To me, pussy / clit slapping is a hard limit. On my body, it borders on abusive. Having my pussy swell up to the point it's not useful isn't fun.
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I'm fascinated, though...
KimGordon - what you describe sounds hot. I have had it done gently, more erotically. When it was done with a crop, it was just too much and I've shut the whole thing down. Perhaps I need to revisit??
I have a pretty high pain threshold ... that sounds like I'm boasting a bit, but it was what my midwife told me, and I guess she'd know. But I'm not sure I could handle a crop either, although whether because of the pain or something else, I'm not sure. Our play is very physical - I think the only thing we've used that not's a bit of our bodies is a dildo a few times, and some ties once. Oh, and various bits of food, but that's all biodegradable, so hardly counts. We TALK about using other things, but it never seems to end up happening. I think part of the thing I like about it is the physicality of the contact - it means I know he can feel where I'm at. He does often starts quite softly though ... sometimes. Other times he just puts all his weight into it from the get-go. He says when I do it myself, I'm way harder than him, but I'm not really sure if that's true.
KimGordon - what you describe sounds hot. I have had it done gently, more erotically. When it was done with a crop, it was just too much and I've shut the whole thing down. Perhaps I need to revisit??
