Do women want to see photos of men?

[QSco]

Judging by your previous threads you are doing more than Ok Qsco, thanks for participating

In terms of dude-threads, I do well. I am fortunate that I have some friends who provide regular feedback. It can be difficult to have a picture thread as a man, because as some of the ladies here have stated, they're not comfortable commenting for fear that it's viewed as an invitation for lewdness. Then again, if no one comments, a thread dies pretty quickly, and when it's nothing but selfies, that can suck.

In my experience, there's a lot of different parts that women like. I'm not sure it's always the same, either. I typically don't take a cock picture unless someone asks for it, and I don't think it's ever been asked for by someone who I didn't know was already a regular viewer!

So, in terms of the question, I think the women do want to see the photos, but it has to be comfortable. These days I try to take pictures that are nice to look at first, and erotic second.... most of the time.

 

[SweetSam42]

This guy ^^ knows how to run a thread, and it's not just because he's an amazing photographer. You don't have to be to run a good thread. As others have said, a lot of us ladies like the men who flirt with us respectfully. Just because I like your picture doesn't mean I need a ton of PMs from you asking me to chat, etc.

And I realize it's hard to run a dude thread - so much harder than it is for us. But, sorry boys, this just may be one of those things that the ladies have a corner on.

 

[funluvinaj]

Let me just take some notes here.......

You could teach the class in how to do it right.

 

[Heyimmark]

Any ladies want to see a vid of myself masturbating, pm me...

 

[literalwife]

QSco really needs to write a How to for our aspiring male models!

 

[Trixxy]

Well this thread may be inspiring me to start

*nudges you out on stage*



male pics thread is that way -------------->

Any ladies want to see a vid of myself masturbating, pm me...

kindamypointexactly.

 

[Mercury_Maniac]

This guy ^^ knows how to run a thread, and it's not just because he's an amazing photographer. You don't have to be to run a good thread. As others have said, a lot of us ladies like the men who flirt with us respectfully. Just because I like your picture doesn't mean I need a ton of PMs from you asking me to chat, etc.

And I realize it's hard to run a dude thread - so much harder than it is for us. But, sorry boys, this just may be one of those things that the ladies have a corner on.

yeah i've accepted that, thats why i deleted all my photos and don't ever plan on doing another pic thread.

 

[Asian_Flower]

No interest at all. I dont look at male pic threads and loathe seeing AV pics of guys junk. Sorry to be so blunt.

 

[QSco]

This guy ^^ knows how to run a thread, and it's not just because he's an amazing photographer. You don't have to be to run a good thread. As others have said, a lot of us ladies like the men who flirt with us respectfully. Just because I like your picture doesn't mean I need a ton of PMs from you asking me to chat, etc.

And I realize it's hard to run a dude thread - so much harder than it is for us. But, sorry boys, this just may be one of those things that the ladies have a corner on.

You could teach the class in how to do it right.

QSco really needs to write a How to for our aspiring male models!

Wow, this is quite the praise. Thanks to you all!

 

[Pervy_Sage]

Wow, this is quite the praise. Thanks to you all!

*cough cough royalty cough cough*

 

[QSco]

*cough cough royalty cough cough*

hahaha I was actually thinking about that when I was reading these posts this morning. You make a strong case.

 

[Pervy_Sage]

hahaha I was actually thinking about that when I was reading these posts this morning. You make a strong case.

Think it's what women call "staying power". Ha!

 

[Pervy_Sage]

I think when it comes down to it, OP, if you wanna have a pic thread as a male, do it because it makes you happy. I've had several. One that bombed and threads that did really well. In the long run, just being a respectful and fun poster is what makes or breaks you. You'll probably have lots of views, but few posts. Treat those who post with dignity and I think that makes any thread a success.

 

[SweetSam42]

I think when it comes down to it, OP, if you wanna have a pic thread as a male, do it because it makes you happy. I've had several. One that bombed and threads that did really well. In the long run, just being a respectful and fun poster is what makes or breaks you. You'll probably have lots of views, but few posts. Treat those who post with dignity and I think that makes any thread a success.

Bingo.

Any ladies want to see a vid of myself masturbating, pm me...

Please tell me this was a joke. Right?

 

[PleasePeesMe]

Sadly,

I think not.

 

[MasterSlowtease]

I think when it comes down to it, OP, if you wanna have a pic thread as a male, do it because it makes you happy. I've had several. One that bombed and threads that did really well. In the long run, just being a respectful and fun poster is what makes or breaks you. You'll probably have lots of views, but few posts. Treat those who post with dignity and I think that makes any thread a success.

Thanks for the advice Pervy_Sage, and to everyone else who has ventured an opinion. I appreciate the women taking a chance to post here, and the guys for giving me the voice of experience - which tallies with what the women say. If I do start a pic thread I feel it will be one that at least some women will want to look at, and I won't be downhearted if I don't get much public response. I think the act of taking the photos, thinking about what I want to show, and the act of making them public will give me a thrill in itself.

 

[rubydlite]

I think when it comes down to it, OP, if you wanna have a pic thread as a male, do it because it makes you happy. I've had several. One that bombed and threads that did really well. In the long run, just being a respectful and fun poster is what makes or breaks you. You'll probably have lots of views, but few posts. Treat those who post with dignity and I think that makes any thread a success.

Agreed.....my biggest pet peeve in male threads is when it gets mopey and ..well..I can't really explain......I don't want to have to continually tell the op what pics to take. Making suggestions is fine......but like sweet pervy said, the op has to want to take pics. And I often don't comment as a few time it went from a comment to ....'I want to do explicit things to you'. There are steps in between 'hot photo' and 'hey can I Fuck you with my big cock'.


