degredation

[dirtycarol]

I didn't like it at first, but suddenly there was a moment, and I found myself really turned on by it. Later thinking about it, I became confused about my feelings towards it and found myself wanting to explore it farther. It took a while, (I couldn't bring myself to ask for it) then there was a guy who verbally abused and directed me and I loved it! I couldn't get it off my mind and wanted more experiences like it.

 

[southern_gal]

There is an inner part of me that craves to be treated like a whore and even humiliated or at least paraded around in public as such. I have fantasized about that for the longest. Now on to real life and the outer me. I would be terrified and embarrassed beyond belief if someone saw me dressed like my "inner whore". I almost wish that I could get fantasies like that out of my mind because I kinda worry that some day I might let him talk me into it.

 

[AutumnMiyuki]

I love to both degrade and be degraded. That's why boys with little cocks are my favorite. I once had a woman who got to me though. We'd only dated a little while. One time during sex, while I ate her out she called me "a bitchy little wannabe with mosquito-bites for tits". I was so offended I looked at her funny, I guess, so she buried me deeper into her as punishment. Dear god. Yum.

 

[abvt75]

There is a fie line between erotic and degradation

Ron

 

[thedarkestfairy]

The trick is in praising her for being exactly what You want her to be. i have certain limits, but let me tell You what: if i am on my knees to please You i have taken the position of a wanton slut and since that is what You want, my reward is in knowing i have pleased You.... Makes me wet just thinking about it lol

 

[lili_fromtx]

This is all about timing. Like outside the bedroom, no.

At the start of play. No.

But when I'm really turned on, and havent cum. And I'm at that moment where I am 100% into sex and a sex object, a well placed word can push me over the edge.

 

[CBM514]

This is all about timing. Like outside the bedroom, no.

At the start of play. No.

But when I'm really turned on, and havent cum. And I'm at that moment where I am 100% into sex and a sex object, a well placed word can push me over the edge.

This exactly 100%...it's like a momentum that builds and takes over...

 

[knottygirl]

Slut, bitch, cunt, whore... all these words can send a delicious tingle to my pussy when used in the right context.

 

[bill3901]

yep, with so many words - context is everything. I think people forget that sometimes...

 

[Lisaauk]

I love this topic.

I have found a number of sub women who love this sort of thing and it arouses me to no end. I only discovered this about myself a few years ago. Until then I was always so careful never to insult a lady in any way.

It is interesting to me that for some women, even those who enjoy certain "degrading" treatment and words, there is often one or two "hot button" words that they will not tolerate. I knew a lady who loved being called every nasty thing I could think of. I would describe her husband fucking her friends and laughing at her. I would describe a group peeing on her. You name it. She loved it all. Then I called her "bitch" and it was game over. We never chatted again.

I get this thread totally. And I just don't understand why. But there is something about it which is just an utter shameful turn on.

StrongMaster7 - what you describe there is really hitting the buttons for me in every way. If love to chat more with you about this.

 

[siobhansmut]

you are not alone honey ,nothing turns me on more than being humiliated and degraded and verbal abuse can be so erotic and i get very aroused by it , x

..agreed.

 

[kinktars_slut]

I enjoy witnessing it, or listening to the stories that y friends tell of their humiliated conquests. As far as enjoying it myself... Not so much. Call me a slut, tell me I'm your dirty whore and I'm a bad girl. That's about the extent of it, unless my lover wants to turn me off and sleep on the couch. Guess my Daddy, baby brother and uncles told me I was a princess one too many times.