cyber sex and how much fun is it
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I agree with most of the posts also. The anonimity is great, less inhibitions, freedom, creativity, it all ads up to a great time!
And Kayte, you are on target, as always
And Kayte, you are on target, as always
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Glad to hear all the good news
Hi Whspr,
Glad to hear that. I hope it turns out to be even better than expected. Looks like you aren't the only one. Very happy for you. Have a wonderful time.
Have a marvelous rest of the weekend.
kayte
whspr said:hmmmmmmm...I found the perfect cyber-mate myself....
he is very special....and he's all MINE!!!
Whspr
Hi Whspr,
Glad to hear that. I hope it turns out to be even better than expected. Looks like you aren't the only one. Very happy for you. Have a wonderful time.
Have a marvelous rest of the weekend.
kayte
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How about-
you kayte - have you found a cybermate?
Wanna play?
you kayte - have you found a cybermate?
Wanna play?
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Cyber is great as long as you know the person a little first. Never ever just say "anyone want to cyber" and go at it. The whole benefit of the encounter is pretending that it might actually be happening. It can't be real until you've made the person you are talking with real. I'm not just talking about seeing a picture either. Just talk for a while and slowly move towards the subjet. You will find it much more arousing and stimulating for the both of you.
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i also like to think it helps in RL, having a spouse that is inhibited, cybering lets me sexually explore & release my fantasies, somehow,,,,
the simple fact that i'm cumming at the same moment in time with another is part of the excitement
cutie pie said:
i also like to think it helps in RL, having a spouse that is inhibited, cybering lets me sexually explore & release my fantasies, somehow,,,,
the simple fact that i'm cumming at the same moment in time with another is part of the excitement
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Well I must agree with the one that said it doesn't do a thing for me....I prefer mine in person...or one on one....but thats not to say I haven't gotten many guys off with cybering,webcam and the phone.......
But hey it's much easier to get a man "off" LOL....if I feel the need I still prefer mine in privacy....takes less time and no hassle...but then again nothing replaces the real deal!!!!
But hey it's much easier to get a man "off" LOL....if I feel the need I still prefer mine in privacy....takes less time and no hassle...but then again nothing replaces the real deal!!!!
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hey roxie..nice av....
hey roxie..nice av....
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I used to cyber and even enjoyed it~~~~when it was new and a novelty. It was also at a point in my life where I wasn't ready to engage in real time intimacy.
Now, it doesn't do a thing for me.
I much prefer the real life, one on one feeling of sharing, touching, smelling, tasting and pleasing.
Now, it doesn't do a thing for me.
I much prefer the real life, one on one feeling of sharing, touching, smelling, tasting and pleasing.
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When I was new to the internet I thought cyber was the greatest invention since well umm since the internet. LOL I too got bored of it too. I realized from AOL that there are alot of gay men who want to cyber and I am not gay so it gave me the creeps to cyber if I couldnt be sure who I was cybering with. Yahoo chat with voice and webcam has changed all that.
The last woman I cybered with had sent me several PG rated pics of her and she was what I would like in real life. She was intelligent, classy, pretty. could talk about kids, work and world events AND she had a great body.
We started flirting and she admitted I was turning her on. I told her, "You want to see how turned on you have made me?" I then surprised her by turning on the webcam with Yahoo chat. I showed her and she loved it!
The only let down was it is kind of one sided when the other person does not have a camera but at least we could use voice.
I think what would make webcam sex better would be to do something together while sitting naked in front of the cam. Like playing pool in Yahoo games or cards or whatever. Lingerie slows things down and adds to the spice and excitement.
When I was new to the internet I thought cyber was the greatest invention since well umm since the internet. LOL I too got bored of it too. I realized from AOL that there are alot of gay men who want to cyber and I am not gay so it gave me the creeps to cyber if I couldnt be sure who I was cybering with. Yahoo chat with voice and webcam has changed all that.
The last woman I cybered with had sent me several PG rated pics of her and she was what I would like in real life. She was intelligent, classy, pretty. could talk about kids, work and world events AND she had a great body.
We started flirting and she admitted I was turning her on. I told her, "You want to see how turned on you have made me?" I then surprised her by turning on the webcam with Yahoo chat. I showed her and she loved it!
The only let down was it is kind of one sided when the other person does not have a camera but at least we could use voice.
I think what would make webcam sex better would be to do something together while sitting naked in front of the cam. Like playing pool in Yahoo games or cards or whatever. Lingerie slows things down and adds to the spice and excitement.
Cyber Sex and How Much Fun Is It?
Cyber Sex can be thrilling, it completely engages the mind which provides for the greatest experience in foreplay. To me, foreplay is the most wonderful part of the sexual experience. The climax is anti-climatic. If the fore play is superb the balence is equally good. I have found that if each partner is pretty much equally involved in cyber sex it is much, much better than if one has to provide a stimulus for both. However, nothing should be forced unless you are into that which I am not.