Ps....pervy...glad to see you in the threads again.♡

 

[Pervy_Sage]

Agreed.....my biggest pet peeve in male threads is when it gets mopey and ..well..I can't really explain......I don't want to have to continually tell the op what pics to take. Making suggestions is fine......but like sweet pervy said, the op has to want to take pics. And I often don't comment as a few time it went from a comment to ....'I want to do explicit things to you'. There are steps in between 'hot photo' and 'hey can I Fuck you with my big cock'.


Ps....pervy...glad to see you in the threads again.♡

Thanks Ruby. Ps...me. new thread.

 

[Pervy_Sage]

One more thing, don't get offended if you see certain women post to another thread and not yours. Just as men have their certain tastes, so do women. The beauty of lit is that everybody is a perfect taste for someone.

 

[SweetSam42]

Agreed.....my biggest pet peeve in male threads is when it gets mopey and ..well..I can't really explain......I don't want to have to continually tell the op what pics to take. Making suggestions is fine......but like sweet pervy said, the op has to want to take pics. And I often don't comment as a few time it went from a comment to ....'I want to do explicit things to you'. There are steps in between 'hot photo' and 'hey can I Fuck you with my big cock'.


Ps....pervy...glad to see you in the threads again.♡

Precisely. I had a guy who would PM me asking where I was if I didn't respond to a picture on his thread, and what had he done to lose me as a fan, etc., just because I posted that I liked one at some point. I know it's tough to post with minimal responses, but needy is an immediate turn off.

 

[ElleJansen]

Not really. At least its not something I do purposefully. I don't seek to find pictures of men or their bits. Sorry to disappoint you guys but a photo of a schlong does not turn me on. Having said that I have had my gaze halted by a really athletic male body. If I do see this perfect image I look at the face, the legs, the chest, the six pack and then I wonder about the little chappy and whether it matches the rest or whether too much working out has shrunk it. If it's a breathtaking whopper then things start to happen with my body.

That doesn't mean I think of dropping to my knees with a desire to swallow it. It is idol curiosity and a kind of hmmmmm. But this is quite honestly shaken out of my thoughts because I know it the right proportions would be uncomfortable to the point of painful.

If i put the tips of my thumbs together, that's how long I want it. If I touch my index finger to my thumb, that's how thick I want it.

How many of you guys are looking at your fingers and thumbs right now.....ha ha!

 

[daus42]

Not really. At least its not something I do purposefully. I don't seek to find pictures of men or their bits. Sorry to disappoint you guys but a photo of a schlong does not turn me on. Having said that I have had my gaze halted by a really athletic male body. If I do see this perfect image I look at the face, the legs, the chest, the six pack and then I wonder about the little chappy and whether it matches the rest or whether too much working out has shrunk it. If it's a breathtaking whopper then things start to happen with my body.

That doesn't mean I think of dropping to my knees with a desire to swallow it. It is idol curiosity and a kind of hmmmmm. But this is quite honestly shaken out of my thoughts because I know it the right proportions would be uncomfortable to the point of painful.

If i put the tips of my thumbs together, that's how long I want it. If I touch my index finger to my thumb, that's how thick I want it.

How many of you guys are looking at your fingers and thumbs right now.....ha ha!

I'm still stuck with the tips of my thumbs together.

 

[Kahlo]

As a woman, yes, I love to look at pictures of men. If the thread is full of cock shots, or every single picture is of a guy standing in front of a bathroom mirror with his shirt pulled up and pants pulled down, I close it and never look at it again.

I love the male body, but I am turned on just as much by creativity than the body alone. For me cock shots are the equivalent of skipping foreplay... I maybe impressed with the cock, but it is not going to keep my interest or make me want to come back for more.

Also a big part of generating interest in a thread is not only the pictures, but the dialogue. If I comment in a thread, it is because I find the guy attractive. But when there is no response or a lame response, then I become disinterested quickly.. You posted pics to get attention, I am giving you attention so engage with me or I am not going to waste my time.

 

[Pervy_Sage]

As a woman, yes, I love to look at pictures of men. If the thread is full of cock shots, or every single picture is of a guy standing in front of a bathroom mirror with his shirt pulled up and pants pulled down, I close it and never look at it again.

I love the male body, but I am turned on just as much by creativity than the body alone. For me cock shots are the equivalent of skipping foreplay... I maybe impressed with the cock, but it is not going to keep my interest or make me want to come back for more.

Also a big part of generating interest in a thread is not only the pictures, but the dialogue. If I comment in a thread, it is because I find the guy attractive. But when there is no response or a lame response, then I become disinterested quickly.. You posted pics to get attention, I am giving you attention so engage with me or I am not going to waste my time.

Hey Kahlo!

 

[sweetsophie512]

Apologies if this has been asked before, or seems like a naive question. But I am curious.. obviously the pictures here, and everywhere else on the net, are predominantly of women, with men commenting and requesting.

But for women, do you ever feel like you would like to see more pictures of men? Are there erotic thoughts you have about looking at pictures of any type? Do you find yourself looking through this board and thinking "If only I could see..."

I would be very interested to hear from any women on their attitude to erotic pictures. Do you have any interest at all or does it leave you cold? If you do have an interest can you expand on what that interest feels like, the kinds of things you would be interested in seeing, and how would they form part of your erotic experience?

I am assuming by the way that the simple cock shot is not of much interest.

I'm not interested in some random cock shot or ass shot. I enjoy seeing the male form if I have an interest in them, we have chemistry and a fantastic connection. The picture just isn't a picture, it's ... of THEM. It fuels much more than just a visual, at least for me.