Do you care if she spits or swallows?

[Treasured]

@Treasured: thank you.

You're welcome

Let me add to my above comment since I'm on a roll today

There are many reasons why a woman don't like to swallow. One being the taste. Now as many know if you try something once to eat and can't stand it the chances are hightly likely you aren't ever going to eat it again. With that said. Watching what you eat improves the taste of cum, however if you want to give her a mouthful of bitter beer cum. More than likely its going to be spit back out, or she's going to make the bitter beer face as she swallows making a mental note not to do that again.
Some don't like to feel like they are choking as it shoots what seems to be 100mph to the back of her throat. If that's the case then let her stroke you off in her mouth?

My daddy always told his buddies he wore the pants in the family. But my mother controlled the zipper. It is fact. How you treat a blowjob and you partner is whether you will get another one.

 

[Beck31]

Very interesting perspective.

 

[Yachtsman69]

You're welcome
With that said. Watching what you eat improves the taste of cum,

I had read this but it never really hit home until a woman that I was with told me "you must eat really healthy" after taking my load in her mouth. I was ... like ... huh ? She went on to explain the taste thing after she had swallowed. The next time she shared my load with me and explained further

 

[cumtwice]

My wife will only swallow on the odd occasion & decides when my cum is in her mouth.

When we first me she used to run off to the bathroom to spit it out but when I told her how it sort of spoiled the moment she started to just let it spill out of her mouth when I was finished.

I have to say she looks real dirty with my spunk running over her lips then dripping off her chin & on to her tits especially when she then massges it in, she's never had a problem with taking a facial though.

 

[Beck31]

Like I said before in a previous post it is up to the partner imo. I dated a woman in the past who didn't like the taste. She would rather me pull out and spurt onto to her boobs. Fine by me.

 

[earth7913]

I can't even remember the last time my wife finished me off in her mouth. But if she did I wouldn't care is she swallowed or just let it fall out of her mouth and roll down her chin. I guess if she ran to the bathroom to spit it out, that would be kind of a turn off, like my cum was gross.

As far as kissing after, bring it on!! I would love it even if my cum was dripping down her chin. I love to kiss her after she sucks on my cock even when I haven't cummed in her mouth.

 

[Beck31]

TMI. Lol.

 

[69thfirmesthand]

My wife has a bad gag reflex.She can give me oral etc but if I start leaking to much pre cum it can be very much hazardous to my health(taste).Although she loves a nice facial.(scent does not bother her)

She does love for me do provide her with nice session of oral snd she will alway end up squirting mulptiple times.I will always kiss her after providing her with oral she is fine with that and it does make her hornier.

 

[rosco rathbone]

Hell yes it matters.

That's our essence. Spitting is rejection.

 

[Beck31]

I respect your right to express your opinion even if I don't agree with it.

 

[MrSneakyinPA]

I'm probabaly the only guy here that...has never been sucked. So the question would need a third choice for me. My wife did suck one of her b/f's, but she didn't like it, and he insisted on it. So I never pushed the issue. But I'm glad at least I can picture her with his cock in her mouth.

 

[hunter303073]

Yes

Yes not that hard to please on any of those
But it is so damn hot if she does swallow. Yes I want her to kiss me after please!!! But also want her to kiss me after I have went down on her. I have noticed a few women not wanting to kiss afterwards??? Mayes me wonder hmmmm

 

[Cenzo_Cava]

I find it disrespectful if she spits it out. She doesn't have to swallow it, some girls physically can't swallow it. If she is not into swallowing I would like her to let me cum on her tits or face.

 

[Beck31]

I don't know why it is such a bfd. Some women like it and some don't.
I would not be offended or upset either way. The fact alone that she wanted me in that way is the biggest turn on of all. Of course that is just my humble opinion. Oh and one more thing and I will climb down off my soapbox............

IT IS NOT FUCKING DISRESPECTFUL SO GET THE F-CK OVER IT.

 

[Cenzo_Cava]

Well in my humble opinion if she opens her mouth to receive the cum, spitting it out is very disrespectful.

 

[Beck31]

I respect your right to express opinions. That is one of the many things that the US was founded on. However I simply don't agree.

 

[LadyVer]

Well in my humble opinion if she opens her mouth to receive the cum, spitting it out is very disrespectful.

FWIW, some women have a very sensitive gag reflex. Either they were born with it or developed it for various reasons. I developed mine because of difficult pregnancies. Some women can work around the gag reflex and some can't. Just saying.

 

[Cenzo_Cava]

Totally understand, that's why I said before if a girl cannot physically swallow it she shouldn't do it. If she opens her mouth to receive the cum she shouldn't spit it out, it's just a personal turn off for me.

 

[LadyVer]

Totally understand, that's why I said before if a girl cannot physically swallow it she shouldn't do it. If she opens her mouth to receive the cum she shouldn't spit it out, it's just a personal turn off for me.

Well, sometimes it's hard to say no to things one likes but can't handle....

 

[Cenzo_Cava]

I would rather a girl tell me not to cum in her mouth if she doesn't like cum. I don't want to see her struggle with it or look uncomfortable.

 

[LadyVer]

I would rather a girl tell me not to cum in her mouth if she doesn't like cum. I don't want to see her struggle with it or look uncomfortable.

Communication is easier for some than it is for others... Maybe just telling the woman that would be helpful.

 

[pisces_girl]

Personally I think swallowing is probably an arousing and fun thing to do with the right person. This is probably why I haven't felt the urge to do it yet, I just haven't felt strongly enough for a guy to eat his cum... I think it's kind of a big deal and pretty intimate. And it's true about communication, the guy should at least ask 'hey will you swallow my cum?' or the girl should speak up about what she wants or doesn't want. I think it's as simple as that.

 

[Steamysecret1]

Personally I think swallowing is probably an arousing and fun thing to do with the right person. This is probably why I haven't felt the urge to do it yet, I just haven't felt strongly enough for a guy to eat his cum... I think it's kind of a big deal and pretty intimate. And it's true about communication, the guy should at least ask 'hey will you swallow my cum?' or the girl should speak up about what she wants or doesn't want. I think it's as simple as that.

I agree... It is a very intimate thing and maybe why I enjoy it so much when it happens. I understand how someone might not like the taste or texture as much as I understand there are people who crave it. I think communicating helps both understand and accept what eventually happens but I admit, the experience of having my partner swallow is incredible... And yes, a kiss afterward is a nice way to finish.

 

[monkeyman057]

I dated a girl once that ran off to the bathroom immediately any time she finished me this way. It was a major turn-off. I mean, I appreciate the attention and all, but if it's that bad, just finish me with your hand, or hell, spit it back out on me and I'll go clean up.

To answer the question directly though, I much prefer my wife to swallow. I think it's very intimate and makes me feel like she wants me all the more. That said, if she didn't want to, I'd be ok with it so long as she found something creative, fun, and sexy to do with it. Just seems such a waste to flush it. After all, she worked hard for it!

 

[Beck31]

I am just glad for the attention. Like I mentioned before my ex liked to get me started and loved to see it spurt out on her breasts.