Deep Throating

[kootenaychica]

Worshipping Him

I do love to worship the BEAST. Cock sucking is one of my favourite things. I love the challenge of deep throating a large cock too. I'm not satisfied with myself unless I've got him cumming down my throat but some men can't relax enough for that to happen. It takes a lot of passionate chemistry to get them there. Here's a few things I do that might help you:

1) Throat Muscle Building. When you're alone, open your mouth fairly wide and just practice flattening of your tongue downward & yes you can make that gag noise slightly/gently while practicing if you want just so you are aware of the mechanics of your throat. What you want is to practice forcing your throat muscles to open a little wider than they are used to -- kinda of like what happens when you yawn. Then you want to force your tongue slightly out of your mouth. Let it go a little in and out of your mouth ever so slightly. Do this many times in a row and daily.

This builds and tightens the muscles running from the chin down the front of your throat. (You'll thank me later when you realize you don't have that loose jowl of a throat anymore! ) This technique helps a lot if you remember to use it while attempting a large one (as in >7") or a thick one (as in >5" diameter). The whole point here is to stay as focused on this technique as possible. It's wrong to think "relax" because this is not a relaxing process. You need focus. The only part of you that's relaxed is your breathing. You're breathing slowly outward as you're filling with cock and you're breathing slowly inward as you're releasing it. If you're going to use a prop, that's great too, just go slow with it and make sure its very well lubricated. Can't stress that enough.​

2) Massive amounts of saliva. Instead of swallowing a lot, store your saliva until you come back up to the head of the penis and then allow it all to run out of your mouth and down the entire shaft. Men love feeling this too and it all helps you to take more of him in as you return to the task, each time taking more and more of him in.

3) Head twisting vs the Straight Up and Down. Switching up the task a little by ever so slightly twisting your head so your whole head motions a slight circular curve with each attempt. This gives you a little break and can be highly enjoyable as a new sensation for him. He may end up cumming quite quickly this way.

4) Saliva Control. Another switch up is to really suck up the saliva you've allowed to pool around the shaft as you pull off of him somewhat. This action of sucking up noisily is a turn on but also the mechanics of what you're doing with the saliva is the main point I'm making. I've been told it feels amazing. The sucking up and letting down of your saliva is an incredible assisting tool in allowing you to deep throat a large dick nicely.

5) Sucking Semi-Soft-Hard. Choosing to take him all in and practice while he's only semi-hard still. This is an excellent way to allow your mouth and throat to "acclimatize" The growth in length and circumference is much more manageable because you've got a bit more time to get used to it. With this method you really want to put your throat muscles to work massaging his hardening dick as you take him in and out of your throat.

Sometimes with this last technique a lover is shocked to realize he's getting hard again in record time after he's exploded down your throat. A man who's highly charged and responsive to your passionate, sensual ways may need to release quite early and get that first one out of the way. I never worry about that as these techniques often make him so incredibly horny that he either busts it all over again or he's throwing you back and deciding that it's pay back time! Gotta love that too. Let the games begin!

 

[nakdraven]

Cindylouwho had a really good point. If you're going to learn this technique, you have to practice with something lik a sausage or dildo or something. you will almost definitely throw up the first two times you do this. It's really powerful once you are able to do it, but it's not something anyone can accomplish on anyone. In the past, whenever I've done this to a guy, they have to be longer but not as wide, hopefully. A little extra width can make it nearly impossible. The keys are, as I know them:

1. massive amounts of saliva to lubricate, so stay away from milk or anything like that that might restrict saliva flow

2. breath out as the cock moves in. you don't want to inhale it-you want to swallow it.

3. Get past the gag spot. Once you're past it, it's much better. best to start work with a limp cock and then work it to past the spot.

4. Do not let your partner have control of the movement. He could really damage you by fucking at you just a little. You control it. having him sit and you taking the cock from slightly above so the angle is right is a good bet. Even better if he is tied up.

Nice tips.

 

[nakdraven]

This was one of the best posts I have ever read on here. Very thoughtful, helpful and comprehensive advice. Pity Don doesn't post anymore to see the thread has been revived.

Yep, very helpful.

 

[hulmule]

Plus, find that willing person to practice on... That would be me lol Nothing better than a good deep throat

 

[Templeton77]

Re: like i said 'Suck it and See"



Hi Teddybear,

There's a bit of a knack to giving good deep throat, and it does take a little (regular?) practice.

Most people gag when something solid and unexpected goes down there throat. It is a natural response. So how do you control the urge?

With practice, it can be done especially if you do it slowly and get used to the feelings involved.

Start slowly at the head, give it plenty of saliva as you slobber and suckle it, try not to bring him off too early and be prepared to control the pace at first, and throughout.

As he gets harder and you get hotter, gradually take a little more in your mouth. When you feel that you are getting that choking feeling, back off and take less until you feel comfortable. You can even let it all out as you get control back, but best to keep handling his cock while you do it. He will stay hard and enjoy the wait.

Back in control, with plenty of saliva, start the breathing trick, that is, as his cock moves in, either by you going forward to gobble or him pushing in,

breathe OUT as your mouth fills and IN as your mouth empties.

With a little practice you will get the rhythm. Then start down his cock, about a centimeter (half inch) a tiime, up and down SLOWLY, gradually taking more cock with each up and down movement.

