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Fantasizing about being her cuck
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I will admit that I find enjoyment when I am asked to cuck a husband. Of course communicate openly on what he enjoys seeing and hearing. I never really thought of it from a protective of being cucked. And honestly wouldnāt mind it. Have you had the chance to enjoy yet or bring it up to her?Being her cuck or fantasizing of being her cuck.
I have held this fantasy for a little bit now. Wanting to see her with another more endowed man or men.
It started a while back a little after we got married, men would stare my wife. It never really bothered me, and she was flattered by it.
Her big pair of boobs attract attention from men and, at times, women. She likes to keep a button open, letting her lace bra show at times. Some rubber necks make no qualm of looking down her bra. I donāt mind, and smile at them when I catch them.
To tell you the truth, it actually turns me on.
Anyone else? Feel free to talk or post a picture about it, as usual, always respectfully.
Vitriolhack
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Yes we did talk about it, not in the ācuckā framework but more of a swinging setting. Perhaps with another couple of friends.
She flirts a lot, but, I think, would never take the next step. We have been married 25 years, I donāt expect things to change.
Itās ok though, I have lit stories to keep me company!
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Thatās exactly it, the freedom to be ourselves with other fellow kinksters. To me, itās not a power play or a humiliation thing, not that there is anything wrong with that, but the feeling of being open and, like you said, transparent with very close selected individuals.
I am growing tired of wearing social masks.
You need to do it. If your marriage is strong both of you will love it. We had been doing threesomes for years. Then one day I was at work and she called and said one man we was seeing could meet us half way about 50 miles away. He had moved from our little rural town and it was becoming hard for him to get back here when everybody could get together. I was at work and could not get loose and go so I told her to go see him by herself. She said are you sure? I said yes he is looking forward to fucking you and there is no use to disappoint him just because I can't go. So she left about 10 am. I get off at 3 and and she got back almost 6pm. She didn't wear any panties or bra. I asked how it went. She said it was wonderful. He picked her up in the Walmart parking lot and went to the huge lake west of town and got a cabin. She said then he took her back but took her by Whataburger and they got something to eat. Then he took her back to her car. She spread her legs and showed me her pussy all full of his cum. It was oozing out down her thighs. I got down and ate it out of her. It was so good know she had went and met him and he fucked her all afternoon. We both loved it. We decided she should do it again. In a couple of months they did. She has a boyfriend here close that we had been seeing. She has been going and seeing him by herself. A few times she has spent the night with him at the casino. That is rare because he is married too. But since we are retired and moved to our place in the country he comes out here pretty often. They go to the bedroom fuck a while then they call me to come back and I suck his cock clean before he leaves. Then I get to eat his cum out of her. It is nice he can come fuck her in our bed.
I love being my wifeās cuck. I think sheās super sexy in my opinion. I like the idea of other men enjoying her the way I do or canāt. Itās sexy to watch my wife trying to seduce another man. My wife is very determined and goes after things she really wants .
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You seem to make a great pair!
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Definitely think itās one of those fantasies that might never be as good in real life. Also, the logistics, stds, finding a guy you both like, emotional risks, etc. thatās just me. I realize lots of people figure out how to make it work and are happy with it. Now, if it happens to occur naturally, like we are hanging out with a guy we know and like, I could see that working out. But strangers, meh.
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Being intimate with someone you know, trust, and get along with can be very pleasurable as you already have a vested relationship with that person.
With a stranger, I understand it could feel more transactional. However, some enjoy the anonymity of it all.
Humans are complicated!
We pillowtalked about this so much. And yes, once we decided to try to make it happen. We found it is something that is extremely hard to plan.
NO to close friends... How would you start that conversation.... and what if they said no. They know your secret.
NO to strangers... like you mention STDs, cleanliness. We trying Adult Friend Finder. Lots of pretenders, picture collectors, and weirdos that promise but never meet.
NO to locals (her limitation) doesn't want the guy to know where we live (at first). Or accidentally run into him out in public later. If it didn't work out and chose not to continue with him later.
Lots to think about. So, we shelved the fantasy. Until, a perfect opportunity just presented itself.
My wife's job transitioned from development to field implementation. This required lots of travel with many of the same co-workers (from other field offices) sometimes 20 of them and up to 2 weeks at a time.
Spending that much time away from home, with the same people, in hotels, meeting at restaurants / bars after work, alcohol... there will be co-workers, clandestine fucking.
She told me rumors of some hooking up, as well as some flirting. We decided this was a safe opportunity. A married guy, being secretive from others and his wife. Only wanting a fuck, and nothing more. I gave her the permission to 'play' if such an opportunity came about. It did not take long. She did partake.
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That sounds perfect. My wife used to travel a lot for work, with her boss. He had a reputation for sleeping with married women. She called him her work husband. I gave her a hall pass back then, and she even told him about my cuckold fantasy (probably when they were drinking). She said sometimes he would drink too much and she would have to get him to his room and put him to bed. She denies anything happened, but also hinted that he def wanted to fuck her. To this day itās a very hot fantasy and she knows I think about it. Iāve come while looking at his photo- imagining him fucking her. The icing on the cake is that he had a very big cock. I know this because my wife told me that once he pulled it out and put it on a pool table rail. For her to see. She said it was soft, but still huge.
She has a free pass, but she hasn't played... or do you think she is afraid to tell you?
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I think sheās afraid, tbh. I wish she would though. She would feel better and I would love hearing about it.
Does she still travel? She knows that you are ok with it. Mine was uncomfortable also, even thought we had discussed ot many times.. she said you can't put the genie back in the bottle once it happens. She was worried that once it became a reality, I would feel differently (almost like a post-nut clarity). It took lots of assurances and help from a female colleague who already was participating in some clandestine fuckings...
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You're right that that's how it got started. But fact follows fiction, in porn more than anywhere else. I don't think it would be as widespread as it is if it weren't for porn.
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I can totally relate. Sheās very sweet and kind and loving and, I think, loyal. So to her I think she would see it as a betrayal, even with my permission. Or maybe sheās just afraid sheād like it too much
She does still travel but only once a quarter or so, to NYC where her corp headquarters are. We still role play in bed and she seems to like the idea of it, but she always says that it would never happen IRL. Itās such an odd thing, our wives are acting exactly how most guys would want them to, whereas for us itās a bit of a disappointment. I would never think of pressuring her or coercing her into doing it, though. Thatās why I think that if it happened with someone we knew it might be easier. But there are plenty of potential issues with that, too.
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My mind being what it is, I used to fantasize about my girlfriend making me pay the repairman this way. And after she'd watched him thoroughly sodomize and degrade me on the kitchen table, she'd take him to the shower, and then to the bedroom for the rest of the day and the night.
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Love the idea of being dominated in front of my wife. Or the two of us being dommed together.
I agree... it planted the seed for sure.
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See that's a difference. In my fantasies of this type (and in my very limited experience) she is very much the domme. She might use other men to degrade me in various ways, and encourage them to rub it in, as it wereā but she's always the one in control of the situation.Love the idea of being dominated in front of my wife. Or the two of us being dommed together.
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The possibilities are as endless as the shades of grey. If she is of the type to be in control, and you are a willing participant, more power to the both of you!
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Or to her, anyway...
