Confessions: What Are Yours? Part IV

[Micio_Lambire]

ICT I feel like a cranky, old lady today

 

[SassySheDevil]

ICT I won't be starting a picture thread on here.

So where should we look?

 

[lil_jenni]

ICT that I am pissed. Yesterday, my two-year-old tells me I'm high maintenance. I asked where he heard that. He said from his "Auntie" (really Hubby's cousin, but we call her his aunt). So, I stewed on that last night and this morning.

IACT I asked her about it late this morning when the Kiddo was napping. She admitted she'd been talking to a friend on the phone and told her I was high maintenance. I told her I didn't appreciate that, and she told me she didn't appreciate me sexually assaulting her in our hot tub a few months back. That kind of left me speechless, and she stormed off to her room.

ICT I did kiss her and touch her breasts when we were both drunk. But she made it clear she's not into girls, so of course I didn't do anything else. And I've apologized (several times). I thought we were past it. I guess I was wrong.

IFCT that I think it is time for her to find her own place. It was different when we were all on lock down and her new job was only part-time. But she's at full-time now, and most of that is from home. She could do that at her own place using her own WiFi instead of in my house. And while there was an apartment shortage here right before lock down, I understand that is not the case now. I just need to figure out how to tell Hubby it's time for her to get the fuck out of our house without telling him the details.

 

[lil_jenni]

ICT that I am pissed. Yesterday, my two-year-old tells me I'm high maintenance. I asked where he heard that. He said from his "Auntie" (really Hubby's cousin, but we call her his aunt). So, I stewed on that last night and this morning.

IACT I asked her about it late this morning when the Kiddo was napping. She admitted she'd been talking to a friend on the phone and told her I was high maintenance. I told her I didn't appreciate that, and she told me she didn't appreciate me sexually assaulting her in our hot tub a few months back. That kind of left me speechless, and she stormed off to her room.

ICT I did kiss her and touch her breasts when we were both drunk. But she made it clear she's not into girls, so of course I didn't do anything else. And I've apologized (several times). I thought we were past it. I guess I was wrong.

IFCT that I think it is time for her to find her own place. It was different when we were all on lock down and her new job was only part-time. But she's at full-time now, and most of that is from home. She could do that at her own place using her own WiFi instead of in my house. And while there was an apartment shortage here right before lock down, I understand that is not the case now. I just need to figure out how to tell Hubby it's time for her to get the fuck out of our house without telling him the details.

I(now)CT I've had a couple of hours to calm down. I'm still pissed about the "high maintenance" bullshit comment, but I'm feeling guilty about what she said about the hot tub thing. If a guy had done that to her, I'd think it was pretty shitty. And Hubby certainly would say it meets the elements of SA.

IFCT that Hubby's cousin is helping out with the Kiddo since I'm going back to teaching (our classes are scheduled to start next week). I guess I shouldn't try to make her leave.

 

[Beth87]

I(now)CT I've had a couple of hours to calm down. I'm still pissed about the "high maintenance" bullshit comment, but I'm feeling guilty about what she said about the hot tub thing. If a guy had done that to her, I'd think it was pretty shitty. And Hubby certainly would say it meets the elements of SA.

IFCT that Hubby's cousin is helping out with the Kiddo since I'm going back to teaching (our classes are scheduled to start next week). I guess I shouldn't try to make her leave.

I also think she can emotionally manipulate you With the worst accusation ever to avoid accountability. Its not sexual assault if someone says no and the other person stops. End of. Tbh i think tell your husband so she cant pull manipulative crap or make out youre wanting her out to cover up assault.

 

[JerseyJade]

So where should we look?

Oh, here and there.

 

[SassySheDevil]

Oh, here and there.

Tease!

 

[Micio_Lambire]

ICT it's Saturday and I have to work in a bit and I REALLY DON"T WANNA GO. *stomps* Don't wanna go!!! *pouts*

 

[Micio_Lambire]

ICT today I feel pretty

IACT I'm hungry, lol.

 

[SassySheDevil]

ICT- I'm struggling with a guilt that I know is not my fault. I know there is nothing I could have done. But in the last 12 years, I've discovered 2 siblings I knew nothing about, and it's killing me that my Dad left these 2 behind. The Dad I knew and loved, had so much love to give. It just makes no sense to me.
IACT- Part of this guilt is because I grew up in such a loving home and these 2 both had drug addicted Mothers who's lives were both horribly rough.

 

[BadAmy]

Ict I am literally surrounded by so much duck shit, I kinda feel like I'm in Bartertown.

 

[Micio_Lambire]

ICT I want to take another road trip

IACT I need to shave.

IFCT I need a volunteer to do it for me. I'm bein lazy.

 

[Acktion]

Ict I am literally surrounded by so much duck shit, I kinda feel like I'm in Bartertown.

ICT this quacks me up.

Welcome to duck drome, mutherduckers! And, tonight, our two top-billed fighters!

