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Daddy's Little Girl: Second Edition
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I love it when you talk baking to me!
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Good to see you! Those muffins sound amazing. Are there any left for the rest of us?
Are you getting enough rest?
Of course there are muffins and brownie cupcakes for everyone!
https://www.ghirardelli.com/wcsstor...-full-size/1153-macaroon-brownie-cupcakes.png
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Of course there are muffins for everyone.
Sorry the image is huge. I'll leave it up briefly then turn it in to just a link.
I could really use that right about now. I don't think I've ever had a muffin with chocolate chips.
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I love chocolate and I love muffins and pancakes but I have never been able to get on board with chocolate chips in muffins or pancakes
Something may be wrong with me ...
I love blueberry muffins though, and lemon poppyseed- yum!!
I’ve been behaving with my breakfast choices lately, eggs and veggies
Yes, I'm the same. I like fruit in my muffins and pancakes.
Eggs and veggies is a good breakfast. It's always different because theres different veggies.
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Just as long as the syrup is real for the pancakes.
I suggest lots of fruit with oatmeal and nuts. at least it works for me. And fresh OJ
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Yep, fruit in my oatmeal...especially peaches...or apples and walnuts. I like both of those combos on pancakes and waffles...and peaches with french toast.
I think tomorrow we are having Breakfast for dinner!
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Of course there are muffins for everyone!
Sorry the image is huge. I'll leave it up briefly then turn it in to just a link.
very nice
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Yep, fruit in my oatmeal...especially peaches...or apples and walnuts. I like both of those combos on pancakes and waffles...and peaches with french toast.
I think tomorrow we are having Brea for dinner!
It's more like oatmeal with my fruit Strawberries, raspberries, blueberries, banana, pineapple and kiwi along with walnuts, almond slices, and raisins. Not all at once, but mostly, depending what's still left. The fruit cutting prep time is not small.
I'm not a peach guy except for cobbler
Brea??? google didn't help
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Apparently Brea is a very nice town in California.
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yes, it is! Sorry about that! But...you learned something new today!
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I could really use that right about now. I don't think I've ever had a muffin with chocolate chips.
I love chocolate and I love muffins and pancakes but I have never been able to get on board with chocolate chips in muffins or pancakes
Something may be wrong with me ...
I love blueberry muffins though, and lemon poppyseed- yum!!
I’ve been behaving with my breakfast choices lately, eggs and veggies
These were not so much "muffins" as brownies in a muffin paper.
I agree that breakfast muffins should not have chocolate chips. These are totally decadent dessert items!
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*runs to check out the link!*
Ohhh, I missed that! Then, by all means, let's have some!!!
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For my Daddy Wolf and all the Daddies who watch over their Littles, thank you.
That was really, really pretty.
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For my Daddy Wolf and all the Daddies who watch over their Littles, thank you.
The other side of the conversation. https://voca.ro/ZvHUeUMPqIr
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Thank you. That is a wonderful counterpart.
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What is vetting?
“Vetting a new partner” means making sure they are who they say they are and doing your best to make sure they’re safe. It’s an old school practice in BDSM that gets ignored too often in today’s meet-online-first world. Before you get kinky with someone for the first time, do your homework on who this person is instead of just taking their word for it.
How should I vet someone?
Check their online profiles.
This works even if you met online first. Scroll through their social media profiles. What (if anything) do they say about themselves? Do they interact with people in ways that make you feel comfortable? Are they saying things that make you uncomfortable or go against your own morals or ethics? Who the hell are they online?
Don’t ignore negative feelings, either. Yes, we need full context to understand conversations, but don’t shrug off the things that ripple in the wind like gigantic-ass red flags, either. This potential partner might not know it, but their online profile tells you who they are — believe them.
TALK TO PAST PARTNERS
This one can be the hardest to do, especially if you’ve only met online but if you can, we highly recommend talking to past partners. If you meet someone in your local community, you can ask around. if you knew each other online before getting together, it might be worth reaching out to their former partners online. But don’t be afraid to ask if they have references. Tell them you want to make sure they’re safe to play with. If they reject that, it might be all the information about them you need.
Yes, of course, past partners can say whatever they want. But if MULTIPLE people tell you the same thing — good or bad — it’s important information to pay attention to.
