Do women like rough men, particularly being slapped(during play)

[canopy]

I luv it when the guy takes what he wants. I've even had a memorable evening where the guy fucked me just to make a point. I luv to totally give in to the guy

But...

There are times when I got instantly turned off by something the guy said. Even if I had a crush on him and he'd say something and that's it. Crush gone, poof. It's weird cause it has happened someone else said similar things and it made me tingle. So I can't really say how my mind decides if I'm gonna like it or not. Same is the case with slapping. There are times when the guy slaps me and I'd just put a stop to it and have a less rough sex. And there were times when the guy slapped me and I'd open my mouth and ask him to spit in me(personal fav of mine tbh).

I think it all depends on how the interaction starts with the guy. Knowing me, it's very hard to make the wrong start with me but it's possible

 

[bala7400]

Slap my ass, spank me, choke me

My wife don't like anything till i was only her fucker. After 20 years of marriage we started wife swapping. First 3 days he was gentle with my wife as like as me. Next week we go his home. That time he was different man. He fucked my wife rudly, he slapped every part of her body even he slapped her face too. Ha spanked her. He used filthy words and abused her. It's all first time for my wife. We returned before our schedule and My wife decided that she never meet him again.

When my wife think more and more about him and her sex with him. And she like it. My wife decided to meet him again. Now my wife likes all that she don't like with me before. Except slapping her face

 

[petes478]

Slap my ass, spank me, choke me

It’s good to see your post Elle4u2use it’s really hot in the house.

 

[lil_jenni]

I suspect I have some different experiences than littlecordelera, and I have a different attitude toward some of her concerns, but her concerns and thoughts are valid for this thread.

If this were a "I like it rough" thread and she came on and disparaged the folks on the thread, I might think differently. But the OP asked if women like rough sex, including slapping. littlecordelera, like many others, gave her answer. Then she felt the need to stand up for her response because of the reaction to it. I get that, whether my response to the OP is the same or not. I've dealt with shit like that here too. So while we have different attitudes toward the topic, I've got her back on expressing herself and defending her views.

 

[YoungFarmGirl]

I love dom/sub play, sometimes I love to be submissive but lately been in a very dominant mood. I mostly like restraints and teasing but have been more and more fascinated with rough play. I'm curious if women really like it. Are ladies out there that really into having their faces slapped? I love the idea of their hands tied behind their back. Fucking their pretty mouth. Pulling them off my cock by a handful of hair and slapping them before jamming my cock down their throat(strictly fantasy at this point). I'm curious if this really turns women on or if it's just misogynistic bullshit portrayed by the porno industry. To the normal eye I am a kind and sensitive guy but lately this urge to let this side out of me has been growing. Would love some feedback from the women on both sides, if their are any that really love it or think it's just despicable bullshit.

Thanks for taking the time to read a little into my mind

No it's not "despicable bullshit"

When I am making love, particularly with a boy, I know when I am close to a climax but it sometimes eludes me, teases me, makes me need it more and more. It is then that I whisper "slap my breasts, I beg you, slap them gently and take me all the way".

Most times, if he does as he is told, the first sharp slap sends me over the edge and I shake with orgasm after orgasm.

Pain is a really strange sensation but it can be enormously pleasing.

 

[Lowhanger]

I like enthusiasm but do not want to be slapped, pinched, choked, etc. I need to be ready but I will let you know when. I like to be taken and I like to feel his need. I like to feel a man's weight on me and I like to take every bit of him and it has been many years since I have asked a man to pull out.

In different instances, in different moods a couple can want and need different things. When we're in tune and I can take her. She wants me to 'control' the scene ... she pushes her ass up and asks for a spanking. Harder harder. Hold her hands above her head with one hand and feel her tits and pinch her nipples when im balls deep. Give her my load while her pussy pulsates on my emptying cock. She calls for my weight on her as we lay spent.
Rough is different to different people. We shouldn't judge uou may find out more about yourself then you thought possible

 

[Islander55]

In different instances, in different moods a couple can want and need different things. When we're in tune and I can take her. She wants me to 'control' the scene ... she pushes her ass up and asks for a spanking. Harder harder. Hold her hands above her head with one hand and feel her tits and pinch her nipples when im balls deep. Give her my load while her pussy pulsates on my emptying cock. She calls for my weight on her as we lay spent.
Rough is different to different people. We shouldn't judge uou may find out more about yourself then you thought possible

I agree that different people want different levels of rough. I have played with spanking and bondage and find it interesting and fun in some ways. More of an experimental thing that was good to experience. For me, I like a guy to tell me what he wants and how he wants me. It gives me the chance to say no but mostly I just tell him to do. Don't hold back and give it to me. Often the fucking will be vigorous and rough and perhaps a slap on my ass. No choking and no hair pulling though.

