started talking about it.

Do you like to be teased about taking it in the ass?

I’m not sure what that means… I guess? I don’t mind being teased in general.

What advice would you give a novice about strap-ons?

Uh, to ask someone else because I’m a novice too!

Were you always curious about anal, or did it develop over time?

I think I always was, once I learned it was a thing

Would your partner be surprised if you suddenly blurted out that you wanted to use a strap-on?

N/a - no current partner

Do you prefer a device or the real thing? How is it different?

I haven’t done it enough with the real thing to know, I don’t think.

Did you ever get a surprise in your butt? ie: an unexpected finger, a threesome gone awry, The Shocker, etc.? Did you like it?

No, no surprises

What is your ideal scenario for first time anal?

I guess what happened for me was good - we were both into it and open about it. We used a lot of lube and went slowly. Even though it was both first times doing it, it was pretty good. I don’t know why we never did it again, actually.

 

[Endless_Night]

We are inherently afraid of this.

Men are not the only ones.

 

[LordofDargaardkeep]

Do you like it in the ass? Giving or taking?

Neither

How did/do you broach the topic of anal with your partner?

If its something they need I can provide a finger, I have very large fingers or some anal beads, maybe a plug but my cock will not be going in

Do you like to be teased about taking it in the ass?

joking around about it is one thing but like anything else that could end up fighting words

What advice would you give a novice about strap-ons?

I have none to give...my cock works just fine

Were you always curious about anal, or did it develop over time?

never curious at all

Do you prefer a device or the real thing? How is it different?
Did you ever get a surprise in your butt? ie: an unexpected finger, a threesome gone awry, The Shocker, etc.? Did you like it?
What is your ideal scenario for first time anal?

Asses are for me to swat, squeeze and watch bounce. I will gladly slip a finger or two in if it helps get her off... beyond that they are exits only

 

[deefalttwunnyfor]

Do you like it in the ass? Giving or taking?

Giving is a lot more enjoyable for me

How did/do you broach the topic of anal with your partner?

Talked about beforehand, usually. Sometimes you might test the waters with a finger to see how the partner reacts. It's pretty exciting when you get the greenlight after that. Spontaneity makes it more fun

Do you like to be teased about taking it in the ass?

Negative

What advice would you give a novice about strap-ons?

Make sure everyone is comfortable

Were you always curious about anal, or did it develop over time?

It developed over time. I was in my early 20s, a few years ago, when I started wondering about it

Would your partner be surprised if you suddenly blurted out that you wanted to use a strap-on?

N/A

Do you prefer a device or the real thing? How is it different?

A device, but I might just not have enough experience with real.

Did you ever get a surprise in your butt? ie: an unexpected finger, a threesome gone awry, The Shocker, etc.? Did you like it?

The first one was very unexpected, but it didn't go in. Just kinda rubbed the outside. Did I like it... it was very unexpected, but it felt good

What is your ideal scenario for first time anal?

On a hot air balloon ride, trying to hide it from the pilot. Jk, I'm not sure I have an ideal scenario

 

[MedicalMuse]

Hey @EvaLane why don’t you take your request and shove it up my ass!

And by that I mean . . .

Anal!

Do you like it in the ass? Giving or taking?

Yup.

How did/do you broach the topic of anal with your partner?

Very openly? You can’t try it if you don’t talk about it

Do you like to be teased about taking it in the ass?

Mmm maybe? I’m not sure it’s really a tease like it would be for a guy.

What advice would you give a novice about strap-ons?

Lube. Go slow. Lube.

Were you always curious about anal, or did it develop over time?

Sure? I mean, I’m up for a lot. I guess I was curious and then there was experimentation

Would your partner be surprised if you suddenly blurted out that you wanted to use a strap-on?

Probably not lol

Do you prefer a device or the real thing? How is it different?

Plugs are fun. The real thing is better. Change in temperature.

Did you ever get a surprise in your butt? ie: an unexpected finger, a threesome gone awry, The Shocker, etc.? Did you like it?

Yes and yes. I think that’s kind of how I started enjoying.
I’ve also provided it and it was well received

What is your ideal scenario for first time anal?

Am I giving the experience?
Lube. Time. Focus. I want it to be a good experience, so lots and lots of foreplay and prep.

 

[SixShooter14]

Plugs are fun. The real thing is better. Change in temperature.

Next time, babydoll...next time