As with all sex it's all about the mind.
1. An enthusiastic partner who acts like they are diabetic and your cum is insulin = fireworks.
2. A paint by numbers partner who is just ticking boxes and clearly hates it = may as well use my hands.
0. Don't even try.
Ultimately, 1 vs 2 comes down to the state of the relationship. Over a long enough period you will get a mix of 1 and 2s from your long term partner. But it never fails as a gauge of the current state of the relationship. If you are feeling like you dont like your partner that day you are just not interested. And thats normal. Generally tho, you want a majority of 1s over 2s. If too many 0s then you gotta start evaluating, although 0s will also happen in a normal healthy relationship.
1. An enthusiastic partner who acts like they are diabetic and your cum is insulin = fireworks.
2. A paint by numbers partner who is just ticking boxes and clearly hates it = may as well use my hands.
0. Don't even try.
Ultimately, 1 vs 2 comes down to the state of the relationship. Over a long enough period you will get a mix of 1 and 2s from your long term partner. But it never fails as a gauge of the current state of the relationship. If you are feeling like you dont like your partner that day you are just not interested. And thats normal. Generally tho, you want a majority of 1s over 2s. If too many 0s then you gotta start evaluating, although 0s will also happen in a normal healthy relationship.