 

[HeatherNether]

I personally don't want anything slapped other than my ass but I do enjoy when my husband is aggressive and puts his weight on me (I also enjoy "taking charge" when I'm on top.)

There have been rare occasions when I've asked him to pull my hair, but in our relationship he knows that's not on the table unless I ask (and knows where the line is on "too hard.")

 

[petes478]

I personally don't want anything slapped other than my ass but I do enjoy when my husband is aggressive and puts his weight on me (I also enjoy "taking charge" when I'm on top.)

There have been rare occasions when I've asked him to pull my hair, but in our relationship he knows that's not on the table unless I ask (and knows where the line is on "too hard.")

Excellent commentary throughout this thread!!

 

[Twanquavius]

I enjoy light choking and spanking. Spitting and slapping doesn’t do it for me, unless we are doing a dedicated CNC session

 

[littlecordelera]

I suspect I have some different experiences than littlecordelera, and I have a different attitude toward some of her concerns, but her concerns and thoughts are valid for this thread.

If this were a "I like it rough" thread and she came on and disparaged the folks on the thread, I might think differently. But the OP asked if women like rough sex, including slapping. littlecordelera, like many others, gave her answer. Then she felt the need to stand up for her response because of the reaction to it. I get that, whether my response to the OP is the same or not. I've dealt with shit like that here too. So while we have different attitudes toward the topic, I've got her back on expressing herself and defending her views.

Thank you. I appreciate your support, and it's nice to know that someone else is intelligent enough to actually read the original question.

 

[Noor]

To all you boys who got your feelings hurt by my comment, let me explain my "view of the world."

I can't go for a run without getting multiple cat calls. I can't go to the grocery store without guys looking at me like I'm just another cut in the meat section.

About a month ago, my husband and I went out for dinner. While he was talking to the hostess to get us a table, I was standing near the bar, where three guys kept giving me inappropriate looks and obviously talking about me. One of them said to the others, "I'd let her rim me." OMFG! Arrogance on the grandest of scales from a guy for whom the chances of just getting laid are pretty remote. He was just another asshole trying to look "macho" in front of his "friends."

I was crossing the parking lot heading into a Panera Bread when this absolutely massive black truck stops and the guy hangs out the window. "Hey, darlin," he called out in his redneck twang. I ignored him and kept walking. "Hey, darlin!" he said louder. I just kept walking. Finally, he shouted, "Fuck you, bitch!" There were two guys in the truck. The "brave" ones are always in a group.

And then there's here! I have guys who have been sending me PM's, literally, for years in hopes that we will meet. And I've been ignoring those PM's for years. They still send them! I told them years ago that I'm not interested. WTF?

How many more stories do you need? I could write a novel. What ever happened to common decency and respect? Why do so many guys think that the world revolves around their pleasure? Why can't I just go buy groceries without feeling like I'm about to be assaulted?

Why would any guy get aroused by treating a woman in the manner expressed in this thread? That alone makes a very strong statement about some people's view of the world.

I totally understand. I keep hoping I will age out of this crap. I suspect this is what crone haircuts and lagenlook fashion is all about , also plus obesity in women, they just want it to stop.

 

[GoodnessO]

I love dom/sub play, sometimes I love to be submissive but lately been in a very dominant mood. I mostly like restraints and teasing but have been more and more fascinated with rough play. I'm curious if women really like it. Are ladies out there that really into having their faces slapped? I love the idea of their hands tied behind their back. Fucking their pretty mouth. Pulling them off my cock by a handful of hair and slapping them before jamming my cock down their throat(strictly fantasy at this point). I'm curious if this really turns women on or if it's just misogynistic bullshit portrayed by the porno industry. To the normal eye I am a kind and sensitive guy but lately this urge to let this side out of me has been growing. Would love some feedback from the women on both sides, if their are any that really love it or think it's just despicable bullshit.

Thanks for taking the time to read a little into my mind

Hell no.

 

[secretthing]

I love rough play, but I like it on my own terms, and in specific forms. I love being spanked, like maybe a little too much tbh, and I love impact play and light pinching. I also love being scratched, that feels fantastic, and I'm a fan of rough and fast sex.

What I don't like is, when telling a partner that I like rough sex, them deciding to grab a fistful of my hair hard like they're trying to rip it out. And then when I ask them not to, them saying "I thought you liked rough sex."

 

[johnwyne007]

I think, for me personally, if I am in a healthy relationship- marriage preferably, where I know he's all mine and he's not going anywhere- and he usually touches me in a way that feels like he loves me, I am down with him going tough guy mode sometimes where he lays me down and has his way with me. I wouldn't be down with hitting or choking, but if he wants to get a little rough and let me know that he's sexy boss sometimes? I'll be the wet puddle falling asleep in his arms afterward.

That’s the key, being comfortable, loved cherished and honored. And then good cuddles afterwards as part of the experience being with him and knowing you’re treasured. It’s something I always do. Cuddle sessions are the best!