 

[Micio_Lambire]

ICT this quacks me up.

Welcome to duck drome, mutherduckers! And, tonight, our two top-billed fighters!

ICT this made me giggle. Thanks

 

[Beth87]

ICT- I'm struggling with a guilt that I know is not my fault. I know there is nothing I could have done. But in the last 12 years, I've discovered 2 siblings I knew nothing about, and it's killing me that my Dad left these 2 behind. The Dad I knew and loved, had so much love to give. It just makes no sense to me.
IACT- Part of this guilt is because I grew up in such a loving home and these 2 both had drug addicted Mothers who's lives were both horribly rough.

I think its possible to honour the fact they had a hard life and it not diminish your own. You are innocent of the choices your parents/dad made. You (and to some extent your father) are not responsible for those mothers being unfit.

Im sorry youre carrying this

 

[MrsWithASecret]

ICT I have read this thread for awhile and am happy I set up an account to post in it.

IACT in my first real confession here I think about a younger co-worker when I have sex with my husband.

 

[Chillygirl]

ICT I didn’t want to miss him but I did

 

[SassySheDevil]

I think its possible to honour the fact they had a hard life and it not diminish your own. You are innocent of the choices your parents/dad made. You (and to some extent your father) are not responsible for those mothers being unfit.

Im sorry youre carrying this

Thank you Beth ⚘ I appreciate that.

 

[Pervy_Sage]

ICT my assistant principal is gorgeous, but smells like a cigarette factory burned down and has the talking voice of Barry White.

 

[lil_jenni]

ICT my assistant principal is gorgeous, but smells like a cigarette factory burned down and has the talking voice of Barry White.

ICT that the assistant principal at my new school is a nice looking man, and if I weren't married it might not bother me as much that I've caught him staring at my ass at least a half a dozen times since we reported back to work.

IACT school is out but I'm sitting in my classroom and waiting for there to be a lot fewer people around before I leave.

IFCT the only thing weirder than teaching while wearing a mask is seeing only half of the kid's faces as they stare back at me.

 

[Micio_Lambire]

ICT I like my oatmeal with just a bit of fruit and/or cream but, like my coffee I never add any extra sugar besides.

IACT I am currently eating my oatmeal and drinking my coffee in bed.

IFCT I am enjoying both au naturel

 

[Pervy_Sage]

ICT that the assistant principal at my new school is a nice looking man, and if I weren't married it might not bother me as much that I've caught him staring at my ass at least a half a dozen times since we reported back to work.

IACT school is out but I'm sitting in my classroom and waiting for there to be a lot fewer people around before I leave.

IFCT the only thing weirder than teaching while wearing a mask is seeing only half of the kid's faces as they stare back at me.

Ict masks are definitely weird. A bit disconcerting.

IACT every time I come back to Lit, I feel less and less welcomed, and thus less and less likely to return.

 

[Chillygirl]

ICT I talk a good game but I’m shit at playing it.

IACT I really like pissing Doms off and seeing how far I can push them.

IFCT I still miss him and I hate that.

 

[AbsintheFather]

IACT every time I come back to Lit, I feel less and less welcomed, and thus less and less likely to return.

It's not that you're not welcomed. Not at all. My take on it is this, when you've been been around a long time, yes you expect to slip easily back into that old groove.

The reality is that back when we were new here, we spent a lot of time posting and getting to know a lot people through pms, chats, IMs, Hangouts, etc.. Lit was all new and shiny and there seemed to be endless exciting possibilities. The reality is that many of the people we spent that time getting to know are gone.

As someone who has been around, it's easy to become mellow and jaded. Lit just isn't so fresh or exciting. It's hard to muster up the effort to make new friendships and bonds a second time around. You get out of this place only what you're willing to put into it. That's a lot of time and effort that you might not be willing to invest.

It's the same with me and as a result I probably come off as hard to know, aloof or unfriendly to folks who have joined over the last few years. It's not that at all, I just don't have the time to put into developing new relationships.

 

[Pervy_Sage]

It's not that you're not welcomed. Not at all. My take on it is this, when you've been been around a long time, yes you expect to slip easily back into that old groove.

The reality is that back when we were new here, we spent a lot of time posting and getting to know a lot people through pms, chats, IMs, Hangouts, etc.. Lit was all new and shiny and there seemed to be endless exciting possibilities. The reality is that many of the people we spent that time getting to know are gone.

As someone who has been around, it's easy to become mellow and jaded. Lit just isn't so fresh or exciting. It's hard to muster up the effort to make new friendships and bonds a second time around. You get out of this place only what you're willing to put into it. That's a lot of time and effort that you might not be willing to invest.

It's the same with me and as a result I probably come off as hard to know, aloof or unfriendly to folks who have joined over the last few years. It's not that at all, I just don't have the time to put into developing new relationships.

Leave it to my friend to provide an apt counterpoint. Thank you.