Daddy's Little Girl: Second Edition

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It's become a hard limit for me! 😂
 
Red Flags

Okay, here is something that's being talked about in some DD/lg groups I'm in.

My little friends (no, not the ones in the movie Scarface. *says it with an accent* lmao)

Ahem...this is serious, pay attention! ;)

If you see an advert for something like this...
If someone messages you and tells you this...

Run. Like mad. As far as you can go.
Block them. From my perspective, I bet he already has a hole dug out back. Yeah, that sounds dramatic...but, is it really unrealistic?

Please, all my little friends...your safety is my utmost concern. I know finding a Daddy may be important, but finding the right one is best. Taking TIME to get to know them. No one should ever want to isolate you. That's just creepy - at the least.


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Okay, here is something that's being talked about in some DD/lg groups I'm in.

My little friends (no, not the ones in the movie Scarface. *says it with an accent* lmao)

Ahem...this is serious, pay attention! ;)

If you see an advert for something like this...
If someone messages you and tells you this...

Run. Like mad. As far as you can go.
Block them. From my perspective, I bet he already has a hole dug out back. Yeah, that sounds dramatic...but, is it really unrealistic?

Please, all my little friends...your safety is my utmost concern. I know finding a Daddy may be important, but finding the right one is best. Taking TIME to get to know them. No one should ever want to isolate you. That's just creepy - at the least.


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:eek:

Daddy's don't "own" littles. Period.
 
Were you afraid to experience things because some outsiders look at Dom behavior as "controlling/domineering" and in a bad light?

Early in my life I saw women fall for controlling guys who to my eyes treated them poorly. I refuse to treat a women poorly. I think in these cases I was right. I mistakenly thought this was related to the Dom/Sub relationship. In fairness, you see ads and responses to them here that don't look healthy. Fortunately I found this thread, and at the same time my lead got so strong in dancing I began to get what a healthy Dom/Sub relationship could be, and in a context with which I am comfortable. I was taught to cherish women growing up. It's only recently that I could understand the mentoring guiding role as dominant, and this removed the conflict I felt because I need to cherish and protect women.

I note that this is an over simplification of how I evolved, but at least hits the highlights. It's been a slow evolution with a number of little ah ha moments.
 
Okay, here is something that's being talked about in some DD/lg groups I'm in.

My little friends (no, not the ones in the movie Scarface. *says it with an accent* lmao)

Ahem...this is serious, pay attention! ;)

If you see an advert for something like this...
If someone messages you and tells you this...

Run. Like mad. As far as you can go.
Block them. From my perspective, I bet he already has a hole dug out back. Yeah, that sounds dramatic...but, is it really unrealistic?

Please, all my little friends...your safety is my utmost concern. I know finding a Daddy may be important, but finding the right one is best. Taking TIME to get to know them. No one should ever want to isolate you. That's just creepy - at the least.


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I really, really want to believe this isn't a serious ad, but satire. I fear however . . .
 
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I note that this is an over simplification of how I evolved, but at least hits the highlights. It's been a slow evolution with a number of little ah ha moments.

Thank you for sharing. I think, by telling of our journey and discoveries, we might help others who are seeking...but not quite sure or, maybe, afraid.

:rose:
 
If you see an advert for something like this...
If someone messages you and tells you this...

Run. Like mad. As far as you can go.
Block them. From my perspective, I bet he already has a hole dug out back. Yeah, that sounds dramatic...but, is it really unrealistic?

Please, all my little friends...your safety is my utmost concern. I know finding a Daddy may be important, but finding the right one is best. Taking TIME to get to know them. No one should ever want to isolate you. That's just creepy - at the least.
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Oh. My. God! What? There are so many red flags in that ad! Yes, what exactly what bfg said. Run fast, run far. Finding a good Daddy is hard, but worth the time and effort to search. Isolation from friends, family, etc? That is a huge red flag and indicates an abuser. You should always have at least a few people you can debrief with, complain with, discuss whatever with, whether they are family or good friends. Never, never, never depend on one person for everything! Developing a relationship is vital. All that chatting? Well, that's how you find out whether he understands you or doesn't. If he isn't interested in your life, your feelings, your world, he isn't the right Daddy! Oh, yeah, also, little's aren't owned by anyone but themselves. Take care of yourselves and be safe!
 
Holy crap. What a nightmare.

*note to self*

add 'How To Tell The Difference Between A Five Star Hotel And A Roach-Infested Dump' to the summer curriculum.
 
