Daddy's Little Girl: Second Edition

[HeavyBalls]

Just discovered this page today. I really found it fun and I’d like to come back again and read more throughout the pages. There are a lot. But I will.

Welcome. We're a friendly bunch.

 

[Booboobear84]

Is someone still serving drinks??


I swear I’ve gone to look at more than a dozen homes in the last few weeks and the one thing I’ve learned about real estate is that the photos are always deceiving!!


This last house had a torn up front yard and the back yard is at such a steep grade - towards the house - that one good rain and you’d have a pond

Grrrr

Took us two years of looking. Hang in there

 

[barefootgirl69]

 

[HeavyBalls]

This is the Way...

 

[DarkSimian]

Without internet, I don't blame you!

It's too quiet here....

 

[barefootgirl69]

It's too quiet here....

Even the voices are quiet?

 

[DarkSimian]

Even the voices are quiet?

My cousin (who's a psychologist) once asked me if I heard voices. I told her I did, but they sounded like the cast of Star Trek: The Next Generation, so it wasn't that bad....

"Make it so!"

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

Resources for calming and self care

crisis/urgent support lines and sites
• hotlines/crisis lines for depression, domestic abuse, alcohol and drug abuse, teens, pregnancy, lgbt and more
• mental support community - a forum where you can post that you are in a crisis right now and need peer support as soon as possible
• https://www.imalive.org/ - online one-on-one chat for if you’re in at risk of hurting yourself etc


relaxation/anxiety relief
• do nothing for two minutes
• interactive silk art
• guided relaxation
• watch a dream
• 100,000 stars
• thisissand - create sandscapes on your screen with your mouse
• calming gif

music and sounds
• my anxiety relief playlist - on 8tracks
• my positivity/recovery playlist - on 8tracks
• ‘stay strong’ playlists - on 8tracks
• coffee shop sounds
• rain sounds
• calmsound - nature sounds
• rainycafe

comfort food
• one minute cookie in a mug
• brownie in a mug
• several cookie recipes
• loads and loads of snacks - 533 quick and easy recipes for a range of snacks on studentrecipe
• lots of different in-a-mug recipes
• chocolate pudding in a mug - my personal fave (lil tip: add mini marshmallows for extra gooey yumminess)

advice and tips
• how to be okay with yourself
• 25 resolutions
• life hacks
• more life hacks
• a hella ton more life hacks - so many life hacks soon you are gonna never have a day-to-day stress again
• how to love yourself
• alleviate menstrual cramps
• boost your confidence
• self help after anxiety
• stop biting your nails
• stop procrastinating
• stop skipping breakfast

videos and movies
• cure to sadness (video)
• random acts of kindness caught on film
• disney movies

distractions etc
• rice questions - answer simple questions and donate free rice to people in poverty!!
• how to make a blanket nest
• learn something new - a masterpost of hobbies
• exercise like a superhero
• nice words
• things to do when your sad
• slap a bald guy with an eel - this is ridiculously entertaining
• daily puppy
• how to make a comfort box

extras
• lots of compliments - they even include your name
• getting anon hate?
• 7cupsoftea - free, anonymous, confidential talks with trained listeners
• get a hug

Calming songs, playlists and instrumentals:
• Sing Me to Sleep
• Calm & Collected
• Once Upon a December - Piano (song)
• Clair de Lune (song)
• The Moon is a Harsh Mistress (song)

Calming/distracting Websites
• Rainymood.com
• Calm.com
• Soundrown.com - calming sounds to mix and match
• A website to distract yourself
• Ungruntle yourself
• Press a magic button and fix everything
• How to love yourself

Crafts and activities, easy and fun DYI projects
• Glitter calm jars
• A list of things to do to curb anxiety
• Make a blanket nest
• Silky summer legs
• Five minute fudge
• Make a phone case
• Pretty gold-dipped feathers (for decorating or anything)

What to do when:
• You’ve been triggered
• You’re having an anxiety attack
• You’re having a panic attack
• Your face is red and puffy after crying
• You just had a fight
• You hate yourself
• You want to avoid being stressed
• You want to get over your ex

Meditation and breathing
• Guided Meditations
• Do Nothing for 2 Minutes
• Calm Down
• Meditation Tips
• 5 meditation tips
• 90 second mindfulness meditation

Make Something!
• Make a Comfort Box
• Glitter Jar Or This One

Other Nice Things
• The Nicest Place on the Internet
• Player 2
• 10 Most Relaxing Online Games
• Talk To Someone That Will Listen
• Not Having a Good Day?
• Ground Yourself 1
• Ground Yourself 2
• Weave Silk
• Seed Plant Breeder
• This Is Sand
• C.A.L.M

Calming/Relaxing Music:
• Soft Piano: x, x, x
• The Sound of Waves
• The Sound of a Storm + Waves

as of this posting, all of these links should work.

kitty bumps

Thank you cas, for helping us take care of ourselves.

