Do you consider yourself Demi-Sexual?

When my wife and I started our journey into an open marriage we had distinctly different philosophies about our external partners. She was looking for friends with benefits and that's what she has stuck with and what she has found. I started out with the idea of meet someone online, meet up, if we clicked have sex and move along. I found that not very fulfilling. Oh, the sex was good, but it was too impersonal. My current playmate and I chatted for a while, built trust and then we met, we are friends and chat every other day or so. Friends with great sex, not love, I have my wife for that, and she has me for that. So, while sex itself can be great with no personal connection, and that works for some, I found I needed more. But let's be honest, if the right circumstance arose and an instantaneous connection occurred, I would not rule that out.
 
Not to mock, AN, but this was too good to pass by. Garry Trudeau is amazing.
Doonesbury Comic Strip for October 21, 1977
 
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