Control

[ouchfeelsgood]

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[may_I_please]

This thread is killing me

 

[may_I_please]

I wonder sometimes if the fact I get so much pleasure out of control means rather than him being dominant, I am and he is just my service top. Not that the nomenclature matters at all..after so long together it's hard to know where his kinks start and mine end. I know he scooped me up and took me here, I wonder if I'd met someone else at 21 if my sexuality would have been wholly different.

Was I born this way or made it?

 

[may_I_please]

This resonates, that expression...I know that feeling ...sometimes I wonder where the control is in this dynamic?

 

[Cumference]

......

Was I born this way or made it?

That is a really good question.

I have not seen any results regarding sexuality (the studies must have been made), but in most other topics, the results of twin studies surprisingly often end up showing, that we are 50% genes and 50% environment.

That topic really deserves a thread of its own

 

[may_I_please]

Portent

 

[may_I_please]

That is a really good question.

I have not seen any results regarding sexuality (the studies must have been made), but in most other topics, the results of twin studies surprisingly often end up showing, that we are 50% genes and 50% environment.

That topic really deserves a thread of its own

I was sexual but fairly naive at that age...I suppose I'm wondering if someone else had found me at that stage, would I be me now..

 

[Cumference]

I was sexual but fairly naive at that age...I suppose I'm wondering if someone else had found me at that stage, would I be me now..

You would still be you, but probably not exactly the same you.
Maybe it would just have come later?


Had you only known people with a strict sexual moral, you'd probably have done things differently.
Maybe never thought of it as anything but a whim?
Maybe have had the thoughts, but been tormented by the satanic lusts trying to draw you to the Dark Side.
Maybe done it anyway, but later having a bad conscience about it, or even having to leave the social group or becoming socially isolated?

 

[_Necrosomantic_]

 

[sweet_chelle]

Must have been some real sass from her

 

[SassyKatz71]

This is sadism. It is obvious he's abusing her internally. A very disturbing image.

It creates negative feelings. It is disturbing. She doesn't look like she's in pain by her expression, but, the tears constant flow says painfully otherwise. To whatever the hell he's doing. You can't really see what's in his hand.
Looks like he's holding it there. No movement from his hand.

 

[StrictlySpeakin]

 

[cookiecat]

It creates negative feelings. It is disturbing. She doesn't look like she's in pain by her expression, but, the tears constant flow says painfully otherwise. To whatever the hell he's doing. You can't really see what's in his hand.
Looks like he's holding it there. No movement from his hand.

I posted this for exactly that reason. Its uncomfortable. It evokes a feeling. Perhaps her tears are due to humiliation, not physical pain. We don't know.

But that's fine. Let's just keep posting happy memes about how fun it is to be daddy's obedient pet, slow motion spankings and choking because, you know, that's exactly how it is.

I like those, too. They're pretty to look at.

 

[_Necrosomantic_]

I posted this for exactly that reason. Its uncomfortable. It evokes a feeling. Perhaps her tears are due to humiliation, not physical pain. We don't know.

But that's fine. Let's just keep posting happy memes about how fun it is to be daddy's obedient pet, slow motion spankings and choking because, you know, that's exactly how it is.

I like those, too. They're pretty to look at.

I'm with you on both counts.

Automatically labeling that as disturbing or instantly linking it with negative connotations, is borderline ignorant. Don't misinterpret, I'm not calling anyone stupid for feeling the way they do, I'm simply arguing an opposing viewpoint. Yes, she's obviously rolling real tears, but why does that have to constitute some form of abuse? She's crying, not struggling, not being attacked. Don't forget, we all have our walls and limits. When you break down walls and start pulling things out of people, you are going to get a strong response, and often times, it's not going to be what most would consider " pretty ".
It's a bit close minded to make assumptions like this, based purely on aesthetics, and it also disregards a huge part of BDSM, especially when you're still figuring yourself out. We all have/had our moments.

And there's nothing disturbing or ugly about it.

But yeah, I dig the nice, clean, black & white ideals that are posted, I post a lot of them myself. But I'll take reality over pretty any day. Thanks for posting that Cookie.

 

[MastersDelight]

I'm with you on both counts.

Automatically labeling that as disturbing or instantly linking it with negative connotations, is borderline ignorant. Don't misinterpret, I'm not calling anyone stupid for feeling the way they do, I'm simply arguing an opposing viewpoint. Yes, she's obviously rolling real tears, but why does that have to constitute some form of abuse? She's crying, not struggling, not being attacked. Don't forget, we all have our walls and limits. When you break down walls and start pulling things out of people, you are going to get a strong response, and often times, it's not going to be what most would consider " pretty ".
It's a bit close minded to make assumptions like this, based purely on aesthetics, and it also disregards a huge part of BDSM, especially when you're still figuring yourself out. We all have/had our moments.

And there's nothing disturbing or ugly about it.

But yeah, I dig the nice, clean, black & white ideals that are posted, I post a lot of them myself. But I'll take reality over pretty any day. Thanks for posting that Cookie.

Thank you for this Necro. What's that saying? Your kink isn't my kink, and that's ok!

I have been that girl. Unbound, tears streaming, so very very fragile yet strong in endurance and servitude. I have sobbed into my Master at the end of an intense scene, to the point that others were concerned and double checked with Him that I was ok. It's not always like that, but sometimes it is.

 

[Farawyn]

I posted this for exactly that reason. Its uncomfortable. It evokes a feeling. Perhaps her tears are due to humiliation, not physical pain. We don't know.

But that's fine. Let's just keep posting happy memes about how fun it is to be daddy's obedient pet, slow motion spankings and choking because, you know, that's exactly how it is.

I like those, too. They're pretty to look at.

Very pretty. Very buff. Very clean.

 

[Dreamliner]

toys that should be in every bedside table

 

[Dreamliner]

stop wriggling, right that's two more

 

[Dreamliner]

Shhhhh

 

[Dreamliner]

what is on my mind

 

[Dreamliner]

Perfect

 

[Dreamliner]

Perfect 2

 

[Dreamliner]

Perfect 3

 

[Dreamliner]

the start

 

[drew4u4fun]

Good girl. She really needs her tits slapped.
When her head goes back.