Comparing Your Naughty Bits With Your Partner's Lovers'

[betabrad]

When I've asked , all the women I've been with tell me that I have the smallest penis that they've been with. After the first couple of times I heard this I started to focus more on my oral skills. I've still had a couple of women tell me they wish I was bigger, but they all loved the attention I gave their pussy with my mouth and tongue.

 

[Erodicus]

I had this girl I dated who would demonstrate to me how much different I was from other guys she'd been with. She'd do this with dildos or with just her hands. She'd say things like, "He was this much longer than you..." and hold her finger out about three inches past the end of my hard cock.

I have no problem if a woman tells me in a matter of fact way that I'm smaller than another lover. I like to hear all the unique details of another guys' equipment and how she responded to it - not just its appearance but what he did with it and how they had sex together.

To be ridiculed for being "inadequate" would be another matter. I'm comfortable with my average dimensions, so ridicule wouldn't make me feel inferior; but it would tell me a lot about the unpleasant kind of person she was.

 

[policywank]

My husband once told me that when a guy asks a woman how his cock size compares to other men and she answers with something like "size isn't everything" that translates as "yes I have had bigger cocks". And the more she talks about other factors or deflects the question the bigger they were or the more of them she has had.

That is a bit cynical of course......but I think there is a grain of truth there. Any time I have ever avoided the question the guy gets more self-conscious. I used to wonder why. Now I know so I just tell him the truth.

Seriously I have been with about 100 guys now.....unless you are at least 8" odds are I have had bigger.

 

[tnhardon]

My wife has never directly mentioned how my size compared to others she has had, but she has mentioned before that my cock isn't huge or small (which leads me to believe that she has had both bigger and smaller). She has also mentioned that I have very big balls, which again would lead me to believe that she is comparing them to others she has been with.

I haven't been with any other woman for intercourse besides my wife (fooled around with a gf but nothing past oral). I have a feeling it would bother me if I knew my wife's full sexual history and what other guys were like. I am a bit jealous that she has gotten to be with other people and I'd feel self conscious about myself. I know that she has been with other men, but I have asked her not to go into detail and she has obliged. It is good enough knowing that she enjoys sex with me and keeps coming back for more

 

[Horsemanuk]

A few of my partners have compared mine in various ways.

In terms of to past lovers, they volunteered the information usually after I drop my pants for the first time. Things like 'god its huge, and ive had big before' which lead into a brief conversation about how I was their new biggest. One ex i'm still in contact with on friendly terms told me im still her biggest.

I believe they were just truthful reactions as oppose to 'lighting up my ego' as I did not fish for the compliment. In the case of my ex also, we havnt dated for going on 8 years, so she had no reason to inflate my ego for me.

Admidtedly I do quite find comparison/measuring situations a turn on. Yet its not something everyone is comfortable with or can be misinterpreated as looking for an ego stroke.

 

[policywank]

A few of my partners have compared mine in various ways.

In terms of to past lovers, they volunteered the information usually after I drop my pants for the first time. Things like 'god its huge, and ive had big before' which lead into a brief conversation about how I was their new biggest. One ex i'm still in contact with on friendly terms told me im still her biggest.

I believe they were just truthful reactions as oppose to 'lighting up my ego' as I did not fish for the compliment. In the case of my ex also, we havnt dated for going on 8 years, so she had no reason to inflate my ego for me.

Admidtedly I do quite find comparison/measuring situations a turn on. Yet its not something everyone is comfortable with or can be misinterpreated as looking for an ego stroke.

I think most of us don't want to lie, but we also don't want to hurt a guy's feelings or invite negative backlash.

If you get a crisp definitive statement chances are that she is telling the truth. If you get a statement that seems to deflect from what is really being discussed she is trying to find a way to not lie, but also not hurt your feelings. That means she knows that a crisp definitive statement will not be something you find flattering or comforting.

 

[whenagain]

My husband once told me that when a guy asks a woman how his cock size compares to other men and she answers with something like "size isn't everything" that translates as "yes I have had bigger cocks". And the more she talks about other factors or deflects the question the bigger they were or the more of them she has had.

That is a bit cynical of course......but I think there is a grain of truth there. Any time I have ever avoided the question the guy gets more self-conscious. I used to wonder why. Now I know so I just tell him the truth.

Seriously I have been with about 100 guys now.....unless you are at least 8" odds are I have had bigger.

Ok but is that irl 8 inches or lit “8 inches”?

 

[Yesok1]

My girlfriend and I compare ourselves to each other. If have our tits out, and sometimes our pussies? It's all done for fun.

 

[Dashabout]

I've actually met and partied with some of the folks he and his ex-wife (haven't met her yet) use to party with and have compared parts up close and personal with them.

 

[policywank]

Ok but is that irl 8 inches or lit “8 inches”?

What is the conversion ratio? Lol.

No I mean real 8". They are out there, not common but they exist.

 

[whenagain]

What is the conversion ratio? Lol.

No I mean real 8". They are out there, not common but they exist.

Oh I know. . . An ex of mine said she’d been w a guy who was about 9 1/2. . . I didn’t believe her til she showed me a pic.

 

[Sgts19]

Her boyfriend before me was very big but sucked at oral sex.
She sure sounded she enjoyed him from what I heard coming from the next bedroom