Like anything, I find if I engage in Cyber too often it becomes dull and boring. Thus I use it as a stimulant, a break, a new experience, etc. A really good cyber experience with the one of your interest can set the stage for a wonderful real life experience.
I have also indulged in erotic partner writings where she or I would write the first part of the script and then the other would write their part. The final script being shared reading and then later acted out between the us. I am pleased to say that was quite satisfying.
Cyber Sex can be thrilling, it completely engages the mind which provides for the greatest experience in foreplay. To me, foreplay is the most wonderful part of the sexual experience. The climax is anti-climatic. If the fore play is superb the balence is equally good. I have found that if each partner is pretty much equally involved in cyber sex it is much, much better than if one has to provide a stimulus for both. However, nothing should be forced unless you are into that which I am not.
Like anything, I find if I engage in Cyber too often it becomes dull and boring. Thus I use it as a stimulant, a break, a new experience, etc. A really good cyber experience with the one of your interest can set the stage for a wonderful real life experience.
I have also indulged in erotic partner writings where she or I would write the first part of the script and then the other would write their part. The final script being shared reading and then later acted out between the us. I am pleased to say that was quite satisfying.
cyber fun..
Well, I have only ever cybered with the one guy, and it was amazing... still is in fact!
Not what I was looking for, didn't even know how it worked! And we *met* in a dog discussion forum... and just clicked! Went to pm's, chatted at length, discussed more intimate things..
And discovered we had a lot of fantasies in common. He is vastly more experienced than me in a lot of ways, and has the most amazing imagination... so we use fantasies a lot when we cyber.
Think that's probably what does it for me.. the fantasies and the words...I can't see just mutually masturbating by cyber somehow.. not for me anyhow
We now write together sometimes too... and that is equally hot!
Well, I have only ever cybered with the one guy, and it was amazing... still is in fact!
Not what I was looking for, didn't even know how it worked! And we *met* in a dog discussion forum... and just clicked! Went to pm's, chatted at length, discussed more intimate things..
And discovered we had a lot of fantasies in common. He is vastly more experienced than me in a lot of ways, and has the most amazing imagination... so we use fantasies a lot when we cyber.
Think that's probably what does it for me.. the fantasies and the words...I can't see just mutually masturbating by cyber somehow.. not for me anyhow
We now write together sometimes too... and that is equally hot!
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mMmmmmm
cyber sex is really good if you like the person you are chatting with alot and you love to have erotic fun with him and you take it onto the phone ,maybe ,its so fun......MMMmmmm,or with a bunch of friends that all get along and have a cyber gangbang ,that can be fun too..hmmmm,I am free tonite.*giggles*
cyber sex is really good if you like the person you are chatting with alot and you love to have erotic fun with him and you take it onto the phone ,maybe ,its so fun......MMMmmmm,or with a bunch of friends that all get along and have a cyber gangbang ,that can be fun too..hmmmm,I am free tonite.*giggles*
>>flirtation Can Be Arrousing Yet Cyber....
Hello!! I agree at first cyber was fun...New...etc..I enjoy Intellectual stimulation along with Intimatcy..Iprefer a warm body!! Otherwise all the talk and flirting online Does Nothing for me..Im not one to get into Masterbation..Not to say I have Never...I just find the Best Orgasms wiht my Only #1 Lover > My Spouse..Hes Fantastic!!!
Hello!! I agree at first cyber was fun...New...etc..I enjoy Intellectual stimulation along with Intimatcy..Iprefer a warm body!! Otherwise all the talk and flirting online Does Nothing for me..Im not one to get into Masterbation..Not to say I have Never...I just find the Best Orgasms wiht my Only #1 Lover > My Spouse..Hes Fantastic!!!
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Well I am kinda still a virgin with cyber sex I have played a bit but never went all out yet..As far as phone sex goes well I have never done that yet either ..God am I pathetic or what
knightstalker said:Well I am kinda still a virgin with cyber sex I have played a bit but never went all out yet..As far as phone sex goes well I have never done that yet either ..God am I pathetic or what
no baby, you are not pathetic!!!! i will play with you
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you beat me to it Jewelz...hehehe how is everyone tonite????Jewelz said:
no baby, you are not pathetic!!!! i will play with you
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knightstalker said:Well I am kinda still a virgin with cyber sex I have played a bit but never went all out yet..As far as phone sex goes well I have never done that yet either ..God am I pathetic or what
Not in my book...cyber and phone sex doesn't do a thing for me either.....I prefer the old fashioned hands on and personal lovemaking.....I flirt a lot...but thats it....
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I guess some fantasies do cum true ..Jewlez you can play with me any timeJewelz said:
no baby, you are not pathetic!!!! i will play with you
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