Do any men don't like going down on a woman?

[Spenser41]

I so love eating a woman. I love it as much as fucking. But to please a woman, I love to more with my mouth.

 

[suckonsimon]

In my opinion, you need to put this quote in your signature. You'll be peeling the ladies off of your legs just to be able to walk anywhere.

Thanks for your answers, makes a lot of sense.

DarkLisa, have you any idea what a compliment like that does to a guy? It wasn't even addressed to me but suddenly the flies of my jeans are straining ...

Keep it coming lovely one you do us a whole lot of good.

Si

 

[amofiga]

In my humble opinion, there aren't too many things more intimate than eating an appreciative woman who cums on your face. Likewise, women who actually enjoy sucking cock and swallowing are those I usually class as "goddesses". 'nuff said.

I once saw a quote somewhere, "Show me a man that doesn't eat his woman's pussy and I'll show you a woman that can be had."

 

[GBPFan1975]

Like it? I love it!

 

[yossi]

In my humble opinion, there aren't too many things more intimate than eating an appreciative woman who cums on your face. Likewise, women who actually enjoy sucking cock and swallowing are those I usually class as "goddesses". 'nuff said.

I once saw a quote somewhere, "Show me a man that doesn't eat his woman's pussy and I'll show you a woman that can be had."

A friend of mine says, "If he's not willing to eat you out, just put your clothes on and walk out the door, because he's not worth your time."

Words of wisdom from her mom.

 

[walkingeagle]

A friend of mine says, "If he's not willing to eat you out, just put your clothes on and walk out the door, because he's not worth your time."

Words of wisdom from her mom.

I'm willing--

 

[exhibitinlight]

Women service me, I do not service them. Oral is submissive.

I think this displays a bit of a failure of imagination, as if going down on a woman necessarily entails kneeling passively between her legs or having her sit on your face (although both suit me fine!)

How about if she's on all-fours, with you burying your face between her legs from behind? You could be spanking her while you do it, bringing her close to coming then stopping and making her beg for you to continue.

That said, I think nuzzling and licking a woman's clit by its very definition makes you feel powerful - just that sensation of having someone else surrendering themselves completely to your attentions.

 

[DarkLisa]

That said, I think nuzzling and licking a woman's clit by its very definition makes you feel powerful - just that sensation of having someone else surrendering themselves completely to your attentions.

Truer words were never spoken. I can think of little else that is more vulnerable, and sometimes submissive, than having someone between my legs watching as I orgasm. No control over self, my
body fluids, the sounds coming out of my mouth, or the way I"m spasming helplessly. So very intimate and open.

It doesn't have to be viewed through a dom/sub lens, but it certainly can be, and certainly can be a very powerful gift to give your partner.

 

[NHBear]

Surprises

Satisfying my lover is so important....if kissing...licking...sucking brings her pleasure, I'm there.

Whether on my knees in front.....behind her, bathing both of her openings....or...whatever brings her pleasure....I am there.

No consideration of dom vs. Sub......no cares "who" is in charge......just us.....together....drawing pleasure....

And I love the surprises she may bring......a freshly trimmed treat....a new piece of jewelry....displayed for our enjoyment...

 

[hikingman37]

Depends on the emotional attraction for one. I love going doen usually for many reasons. To please, primarily. Added bonus is to do so as a submissive act. Having my face and mouth covered and fed is just that much better. Always asking for permission.

 

[RNJAG]

In general I love to give oral pleasure to women. I like the confidence shown by being so open, trusting and sexually comfortable to thoroughly enjoy the pure pleasure she is receiving. That being said hygiene is a big factor here too. Poor hygiene is an instant turn off. I knew a woman once, her last name was the same as a type of fish, and well....... lets just say I was convinced she had a dead fish between her legs. The shower lasted longer than the sex.

I know I will get there so I like to make sure she does too... Getting to the finish isn't the goal, You will get there, take your time and enjoy the trip. The better the journey the better the trip.

 

[eric60red]

I like the smell, the taste, and the feeling of her wetness on my tongue, the sound of her voice, and the look on her face

 

[simpletimes]

I find it amazing that there are men out there that do not enjoy the feel of a woman's body on their lips and tongue. I say "body" because there is no where that is not sexually stimulating about her body. The smell of her hair as you gently kiss her neck and shoulders. The feel of her stomach muscle flexing as you kiss her belly. The hardness of her nipples. The daintiness of her feet while sucking her toes. The smoothness of her back......I could go on forever.

 

[Sweetdaisymae]

I once saw a quote somewhere, "Show me a man that doesn't eat his woman's pussy and I'll show you a woman that can be had."

Very, very true!

 

[f15]

I could eat pussy from sun up to sun down. And I am damn good at it. But unfortunately my Girlfriend does not prefer it. And even she says I do a better job of it than any other person who has performed oral on her. She is very much into giving though. We enjoy other things so I have kind of just let this get put to the side. It is definitely something I miss but all things considered in the bed worse things can happen. But for the guys who spouses long for it and are not getting satisfied I can only say wow.....

 

[Tomahawk26]

Truer words were never spoken. I can think of little else that is more vulnerable, and sometimes submissive, than having someone between my legs watching as I orgasm. No control over self, my
body fluids, the sounds coming out of my mouth, or the way I"m spasming helplessly. So very intimate and open.