 

[barefootgirl69]

kitty bumps

Thank you cas, for helping us take care of ourselves.

Great idea, Honey!

 

[CutiePie963]

LOL well, there are some parts that might be boring...no guarantees!

Oh, I noticed that. But in a way, I found that fun too. At least it's not sexting and dirty posts all the time. I like that.

Welcome. We're a friendly bunch.

Thank you.

 

[Deacon_Voss]

This Daddy gets lost easily, lol

 

[barefootgirl69]

 

[Booboobear84]

A couple of weeks ago there were a few posts about lap sitting, and I mentioned using a rocking chair. I was a bit vague and inarticulate then. I have been thinking about it since, and want to share those thoughts.

When I was actually referred to as BooBoo by my family I was a lap sitter with my father. Specifically on his lap on the rocking chair in front of the fireplace (active fireplaces were pretty uncommon in that time). It was safe warm and comfortable, and there was a great deal of affection (perhaps not what you would expect from WWII Marine).

What I find interesting is how this translated as an adult. Like most healthy males I was interested in a female in my lap. Now as I have discovered my dominant streak, which is heavily influenced by a strong desire to mentor and care, I want to provide that safe warm space. There is something special about rocking someone. It's a very therapeutic kind of care.

Have any DDs or littles experienced this? Thoughts?

 

[barefootgirl69]

A couple of weeks ago there were a few posts about lap sitting, and I mentioned using a rocking chair. I was a bit vague and inarticulate then. I have been thinking about it since, and want to share those thoughts.

When I was actually referred to as BooBoo by my family I was a lap sitter with my father. Specifically on his lap on the rocking chair in front of the fireplace (active fireplaces were pretty uncommon in that time). It was safe warm and comfortable, and there was a great deal of affection (perhaps not what you would expect from WWII Marine).

What I find interesting is how this translated as an adult. Like most healthy males I was interested in a female in my lap. Now as I have discovered my dominant streak, which is heavily influenced by a strong desire to mentor and care, I want to provide that safe warm space. There is something special about rocking someone. It's a very therapeutic kind of care.

Have any DDs or littles experienced this? Thoughts?

I always have loved a rocking chair, it's soothing.. like rocking a baby to sleep. There's a lot of therapy being done today with rocking chairs...for anxiety and for patients with dementia.

As a little, it's my safe spot with my someone special.

 

[barefootgirl69]

My cousin (who's a psychologist) once asked me if I heard voices. I told her I did, but they sounded like the cast of Star Trek: The Next Generation, so it wasn't that bad....

"Make it so!"

You know what?

Mine sound like the muppets...especially those two up in the balcony laughing at people.

 

[barefootgirl69]

 

[DarkSimian]

I need to send BFG something random in the mail....

 

[barefootgirl69]

I need to send BFG something random in the mail....

Uh oh! I've gotten some pretty random things from you. This could be interesting!

 

[DarkSimian]

Uh oh! I've gotten some pretty random things from you. This could be interesting!

Oh, I know exactly what I'm gonna send you....

And an extra sippy cup

 

[barefootgirl69]

 

[Lost_Yonder]

If only life were so perfect...

 

[HeavyBalls]

One can only wish...

 

[barefootgirl69]

Oh, I know exactly what I'm gonna send you....

And an extra sippy cup

For all the margaritas I bought the other night?
I THOUGHT they were regular 6 oz drinks, so I got three.
I became the proud owner of 96 oz of the nectar.
I'm really happy with the watermelon one.

Oh, well, a little each night will get me through today.


Hey, everyone...Remember, tell your loved ones that you love them, you never know how things will go.

 

[DarkSimian]

If only....

 

[barefootgirl69]

It's afternoon and I'm going to have a drink and think about my awesome childhood running around barefoot with my brother. Everyone thought we were twins even though he's a foot taller - or was.

Once again, a PSA, don't put off calling loved ones because you're tired/busy...just do it.