Okay, here is something that's being talked about in some DD/lg groups I'm in.

My little friends (no, not the ones in the movie Scarface. *says it with an accent* lmao)

Ahem...this is serious, pay attention! ;)

If you see an advert for something like this...
If someone messages you and tells you this...

Run. Like mad. As far as you can go.
Block them. From my perspective, I bet he already has a hole dug out back. Yeah, that sounds dramatic...but, is it really unrealistic?

Please, all my little friends...your safety is my utmost concern. I know finding a Daddy may be important, but finding the right one is best. Taking TIME to get to know them. No one should ever want to isolate you. That's just creepy - at the least.


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That just makes my heart hurt reading it. I hope they never find someone.
 
What are you calling us!? :eek:

I'm not calling you/us anything! :heart:

I was thinking that I need to teach my 0ffspring how to tell the difference between someone who could make a good partner and someone who might make their lives a living hell.

I was thinking about how some of us have to learn what a red flag looks like, and what a high quality partner looks like. And we have to learn how not to settle for what's available right now, and find peace in waiting for what we really want (This has quickly turned auto-biographical. 😂 ).

I was thinking about how healthy women have a default setting of no, until they find what they're really after. And how other women have learned a default setting of yes until it gets so bad that they can't stay any longer. I wish we were born with the ability to see through intentions that are less than noble, or concerning behavior, but some of us have to be taught. Taught how to recognize it, and taught how damaging it can be to ignore or accept it.

I think we can be blinded by our unmet needs. They can feel bigger and scream louder than any red flags. Learning to see them, and to respond appropriately, is a skill that can be learned. Maybe not quickly or easily, but it can be learned. Thank goodness.
 
Okay, here is something that's being talked about in some DD/lg groups I'm in.

My little friends (no, not the ones in the movie Scarface. *says it with an accent* lmao)

Ahem...this is serious, pay attention! ;)

If you see an advert for something like this...
If someone messages you and tells you this...

Run. Like mad. As far as you can go.
Block them. From my perspective, I bet he already has a hole dug out back. Yeah, that sounds dramatic...but, is it really unrealistic?

Please, all my little friends...your safety is my utmost concern. I know finding a Daddy may be important, but finding the right one is best. Taking TIME to get to know them. No one should ever want to isolate you. That's just creepy - at the least.


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That is just too awful to even comprehend 😞
It’s beyond creepy
 
Yep that’s definitely a calling card for the next Bundy 😳
Creepy and ick



This week has been one from hell, I’m sunburned to the point of blistering and being in constant pain, my job is forcing me to transfer departments back to the position I quit two years ago and if I refuse I’ll get canned, they also decided to write me up for bogus crap 😫

I just want to be able to have a Daddy to curl up on and play with his beard while he strokes my hair and helps me figure out how to survive the next 5 weeks

*sends tea and cookies
 
Hello Daddies and littles! I’ve been away for a while, but it’s so wonderful to see how active this thread is 😍
 
I think we can be blinded by our unmet needs. They can feel bigger and scream louder than any red flags. Learning to see them, and to respond appropriately, is a skill that can be learned. Maybe not quickly or easily, but it can be learned. Thank goodness.

I love when you get all "thoughtful" - it always gets me thinking, too!

I really wanted to highlight that part I put in bold! This is so true! Even I have given in to those needs in the past. When you feel alone and want Want WANT the relationship, you become 'restless and reckless'. That "frenzy" can show up and take over.

It helps to have others to talk to, so we don't feel alone. We are stronger together, I think. :rose:
 
Finding a good Daddy is hard, but worth the time and effort to search.

You should always have at least a few people you can debrief with, complain with, discuss whatever with, whether they are family or good friends.

Never, never, never depend on one person for everything!

Developing a relationship is vital. All that chatting? Well, that's how you find out whether he understands you or doesn't. If he isn't interested in your life, your feelings, your world, he isn't the right Daddy!

Take care of yourselves and be safe!

It's good to see you again...and these are worth repeating!!

That just makes my heart hurt reading it. I hope they never find someone.

Hi, I don't think we've met. :)
I hope that no one replies to him except those that have been questioning him...like, where's the proof of this other gf? They are wisely putting things there, and newbs should be able to see it's a strange proposal.

That is just too awful to even comprehend 😞
It’s beyond creepy

You got that right, Daisy! :rose:
 
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