It doesn't have to be viewed through a dom/sub lens, but it certainly can be, and certainly can be a very powerful gift to give your partner.

I have often thought it must be amazing to be able to just lie back and be given an orgasm, like a gift... I would love to know what that's like, but have just never experienced it. I have been eaten and fucked in TONS of different ways by plenty of people, but I just don't think my pussy is constructed in a way that allows me to cum from very many things.

As for the dom-ness or sub-ness of ANY activity, to me it's all in how you're doing it. There are all kinds of ways of doing things that can make you either the powerful or the powerless.

 

[simpletimes]

I have often thought it must be amazing to be able to just lie back and be given an orgasm, like a gift... I would love to know what that's like, but have just never experienced it. I have been eaten and fucked in TONS of different ways by plenty of people, but I just don't think my pussy is constructed in a way that allows me to cum from very many things.

As for the dom-ness or sub-ness of ANY activity, to me it's all in how you're doing it. There are all kinds of ways of doing things that can make you either the powerful or the powerless.

I would think that you need a man that can take the time to electrify your entire being, to concentrate on your pure pleasure from head to toe, as well as stimulate all of your senses including your mind.
The total sum of a woman is in her totality, a gentleman must be able to bring out all of her emotions and make everything about what she wants and likes.

 

[eric60red]

Ya, and I love to kiss as well.

 

[Tomahawk26]

I would think that you need a man that can take the time to electrify your entire being, to concentrate on your pure pleasure from head to toe, as well as stimulate all of your senses including your mind.

My husband is a magnificent man who inspires slavish devotion in me, and he certainly knows how I work, and certainly devotes himself to my pleasure. Some women just don't get off like that--I'm not mad about it, more curious. Frankly, as far as foreplay goes, I'd rather be fingered than eaten pretty much any day of the week.


Sorry for the tangent, OP--I just find it necessary to explain further when anyone takes a dig at a man for the fact that his woman doesn't cum from oral. I've had many men act like I just hadn't found the right guy to eat me yet, and they claim they're the guy. While it's always very nice, and I'm certainly open to the possibilities therein, it NEVER makes my knees buckle--and of course, it always turns out that Mr. Expert Pussy Eater is wrong.

 

[simpletimes]

My husband is a magnificent man who inspires slavish devotion in me, and he certainly knows how I work, and certainly devotes himself to my pleasure. Some women just don't get off like that--I'm not mad about it, more curious. Frankly, as far as foreplay goes, I'd rather be fingered than eaten pretty much any day of the week.


Sorry for the tangent, OP--I just find it necessary to explain further when anyone takes a dig at a man for the fact that his woman doesn't cum from oral. I've had many men act like I just hadn't found the right guy to eat me yet, and they claim they're the guy. While it's always very nice, and I'm certainly open to the possibilities therein, it NEVER makes my knees buckle--and of course, it always turns out that Mr. Expert Pussy Eater is wrong.

I'm sorry I didn't mean to make assumptions about your husband. I was, as often happens, speaking before I replace the filter between my brain and mouth.

 

[Tomahawk26]

I'm sorry I didn't mean to make assumptions about your husband. I was, as often happens, speaking before I replace the filter between my brain and mouth.

Oh, what a nice apology! Forgiven. I tend to be a little prickly in the morning.

 

[simpletimes]

Oh, what a nice apology! Forgiven. I tend to be a little prickly in the morning.

Thank you fine lady for accepting my apology. Personally I am a morning person, love the early hours, my problem is I get a bit loopy the later it gets.
Being off today and tomorrow I tend to stay up past my bedtime and sometimes become a foolish old man.

 

[vinyllover]

I'm trying to address a question in for my Ms. Q & A column in my blog. I have a reader who says her boyfriend doesn't like going down on her. Any guys have these same qualms? Why?

Probably my favorite part of sex is having a woman cumming in my mouth. I've always enjoyed the taste, and texture. I love working my fingers into the mix. I enjoy getting blowjobs, and am relieved I enjoy reciprocating. I feel sad for people unwilling to give this act a try, since it is very intimate and a lot of un...plus, it is a nice sense of control to have a gorgeous pussy in your mouth.

 

[DarkLisa]

Thank you fine lady for accepting my apology. Personally I am a morning person, love the early hours, my problem is I get a bit loopy the later it gets.
Being off today and tomorrow I tend to stay up past my bedtime and sometimes become a foolish old man.

Don't be too hard on yourself. She's absolutely right about assumptions, but statistically you probably nailed it. Lots of ladies are out there who *think* they can't cum from whatever sexual act, and that they are the reason, when actually they just need a man who knows what he's doing. She's so lucky that she knows for a fact it's not for lack of trying so they can move on and do what really makes them both happy.

 

[simpletimes]

Don't be too hard on yourself. She's absolutely right about assumptions, but statistically you probably nailed it. Lots of ladies are out there who *think* they can't cum from whatever sexual act, and that they are the reason, when actually they just need a man who knows what he's doing. She's so lucky that she knows for a fact it's not for lack of trying so they can move on and do what really makes them both happy.

My wife (ex) could only reach climax through oral, I think more so it was her lack of open mindedness to anything other than me going down on her until she reached orgasm and then allowing a mercy screw. Nothing else was allowed by her, and never would her lips dare to venture anywhere but a kiss.
Oh well, sad stories are never lacking on lit.