Eventually you will have a full mouth and then a full throat, but it is most important to continue the movement (when learning) rather than give in to the desire the ecstatic deep short thrust that he will want.

To give good deep throat the woman needs to be in control. Therefore the preferred order of positions is

1. man on back, woman on top; she has complete control, but some men are apparently scared of this loss of control, so choose carefully and don't worry if it happens, just choose a more deserving recipient.

2. woman on back shoulders on pillow at edge of bed; usually considered an advanced technique because there must be trust between the parties that the woman will be safe and not injured by an out of control rampant cumshooting male, so leave this one until experienced or when experimenting with a more than casual lover.

3. standing with woman in front (preferably) squatting with knees wide spread letting the smell of her cum intoxicate her lover; this is my preferred position because I get really horny, and the girl can hold/stroke/squeeze/suck my balls or deep throat at will while practising the breathing trick.

While standing the man may be standing erect or if that give the wrong geometry, then have the man lean back against something, a desk top, sit on a chair is great, lounge against the wall.

Most importantly, do what feels good and don't be afraid to call the shots. Men love being sucked, it is one of the greatest pleasures they can be given, and they will 99/100 times cooperate to get it. If not, change to a more appreciative lover.

Final words of wisdom are found on the very extensive five star rated thread, How to Finish a Blow Job by the Queen of Cum herself. Just look at the top of this Board.

Ball sucking is a separate art form. Men vary greatly in their response to this one, so procced slowly and watch for the relaxed signals to proceed or the fear signals to stop and move to another pleasure.

Licking is generally OK with most men. The "terror" begins when you take a testicle in your mouth, and he wonders if you will bite it off (no kidding!!). GENTLY suck, roll it around in your mouth, watching for ecstasy, when he could easily push your head onto him to give more, or fear, when he will want anything except ballsucking. Relax, go with the flow, enjoy yourself. Again, if he is well endowed then he may be too big to mouth, so licking and kiss/sucking may be the best method.

When you are in a more than casual relationship you will be able to build the trust with your partner that ball sucking requires.

Enjoy!! I envy the lucky bugger that you have chosen.

Bookmarked.

 

[Curious_2]

Plus, find that willing person to practice on... That would be me lol Nothing better than a good deep throat

Ahem

 

[Curious_2]

I could just kill me sometimes. Dang Idget.lol

 

[Lucy_Lastic]

Cocks flex. You're on your knees, his cock is pointing at the ceiling... just get hold of it, point it at your mouth and go.

Have you never handled a cock before?

 

[mgrif024]

There is a way to somewhat suppress the gag reflex. I saw it done on a video, tried it myself and was stunned to be able to successfully deep throat a large realistic dildo. Truly stunned as I too have a strong gag reflex. In sequence, try the following:
1) fold your left hand thumb to your palm and curl your fingers around it tightly for about 5 seconds.
2) press your right hand pointer finger into your chin dimple for about 5 seconds.
3) using your right hand, tightly pinch the flap of skin and muscle between your left hand thumb and fingers for about 5 seconds.

Your gag reflex will be temporarily suppressed (not eliminated) but you should be able to get a dildo or a cock past it. And, I can tell you, it’s exhilaratingly salacious! I’ve only done toys - no real experience - but I can now easily do it without the sequence. I know what it feels like and can just push it in.
Good luck and let us know how it goes.

 

[Bigboobbabe]

besdies the obvious tips, you know , breath in ,as he goes in , the bed trick works really well, personally, i prefer to have him lay down on the bed, and me between his knees, then i have control , and he gets to lay there.. semi passively, plus, it stops all the unexpected thrusting that happens when you give head to a guy standing up,

a really thick penis , is hard , no matter what, if you can start hwen hes only semi erect, then you can , rather gradually get accustomed to his size, as he swells in your mouth ..


good luck , and remember, even if for some ungodly reason , you cant get the man all the way down your throat, he will still like it .

giving good head , is well, its a learned talent, a lot of females will never get it right, even if they are technicly perfect, they dont give the guy the last zing, because they dont enjoy it, and well, face it a guy can tell if youre doing it just to make him happy, or if youre giving head cause it gets you off too....

hope this makes sense

Semi-erect is what I think is key. KUDOS.

When he is semi-erect, he won't be as thick and he will be more flexible.
The angle of your throat and its diameter matter less.
If he grows in my throat, I tend to stretch to accommodate.

Beforehand, I use a lot of chapstick and Vaseline on my lips, especially the corners. If he is thick, your mouth opening may also be a limiting factor.

 

[BiliBottoms]

I am very proud of my deepthroat skill. I have a gag reflex, but it is so minor, I can easily control it which has come in handy. One of the first guys I sucked off was my worst bully, who made me pay protection, from him, by sucking his dick every Thursday after school. He had an average sized cock, but thought it was huge, so I had to make myself gag on it to get him off, even though I could do it without choking.

 

[Waiter519123]

Semi-erect is what I think is key. KUDOS.

When he is semi-erect, he won't be as thick and he will be more flexible.
The angle of your throat and its diameter matter less.
If he grows in my throat, I tend to stretch to accommodate.

Beforehand, I use a lot of chapstick and Vaseline on my lips, especially the corners. If he is thick, your mouth opening may also be a limiting factor.

You have some good points. Which my lover practices your technique often.

 

[Bigboobbabe]

You have some good points. Which my lover practices your technique often.

You are both very lucky.