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I love it!And that’s ok! Do you enjoy watching them together?![]()
Isn’t it the absolute best when you can see and hear your partner sexually fulfilled.I love it!
Yeah... boundaries are essential and respecting them even more so. I believe this type of marriage (done with love and respect) is beautiful and can be necessary for some. But those boundaries are more like lines in the sand than stone walls. Over time, they can be adjusted and moved ... with all four hands of the married couple moving them, of course. We've seen that ... but there are some that won't be moved ... and I'm perfectly okay with that. The important thing for the "bf" (in my case) is that he's fully aware that he's expendable. I've had one husband (and plan to for the rest of my life) and 4 bfs ( one at a time and none overlapping). Kind of the wife's version of the men's "bros before hoes" thing lol. No third party gets to lead in our house. We've ended relationships when bfs try to blur the lines too much ... or if they want more of me than my marriage is willing/able to give. Blah blah blah ... lol. It takes work ... anything beautiful does.In the beginning there is a couple for whom each member has their wants likes, links and distastes. Hopefully, a lot of intersections exists between them so that their common likes far exceeds their miss alignment. So, your hubby is ok with you having a boyfriend, but does not want to be friends with them. That’s fine, he has clearly set his boundary for which, I am assuming, you have accepted. As long as you two stay within the boundaries of your lifestyle choice, no one will get hurt, and of course, I am also assuming that your boyfriends are also aware of the delimitation.
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Communication is an essential part. When the situation between the couple evolves, meaning it changes, then an adjustment towards any invited third party guest is required. Again, the couple’s relationship being the primary element.Yeah... boundaries are essential and respecting them even more so. I believe this type of marriage (done with love and respect) is beautiful and can be necessary for some. But those boundaries are more like lines in the sand than stone walls. Over time, they can be adjusted and moved ... with all four hands of the married couple moving them, of course. We've seen that ... but there are some that won't be moved ... and I'm perfectly okay with that. The important thing for the "bf" (in my case) is that he's fully aware that he's expendable. I've had one husband (and plan to for the rest of my life) and 4 bfs ( one at a time and none overlapping). Kind of the wife's version of the men's "bros before hoes" thing lol. No third party gets to lead in our house. We've ended relationships when bfs try to blur the lines too much ... or if they want more of me than my marriage is willing/able to give. Blah blah blah ... lol. It takes work ... anything beautiful does.
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We are obadiun husband.I don’t really have much of a relationship with my wife’s current boyfriend (I guess one could call him her bull too). We’re not really buddies. I’ve never interacted with him in a scenario that didn’t involve my wife. But he’s a nice enough guy and we get along well enough. Whenever he comes to visit us, we socialize a bit before he and my wife head to the bedroom. And I’m good with that. The only reason he’s in our lives is because my wife is attracted to him and enjoys screwing him.
I wholeheartedly agree. My wife’s bull/boyfriend has one job, one concern in our lives. He comes by when invited. Screws my wife. Then he leaves.Communication is an essential part. When the situation between the couple evolves, meaning it changes, then an adjustment towards any invited third party guest is required. Again, the couple’s relationship being the primary element.
I have had the privilege, because I believed it is a privilege, to have been twice invited, both times the husband was present.
If you ask me, I think it’s important for the invited guest to make a graceful exit at some point, once it’s clear his presence is no longer required by the couple. That’s just my interpretation of the situation, mileage may vary!![]()
I’m free on Wednesdays!I wholeheartedly agree. My wife’s bull/boyfriend has one job, one concern in our lives. He comes by when invited. Screws my wife. Then he leaves.
That works. She’s upstairs naked in bed right now!I’m free on Wednesdays!![]()