Did my wife suck his cock?

Probably she did and it is a certainty that she hasn't forgotten if there have only been you two.

More importantly how in the world could she ever be honest with you if you are or were hung up on something as trivial as what she did before you were married and when she was dating another guy?

I wish she had told you "Ya I sucked his dick. You dumped me and I was with him. I sucked it all the time and he tasted wonderful. Now if you want to be married to a real woman grow the fuck up and deal with it."

No don't ask her again, but you owe it to her to apologize for being such and insecure narrow-minded tool. Don't ever complain that your sex life isn't "open enough" when she is compelled to tears for simply admitting she enjoyed another man at a time when she had no fucking obligation to you whatsoever.

Hopefully you have grown since but sounds like at the time you were an asshole. How else to describe a man who dumps a girl, then gets back together with her later and makes her feel like shit for being with another guy AFTER being dumped.
 
I think you misunderstand me. It was jealousy way back then. It turns me on to think that she might have done it now. I'd like to know for sure but I won't bring it back up to her after all these years. And as you've said, it really doesn't matter. Cheers

Serious question : would you like to see her suck a cock now?
 
My wife and I dated in college. I broke up with her because she was so obsessed with me and I didn't think it was meant to be for she and I. At some point, she started dating another guy I knew and I knew they were having sex. I got jealous after about a month of their being together and told her I wanted her back. She had only been with one guy and only once before me. At some point I had the nerve to ask her if she had sucked his dick and she immediately said no. With some degree of guilt, she later brought it up, said she could not lie to me, and said she could not remember whether she had or not but that it could not have been a regular thing ocuring only once or twice if at all. She was in tears. This was discussed on multiple times because for some reason, it was so important to me to know that my dick was the only one that had ever been in her mouth. It was finally left that she could not remember for sure but that she did not think she had. My wife is a very honest person and very devoted to me. I jerk off almost daily after 27 years of marriage thinking about this. It would not be proper to ever question her again about this after so many years but damn, it does fuel my fantasies. She gives me head most every time we have sex.

So....it is possible she could have forgotten? Do you think she gave him head? Tell me your thoughts; I'll probably jerk off reading your remarks.
Of course she sucked him off. and probably hundreds of other guys too.
 
The real question

If she was having sex with him it is almost a certainty that your wife sucked his cock. The real question should be HOW did she suck his cock...

Did she use her mouth on him as part of foreplay, licking, teasing and playfully sucking, making him as hard as possible before they fucked?

Or did she find that other man so desirable that she was willing to forgo her own pleasure, taking him fully into her mouth, lovingly caressing him with her tongue, sucking him, never stopping, tasting him, letting gush after gush of his warm creamy cum flood into her mouth...

Did she really give herself that completely to another man?

Has she ever truly given herself to you?
 
I know... The whole thread has gone completely hypothetical. I never could resist a good hypothetical. :rolleyes:

Me either! He has been active this month so hypothetically he could reply but after all the shit he got I doubt it.
 
Haven't read all the other responses but I'm confused. You said it was so important for you to know if yours was the only cock she has ever had in her mouth, so important that she had to lie to you about it, and now you're saying you get off on it?
 
Haven't read all the other responses but I'm confused. You said it was so important for you to know if yours was the only cock she has ever had in her mouth, so important that she had to lie to you about it, and now you're saying you get off on it?

I love hearing about my wife's prior sexual adventures. She likes sex, and I like that she does. I enjoy hearing about her pleasures, experiments, misadventures, etc. I don't feel competitive or jealous, just grateful that she is a sexual woman.
 
I love hearing about my wife's prior sexual adventures. She likes sex, and I like that she does. I enjoy hearing about her pleasures, experiments, misadventures, etc. I don't feel competitive or jealous, just grateful that she is a sexual woman.

Same here i like to heard what she down before im not jalous type it mamke me hard to heard all the fun she had
 
Since this is back up and giving the benefit of doubt, a question for the op...do you get off on her fucking the guy or just her sucking him?

Plus, you sound like your on a path to a cream pie if she'll work with you.
 
women usually remember this stuff
out of fear she probably pretended not to be sure
but one never knows, only she will ever know
you should believe her word
 
My wife and I dated in college. I broke up with her because she was so obsessed with me and I didn't think it was meant to be for she and I. At some point, she started dating another guy I knew and I knew they were having sex. I got jealous after about a month of their being together and told her I wanted her back. She had only been with one guy and only once before me. At some point I had the nerve to ask her if she had sucked his dick and she immediately said no. With some degree of guilt, she later brought it up, said she could not lie to me, and said she could not remember whether she had or not but that it could not have been a regular thing ocuring only once or twice if at all. She was in tears. This was discussed on multiple times because for some reason, it was so important to me to know that my dick was the only one that had ever been in her mouth. It was finally left that she could not remember for sure but that she did not think she had. My wife is a very honest person and very devoted to me. I jerk off almost daily after 27 years of marriage thinking about this. It would not be proper to ever question her again about this after so many years but damn, it does fuel my fantasies. She gives me head most every time we have sex.

So....it is possible she could have forgotten? Do you think she gave him head? Tell me your thoughts; I'll probably jerk off reading your remarks.

I'm kind of confused here. This starts off like a "Dear Abby..." type letter which you felt victimized because your wife sucked off her boyfriend. But it ends like you enjoy the idea? After almost 30 years if marriage I'd say it was time to let it go. But by all means keep the fantasy going.

I totally understand your fantasies. I pretty sure only my cock had ever been in my wife's mouth or ass. At first I was estatic about that but then as the years passed I got more secure in my relationship. Now I wish had more experience before me and that other men were fucking her today.
 
Excellent

As a woman I can tell you that we don't forget that easily

She has something she doesn't want to tell you.

Probably that when you broke up with her, she did a lot of guys

I love telling guys about all the other guys I have been with. But sometimes they can't handke it

I love hearing about past lovers
 
Haven't read all the other responses but I'm confused. You said it was so important for you to know if yours was the only cock she has ever had in her mouth, so important that she had to lie to you about it, and now you're saying you get off on it?

Of course. He's a cuck. And it was probably a fake story to make him cum that night.
 
I think the subtext was quite clear in his further quotes that he wanted it to have happened. Got over his jealous side and all.
 
I think the subtext was quite clear in his further quotes that he wanted it to have happened. Got over his jealous side and all.


You are correct that the subtext was that he wanted it to have happened. But if he was over his jealous side he would have profusely apologized to his wife for being such a tool rather than simply being disinclined to ask again. Sounds more like he'd like to indulge the fantasy but keep his delusions alive and make sure she continues to support them - not quite over the jealousy.
 
As a woman I can tell you that we don't forget that easily

She has something she doesn't want to tell you.

Probably that when you broke up with her, she did a lot of guys

I love telling guys about all the other guys I have been with. But sometimes they can't handke it

I used to enjoy hearing about my wifes encounters before she met me. I have her now so who cares what happened. Sometimes it turned me on quite a bit , I guess that is why we became swingers....She is ill now and lost her sex drive. but lets me play when I can. If you truly believe in your partner, it is just for the sex not love. Monogomy is about the dumbest thing in the world as far as I am concerned
 
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