crying after sex

[MasterandSir]

So my wife and I were "playing" me dom and her my captive slave tied to the bed teasing the hell out of her with oral and not letting her cum and making her beg for me to let her cum and after she came she said thankyou in a whimpering and relieved voice then curled up and cried.....? WTF?

has anyone else have this happen?

Yes, when you push them hard it ends in both a physical and emotional release fairly often... I've had them crying and unsure why to hysterically laughing.

 

[switchbitch]

crying can be a wonderful release . It simply shows the intensity of feeling.

 

[night&day]

I Have A Sub

who wants rough sex and needs to be whipped and actually hurt. This is a long distance thing and she sends me pictures of herself being used and abused, before and after. She says that she loves when her "master" hold her after he has beated her and she is crying. One thing that puzzles me is that she doesn't know if she has ever had an orgasm. Could that be possible?

 

[Stella_Omega]

who wants rough sex and needs to be whipped and actually hurt. This is a long distance thing and she sends me pictures of herself being used and abused, before and after. She says that she loves when her "master" hold her after he has beated her and she is crying. One thing that puzzles me is that she doesn't know if she has ever had an orgasm. Could that be possible?

Sure, its possible! She can feel pret-t-ty dang good without quite making it to the release. And if she's never gotten to that point she won't be sure if she has.

 

[Felix_Jones]

Crying is a sign of weakness and conservatism.

 

[vintage63]

Crying is a sign of weakness and conservatism.

Really? hahaha

 

[Stella_Omega]

Crying is a sign of weakness and conservatism.

Ah. Just trolling, I see.

 

[kitkat88]

Yea we did talk about it afterward but not in great detail.

I wont go into detail of what exactly we did atm but we hadnt done anything really at this level that night. Only very light bondage and spanking we have done before. This time I suppose it was more physchological.

She didnt say the safe word at all and afterwards told me she was humiliated and didnt want to do things like that again.

Now I feel awful because I got off on it and she didnt.

I thought being in a 8 yr relationship she would be able to be honest during sex and now I feel I cant trust her anymore not to mention she will never be a part of my world.

8 years down the drain? and she will never be part of "your world" can't trust her? Jesus Christ what a sack of fucking shit you are. What she can't play to your level so game over? Do her the favor and cut her loose then go pay some Craig's list whore to act the way you want her to. Better yet go find a real Dominatrix to break your sorry ass and see how you like it. From my experience most who can give it certainly can't take it. I'd have cried too for 8 wasted years with a sack of crap like you.

 

[Felix_Jones]

Ah. Just trolling, I see.

Too dry? I was referring to the American house majority leader.

 

[thkdck4u]

Crying is a release. Some people cry when they are happy. It's just a tremendous release. I've had GFs that teared up after a big orgasm.

 

[tiedupsub]

hmmm

I feel a bit sorry for you, people have went a bit crazy at you. He said that they were only doing light things that they had done before and he also said in his other thread that they have done the same kind of thing before and that is obviously why he doesn't understand why she was upset.

Maybe the fact that she has a 10 month old baby and is spending her days looking after him/her leads to built up emotions, maybe she has been suffering from some baby blues or has other emotional issues, i think some people have been a bit harsh.

Although it is a bit rough to say that you are worried that she will never be part of your world, particularly when you are just looking into exploring more now, after 8 years without it, this world is new to you both so it seems like your a bit on your high horse to say that.

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[Lizzie_Borden]

I feel a bit sorry for you, people have went a bit crazy at you. He said that they were only doing light things that they had done before and he also said in his other thread that they have done the same kind of thing before and that is obviously why he doesn't understand why she was upset.

Maybe the fact that she has a 10 month old baby and is spending her days looking after him/her leads to built up emotions, maybe she has been suffering from some baby blues or has other emotional issues, i think some people have been a bit harsh.

Although it is a bit rough to say that you are worried that she will never be part of your world, particularly when you are just looking into exploring more now, after 8 years without it, this world is new to you both so it seems like your a bit on your high horse to say that.

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Well, the thing is, all that stuff you pointed out was pretty obvious stuff that he should have figured out, if he knew her so well.

And if you bothered to have a look at the way he posted, ignored the help and then attacked people who didn't pander to his views, you'll work out why people got arked up over it all.

 

[tiedupsub]

I agree that as her husband he should be more understanding of her feelings but we all know all men aren't great at interpreting feelings and many women bottle things up, especially if she is feeling emotional but trying to hold things together. I'm not saying that is what happened but there are many possibilities.

I think he didn't take the advice from others that have cried afterwards as his situation seemed different as she said that she felt humiliated and didn't want to do it again where everyone else that posted they had cried had enjoyed it and would do it again. But he should have listened to the advice that he should talk to her more.

I think if they were doing things they had done before and she enjoyed it that the crying must be related to some other pent up emotions. Either that or she has went along with pretending to enjoy it for him and has now finally expressed that she doesn't. Either way, talking to her is the only way to understand what caused it.

x

 

[your_dancer]

I think the idea of tears during/just after sex is a really hot idea.
To think that the sex is so emotionally charged as well as physical.
Definitely a huge turn on.