Do women like rough men, particularly being slapped(during play)

[Ely1987]

I can't say I'm an expert in this field, but I believe the majority don't like it. Such things are not for everyone, so be sure to ask if your partner is okay with it before trying it.

 

[Fl_maledad]

To each their own. I could never hit a woman. I like to be dominant, but I couldn’t go that far.

 

[Fl_maledad]

It's despicable bullshit. It is a classical demonstration of male insecurity, which has become endemic here in the United States.

Well said!

 

[Fl_maledad]

Thanks for doing your part to keep Lit a judgment-free zone.

Difference in judgment and opinion, I think that was an opinion.

 

[PinkLemonade22]

I love being slapped, choked, even a punch, but I have to trust the guy 100%

 

[bala7400]

Yes woman like rough man, rough sex and yes particularly being slapped when fuck.
My wife proved that and I'm eye weetness. Its started very terribly. But she now felt comfortable and enjoying.

 

[bala7400]

Slapped on my ass maybe but not my face. I do like being tossed around like a toy by guys much much bigger than me. Xtra points if they're black with an actual BBC

You are right slapped on ass maybe ok but not on face. I never slapped my wife's ass or any other part in our 16 + years married life. She didn't like it. When we started to spouse swapp he was gentle when we first met my house but we met his home second time he was very rough and started to slapped my. Ass is ok but he slapped my wife's face and breats too. Very hard. It was unexpected for my wife. It was long story but now my wife love to be slapped but ass only.

 

[Christy2Cum]

NO! Do not slap me, period.
I like a spank on my ass but if you slap my face, we're done, end of story.

 

[StrongMaster7]

Yes. Some definitely do and others definitely do not. Be sure to ask first.

I have been with one woman who enjoyed and was very turned on by rough sex. She especially liked to have her nipples pulled, twisted, pinched and clamped. And she also like to have her breasts and pussy spanked, paddled, whipped, and slapped. It was the most intense sexual experience of my life to hear her coming as she begged for more slapping. She would cry out in pain and growl, 'Don't stop!". When I first met her in a crowded bar, we whispered to each other about her wanting to have her tits slapped. And she became very aroused. Finally, she said she needed it right then and walked me outside. We got into my pickup and I paused. I saw the look in her eye. Animal arousal. I unhooked her dress and loosened the top and lifted her nice breasts into view. I paused, then began slapping her breasts. Again and again. Hard. Her body shook as she came. I kept slapping. She kept coming.

I miss her.

Not long ago, I was with my wife enjoying her big breasts and she got to the point of having a whole body orgasm from my hands and mouth on her breasts and nipples. As she was coming, I backed away and the sight of one of her breasts hanging, bouncing, shaking, inches from my face overcame me. I slapped her breast once and she immediately froze and reacted very negatively.

The lesson? Always ask or be asked before striking anyone.

 

[nutoseen]

To all you boys who got your feelings hurt by my comment, let me explain my "view of the world."

I can't go for a run without getting multiple cat calls. I can't go to the grocery store without guys looking at me like I'm just another cut in the meat section.

About a month ago, my husband and I went out for dinner. While he was talking to the hostess to get us a table, I was standing near the bar, where three guys kept giving me inappropriate looks and obviously talking about me. One of them said to the others, "I'd let her rim me." OMFG! Arrogance on the grandest of scales from a guy for whom the chances of just getting laid are pretty remote. He was just another asshole trying to look "macho" in front of his "friends."

I was crossing the parking lot heading into a Panera Bread when this absolutely massive black truck stops and the guy hangs out the window. "Hey, darlin," he called out in his redneck twang. I ignored him and kept walking. "Hey, darlin!" he said louder. I just kept walking. Finally, he shouted, "Fuck you, bitch!" There were two guys in the truck. The "brave" ones are always in a group.

And then there's here! I have guys who have been sending me PM's, literally, for years in hopes that we will meet. And I've been ignoring those PM's for years. They still send them! I told them years ago that I'm not interested. WTF?

How many more stories do you need? I could write a novel. What ever happened to common decency and respect? Why do so many guys think that the world revolves around their pleasure? Why can't I just go buy groceries without feeling like I'm about to be assaulted?

Why would any guy get aroused by treating a woman in the manner expressed in this thread? That alone makes a very strong statement about some people's view of the world.

anger is an energy

 

[petes478]

I love being slapped, choked, even a punch, but I have to trust the guy 100%

Trust me baby. I take good care of you.

 

[gtnlynn]

One sure way to end a sex session is to hit my wife. Gentle restraint and "pretend" force are okay, but no pain is allowed. Two of her macho college lovers learned that lesson the hard way.

 

[Christy2Cum]

I personally do not like it rough and definitely would not accept being slapped.

I guess my answer to a guy who asked if he could slap me would be …. Let be ask you a question do you mind if I bite down extremely hard when giving you a blow job ???

This is the second post of yours I've seen in like the last 10 minutes that I love, my new best friend (with benefits?)!

The sad part is some guys would like that, I've had some ask me to bite them while giving a BJ, I'm like really? okay, your funeral.

 

[Christy2Cum]

Yes I guess there would be the ones that would like that.

Perhaps I should add when I ask if they mind if I bite, That I will be using the force I used when gritting my teeth when giving birth and having a very painful contraction lol and they will end up know what contraction pain feels like lol

I would like to see that! Maybe then they will learn NOT to hit a woman, if not I'll take a turn if it is still attached.