PAY ATTENTION TO ACTIONS, BEHAVIORS, AND PATTERNS
Anyone can say the right thing. Some “Doms” and even “subs” pay attention to what others say to learn the language of DDLG and BDSM and repeat it at anyone who will listen. Words aren’t completely unimportant but that shouldn’t be your main source of information. It’s not what someone says that matters as much as what they do. If their actions don’t match their words, that’s a very bad sign.
And yes, anyone can fuck up once or twice, so that’s why it’s important to look at patterns. Some people are smart enough not to do the same thing twice, but if you’re constantly dealing with an “Oops, I forgot” or “Oh, my bad” kind of thing, that’s a pattern — even when the behavior is completely different each time.
I vetted them now what?
MEET IN PUBLIC FIRST
For the first meeting, start at a restaurant, coffee shop SOMEWHERE that isn’t their home or yours. A good way to weed out the fakes is how quickly they decline the invite to meet in public. Doing this keeps you safe AND makes it easier to get away if you decide not to continue the date.
Set up a safe call.
Let someone you trust know you’re meeting someone new — and where. They don’t have to know it’s for a kinky date, just that you’re meeting someone new. Give them a time when you’ll call or text and a time to check-in with you if you forget. And if they don’t hear from you, they need to call the police and let them know where you should be. A safe and experienced person may tell you to do this, anyway, which is a good thing. But it’s more important that the person you’re meeting not react negatively to the idea of a safe call. If they do, RUN.
What is vetting?
“Vetting a new partner” means making sure they are who they say they are and doing your best to make sure they’re safe. It’s an old school practice in BDSM that gets ignored too often in today’s meet-online-first world. Before you get kinky with someone for the first time, do your homework on who this person is instead of just taking their word for it.
How should I vet someone?
Check their online profiles.
This works even if you met online first. Scroll through their social media profiles. What (if anything) do they say about themselves? Do they interact with people in ways that make you feel comfortable? Are they saying things that make you uncomfortable or go against your own morals or ethics? Who the hell are they online?
Don’t ignore negative feelings, either. Yes, we need full context to understand conversations, but don’t shrug off the things that ripple in the wind like gigantic-ass red flags, either. This potential partner might not know it, but their online profile tells you who they are — believe them.
TALK TO PAST PARTNERS
This one can be the hardest to do, especially if you’ve only met online but if you can, we highly recommend talking to past partners. If you meet someone in your local community, you can ask around. if you knew each other online before getting together, it might be worth reaching out to their former partners online. But don’t be afraid to ask if they have references. Tell them you want to make sure they’re safe to play with. If they reject that, it might be all the information about them you need.
Yes, of course, past partners can say whatever they want. But if MULTIPLE people tell you the same thing — good or bad — it’s important information to pay attention to.
PAY ATTENTION TO ACTIONS, BEHAVIORS, AND PATTERNS
Anyone can say the right thing. Some “Doms” and even “subs” pay attention to what others say to learn the language of DDLG and BDSM and repeat it at anyone who will listen. Words aren’t completely unimportant but that shouldn’t be your main source of information. It’s not what someone says that matters as much as what they do. If their actions don’t match their words, that’s a very bad sign.
And yes, anyone can fuck up once or twice, so that’s why it’s important to look at patterns. Some people are smart enough not to do the same thing twice, but if you’re constantly dealing with an “Oops, I forgot” or “Oh, my bad” kind of thing, that’s a pattern — even when the behavior is completely different each time.
I vetted them now what?
MEET IN PUBLIC FIRST
For the first meeting, start at a restaurant, coffee shop SOMEWHERE that isn’t their home or yours. A good way to weed out the fakes is how quickly they decline the invite to meet in public. Doing this keeps you safe AND makes it easier to get away if you decide not to continue the date.
Set up a safe call.
Let someone you trust know you’re meeting someone new — and where. They don’t have to know it’s for a kinky date, just that you’re meeting someone new. Give them a time when you’ll call or text and a time to check-in with you if you forget. And if they don’t hear from you, they need to call the police and let them know where you should be. A safe and experienced person may tell you to do this, anyway, which is a good thing. But it’s more important that the person you’re meeting not react negatively to the idea of a safe call. If they do, RUN.
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