Controlling what a person wears on a daily basis?

[L0tus]

No, I didn't want him to continue with it. It was something he thought he might enjoy, but turned out he didn't. Turned out he also wasn't very good at it.

Although maybe in time he would have picked up on how to match shoes with the rest of the outfit.

I laughed so hard at that!

The idea of someone dressing me has always made me completely apprehensive. Although the sweetest thing a dom has said is that I could teach him how to put outfits together.

Aside from that, my doms have never chosen my outfits but gave me general rules to follow. For example, I had to wear skirts at least 4 times a week. The wardrobe control lasted as long as the relationship was intact. With another dom, it lasted maybe 2 weeks and went off the grid.

 

[Catyrenee]

This isn't something I enjoy really and usually doesn't last long in my experience. My dress really depends on my moods and also plans for the day. Certain undergarments, accessories, etc are okay. Or something special every now and then is doable.

 

[jackofthedawn]

As a married man, nearly every item of my wardrobe was either personally selected or at least approved by my wife. She didn't often specify my outfit on a daily basis, but when she did my compliance was never in doubt. That's pretty typical, isn't it? Not necessarily BDSM or kink, unless it involves kinky items of clothing.

 

[SpunThings]

As a married man, nearly every item of my wardrobe was either personally selected or at least approved by my wife. She didn't often specify my outfit on a daily basis, but when she did my compliance was never in doubt. That's pretty typical, isn't it? Not necessarily BDSM or kink, unless it involves kinky items of clothing.

I don't think so. Not all relationships are negotiated as 100% authority in all areas of life.

 

[Bustins]

maybe not on a daily basis but when we have sexual escapades

 

[leashedbottom]

i hate wearing clothes and, except for my collar, go naked 24/7... even if i didn't love being naked all the time i don't have a say in the matter because my Master doesn't allow me to wear anything except maybe three or four times a year when He takes me to a gathering of His Friends, and even then its only to get me there, and usually nothing more that leather shorts, shirt and boots, and they come off once W/we reach O/our destination. The only clothes i have to wear are in the bottom drawer of the dresser and it is kept locked anyways

 

[SassyKatz71]

Would never happen. I'm capable of picking my own outfits . Being single I answer to no one . Then again ,Being in a relationship/marriage I answered to no one .

 

[KrullTheWarrior]

Doing this for the whole outfit sounds like a pain in the neck.

I do like making rules that certain items or kinds of items be worn.
But that would tend more toward jewelry, toys and underwear than clothing.

 

[HI_Life]

I've never done it on a daily bases . Not the entire outfit anyways. But I do like dressing a sub a certain way. What shoes, jewelry, color, what is not allowed to be worn. I've always had the pleasure of being with woman that had a scene of style and what work from them.