 

[DaddysYogaBabyGirl]

There are MANY types of aggressive play.... With safe words and boundaries they can be excellent.

 

[ILuv2Taste]

Slap my ass, spank me, choke me

Then can I fuck you?

 

[lil_jenni]

As you can see from the responses to date, the answer is some women do, and some (most, maybe?) do not. And even among those women who do, whether they like it at a given time and from a given partner depends on a lot of factors. That is the problem with questions posed so generally.

Personally, I like rough sex. I like feeling powerless in the moment. I like being spanked, and whipped, and even slapped (breasts mainly, but face sometimes too). But all of that is only with the right person. And for me, my husband is the only right person these days, at least outside fantasy. That could change, depending on how my expanded polyamory goes (if/when that starts to include other men instead of just women). But right now, it's just Hubby, and he only does it because he knows I sometimes need it. I think a playful swat on the ass now and then is as rough as I would get from him if I didn't ask him for more.

When I was a party girl and only looking for hookups, I sometimes let it get rough if the guy was inclined. But I usually tried to pick guys over whom I believed I could maintain control, in so much as I chose how rough it got. Sometimes I chose poorly, but usually it worked out how I intended.

Sure, it was risky behavior, but I was prone to such back then. These days, I wouldn't be okay with anything rough until I really knew the guy(s) in question.and knew he/they would stay within my limits.

Interestingly, I have no desire for rough sex with women, other than maybe a smack on the ass and some nibbling.

 

[fma20fma]

rough type is thrilling, especially while tipsy and in a private room on a weekend bareback anal sex night.

 

[bala7400]

Yes my wife like slapped

 

[tristantrotsky]

Sexual role play, when it is mutual and consensual, is a wonderful thing, and a whole lot of fun.
We can act out all kinds of submissive games.
But agreed limits must always be respected.
And violence inflicted on any human being for whatever reason will NOT be tolerated...

 

[funguy4u100]

Slap my ass, spank me, choke me

My kind of girl!!

 

[Misty88]

I love dom/sub play, sometimes I love to be submissive but lately been in a very dominant mood. I mostly like restraints and teasing but have been more and more fascinated with rough play. I'm curious if women really like it. Are ladies out there that really into having their faces slapped? I love the idea of their hands tied behind their back. Fucking their pretty mouth. Pulling them off my cock by a handful of hair and slapping them before jamming my cock down their throat(strictly fantasy at this point). I'm curious if this really turns women on or if it's just misogynistic bullshit portrayed by the porno industry. To the normal eye I am a kind and sensitive guy but lately this urge to let this side out of me has been growing. Would love some feedback from the women on both sides, if their are any that really love it or think it's just despicable bullshit.

Thanks for taking the time to read a little into my mind

Yes I love when my face is slapped. To be tied and not have any control. Face fucked hard and deep to make me gag.

 

[Plasmaball]

To all you boys who got your feelings hurt by my comment, let me explain my "view of the world."

I can't go for a run without getting multiple cat calls. I can't go to the grocery store without guys looking at me like I'm just another cut in the meat section.

About a month ago, my husband and I went out for dinner. While he was talking to the hostess to get us a table, I was standing near the bar, where three guys kept giving me inappropriate looks and obviously talking about me. One of them said to the others, "I'd let her rim me." OMFG! Arrogance on the grandest of scales from a guy for whom the chances of just getting laid are pretty remote. He was just another asshole trying to look "macho" in front of his "friends."

I was crossing the parking lot heading into a Panera Bread when this absolutely massive black truck stops and the guy hangs out the window. "Hey, darlin," he called out in his redneck twang. I ignored him and kept walking. "Hey, darlin!" he said louder. I just kept walking. Finally, he shouted, "Fuck you, bitch!" There were two guys in the truck. The "brave" ones are always in a group.

And then there's here! I have guys who have been sending me PM's, literally, for years in hopes that we will meet. And I've been ignoring those PM's for years. They still send them! I told them years ago that I'm not interested. WTF?

How many more stories do you need? I could write a novel. What ever happened to common decency and respect? Why do so many guys think that the world revolves around their pleasure? Why can't I just go buy groceries without feeling like I'm about to be assaulted?

Why would any guy get aroused by treating a woman in the manner expressed in this thread? That alone makes a very strong statement about some people's view of the world.

Here is my view of the world
1) sucks guys do that out in public
2)it's a porn board. Women get pms all the time. Just ignore it. Alot eraser than the cat calls.
3) you don't like spanking or choking. Good for you. Doesn't mean other women don't like it. We are talking spanking and choking with consent.
It's like those guys who cat call you. You don't want to hear it. Well you made your opinion known so now you can move along and let other people enjoy the conversation.

Or don't and be an annoying ass.

 

[Bettytheboo]

I do enjoy rough sex, and it's down to the individuals involved to set the ground rules. There are some very strong comments on here about it, but each to their own. As they say if you don't like it move along.

I enjoy pain xxx

 

[Misty88]

I do enjoy rough sex, and it's down to the individuates to set the ground rules. There are some very strong comments on here about it, but each to their own. As they say if you don't like it move along.

I enjoy pain xxx

I love some slapping and choking.