MedicalMuse
Near, yet far.
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Umm... NoWill it be reciprocal![]()
Why not interested in giving? If you don’t mind answering. Is it the lack of physical enjoyment for you? Or not wanting your man to be on the submissive side? I’m interested.Not so interested in giving but I would if my partner really wanted it.
Don’t tell @StillRain !but I might just not have enough experience with real.
Yes. In my mind, yes.Am I giving the experience?
Relaxing seems like the last thing I would do if something went in my butt.Relax and exhale![]()
Then be prepared for me to make you and your pleasure my focus.Why not interested in giving? If you don’t mind answering. Is it the lack of physical enjoyment for you? Or not wanting your man to be on the submissive side? I’m interested.
Don’t tell @StillRain !
Yes. In my mind, yes.![]()
That’s what you’d think…Relaxing seems like the last thing I would do if something went in my butt.![]()
I’m not sure, maybe a little of both?Why not interested in giving? If you don’t mind answering. Is it the lack of physical enjoyment for you? Or not wanting your man to be on the submissive side? I’m interested.![]()
Topping from the bottom is a thing. Jus’ say’n.I’m not sure, maybe a little of both?
Yes, it isTopping from the bottom is a thing. Jus’ say’n.
Ready!Then be prepared for me to make you and your pleasure my focus.
That makes sense. I always wonder what the woman gets out of pegging, other than the excitement for the act itself. I know they have strap-ons that also stimulate her, but I don’t see how that would really work.I’m not sure, maybe a little of both?
Sounds like you’d have to do some stretches first.Topping from the bottom is a thing. Jus’ say’n.
I can see I’m going to have to go rustle up a gang of biker chicks to assist me. I’m sure I can find some help.Ready!
That makes sense. I always wonder what the woman gets out of pegging, other than the excitement for the act itself. I know they have strap-ons that also stimulate her, but I don’t see how that would really work.
Also, having your guy in a submissive position can be a huge turnoff to a lot of women. Personally, I feel like I would still feel in control even if I were being spit-roasted by a roving gang of supermodel biker chicks.
Sounds like you’d have to do some stretches first.![]()
That would be my ideal scenario. It doesn’t have to be biker chicks, I’ll also accept a book club, some of your general friends, neighbors, etc.I can see I’m going to have to go rustle up a gang of biker chicks to assist me. I’m sure I can find some help.![]()
I love that you have an entire scenario to work with. I can come up with multiple opportunities for all of those.That would be my ideal scenario. It doesn’t have to be biker chicks, I’ll also accept a book club, some of your general friends, neighbors, etc.
Teasing is encouraged and I wouldn’t mind being inside someone else while someone else is inside me.
That has to feel good!![]()
I like you, but you frighten me.I love that you have an entire scenario to work with. I can come up with multiple opportunities for all of those.![]()
That’s what makes her so hot!I like you, but you frighten me.
It’s part of my charmI like you, but you frighten me.
I’m gonna remind you of thatThat’s what makes her so hot!![]()
Librarian convention. It’s the best.That would be my ideal scenario. It doesn’t have to be biker chicks, I’ll also accept a book club, some of your general friends, neighbors, etc.
Teasing is encouraged and I wouldn’t mind being inside someone else while someone else is inside me.
That has to feel good!![]()
Not a lot of guys speaking up so I’ll put my answers out thereAnal!![]()
Yes on occasion I like fucking a woman in the ass or teasing her with a finger or thumb to heighten an orgasm. Anal sex is not something I crave frequently and in general I much prefer vaginal sex. It’s not typically on the table or available to me as an option. I actually dislike anal in porn.Do you like it in the ass? Giving or taking?
Discussed it normally for giving. As far as taking, it was an exploring finger that first broached it.How did/do you broach the topic of anal with your partner?
Not particularly. I have been teased by someone on Lit that they want to peg me.Do you like to be teased about taking it in the ass?
Use plenty of lube and ask someone else who has experience.What advice would you give a novice about strap-ons?
Somewhat curious although leery as well.Were you always curious about anal, or did it develop over time?
If you mean that I blurted out that I want her to use a strap-on on me, probably not. She knows I’m a freak.Would your partner be surprised if you suddenly blurted out that you wanted to use a strap-on?
N/ADo you prefer a device or the real thing? How is it different?
Yes a finger.Did you ever get a surprise in your butt? ie: an unexpected finger, a threesome gone awry, The Shocker, etc.? Did you like it?
What is your ideal scenario for first time anal?
I don’t know! Curious about both. Mostly about taking, but a little about givingDo you like it in the ass? Giving or taking?
Uhhh… I think, way back when we had that conversation, I said I wasn’t interestedHow did/do you broach the topic of anal with your partner?
I’m guessing this question is more for the guysDo you like to be teased about taking it in the ass?
Hi, it’s me, the noviceWhat advice would you give a novice about strap-ons?
It has definitely developed over timeWere you always curious about anal, or did it develop over time?
100% surprised and uncomfortableWould your partner be surprised if you suddenly blurted out that you wanted to use a strap-on?
I’d probably prefer the real thingDo you prefer a device or the real thing? How is it different?
I had an ex that surprised me with a finger sometimes when I was on top. I liked it. I had another ex that surprised me by using my vibrator back there while he was fucking me from behind. Liked that, too.Did you ever get a surprise in your butt? ie: an unexpected finger, a threesome gone awry, The Shocker, etc.? Did you like it?
Someone I trust and feel completely comfortable with. Lots of playing with fingers and toys to get me ready, eventually leading to sex.What is your ideal scenario for first time anal?
Nope, there’s still time for you to slide in, nice and slow.Wait?!! Have I missed a hot boy anal discussion?!![]()
You’re missing the point of hot boy analNope, there’s still time for you to slide in, nice and slow.![]()
I thought you exclusivesly meant sexy images of yourself at first. Are you talking about sharing the porns?Do you like to share sexy images with your partner or online friends?
Yes, well, both I suppose.I thought you exclusivesly meant sexy images of yourself at first. Are you talking about sharing the porns?
Yep! Well as much as I can get away with these days.I hope this pics your interest
Do you like to share sexy images with your partner or online friends?
I do actually. I like knowing exactly what draws the eye and sparks the erotic imagination. I think putting that into words can be really interesting.Do you like to discuss sexy imagery with others, or is it just for you?\
Generally Tumblr. But lord, in my red state, it's getting harder and harder everyday. (No that kind of hard.... well ok, yes that kind of hard too!)What app do you use to share?
Mine is public. If you want to see my perversions and silliness, be my guest.Do you have a tumblr (or similar) sexy image account open to the public, or private invite only?
Some people...absolutely! I do feel like that often goes one way though and for a voyeur that could be better.Do you get off knowing that others are looking at what gets you off?
Yes.Do you slip your personal pics in every now and then to see if anyone notices?
I think vulnerable is one reason. It can also be a conversation starter. I may not bring up a certain topic but if I post a few picture on a given topic and they bring it up, that's a good way to start having a deeper conversation on what interests we do or don't share. I also like sharing things that I don't think get enough representation so that's also part of it.Why do you think sharing your porn stash is sexy, or do you? Is it the vulnerability? The potential shared interest? The sexy talk it leads to? Or something else entirely?
Haha, it really is just the vibe that's evoked and the mood I'm in when I see it. I will say anything taken for me goes straight to the top of my list though. I seem to have a photographic memory for those things.Do you have that one image that gets you horny every time? (My PMs are open)