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Do you let someone get away with fondling you?

I have been fondled a few times when wearing my highland wear Kilt etc women and some guys have tried to check if I am a true Scots Man ( naked under kilt ) I have jokingly replied its only fare if I get to check out what youwearing under your skirt . You have no idea how many women have agreed and said go for it !
 
magicalmoments said:
The fact remains, people like it, they couldn't give a tinkers toss whether you do or not. There are plenty of sexual activities that constitute a felony, people keep doing them. It's the whole point of this site. If you don't like it don't do it. But don't impose your hangups on other people.
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The fact is, Many people DONT like it. Just because we disagree doesn't mean that I have a hangup about it, and am imposing that on anyone. What do you call what you did in your nasty reply to me?
 
A TSA agent blatantly touched my chest when I was a child (15). I still wish I would have gotten their name so I could file a complaint. I hope that their action was a result of absentmindedness and not malice. It’s still inappropriate and unappreciated, obviously.
 
Well the question is do you let someone get away with it. The answers vary so it's obviously in the eye of the beholder and depends on the parties involved. Some people seem to think their opinion applies universally but that clearly isn't true. As someone who's had his ass slapped and his "junk bumped" or brushed by flirtatious people many times over the years, my general view is that the person hasn't meant any harm to me. A lot of women have run their hands over my hair, neck and shoulders (including in work settings) in ambiguous ways too. I've encountered random touching on packed subways which obviously is less welcome since I don't know the person and am worried about my wallet or phone being lifted.

Generally though I would not recommend doing it since it's hard to know if it's unwanted. Attraction should be a slow build, there are ways of making nonsexual physical contact to see how someone responds. Going straight for the privates is often a one-way ticket to HR or a slap in the face. If you know the person and have already flirted and touched quite a bit, different story.
 
MichelleDebbie said:
Someone has groped me quite a few times. Usually it was just irritating, but I was once gently groped from behind in a crowded lift. The man was in his 50s and very attractive. He put his hand up my skirt and between my thighs, stroking me through my panties, and it was really sensual. When the elevator stopped, and we all got out, he slipped away, and I didn’t see him again, but the way he squeezed my peach made me wonder what he might have been like in bed, even so, the brief feel from him was absolutely delightful.

M.
👩‍🦳 🫦 🍑 xxxx
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What made this once not irritating like the other times you have experienced it?
 
Cool, if a hot girl is nice and smiles at you, you can try fondling them.

I think this is why so many hot women walk around with a look of a murderer.
 
Is this a fantasy forum, or one about things people like in real life.
Evidently, there are women who enjoy this kind of contact in certain circumstances. This is Lit, and there is no room in Lit to judge what turns someone on.
BUT
There is more than a little reason to be concerned that this thread is going to encourage men to touch women without their consent, thinkning that many or most women secretly want to feel the hands or other body parts of men pressing against them. If you look back through this thread, you will see that some of the most open and uninhibited women on Lit have expressed the view that this consitutes sexual assault. And it does.
Men, if you try to "get away" with touching women against their will, even if just to test whether they mind or not, you are an asshole. If she complains and criminal charges are brought against you, or if she sues you, you deserve what you get.
 
MrMikelobe1952 said:
Is this a fantasy forum, or one about things people like in real life.
Evidently, there are women who enjoy this kind of contact in certain circumstances. This is Lit, and there is no room in Lit to judge what turns someone on.
BUT
There is more than a little reason to be concerned that this thread is going to encourage men to touch women without their consent, thinkning that many or most women secretly want to feel the hands or other body parts of men pressing against them. If you look back through this thread, you will see that some of the most open and uninhibited women on Lit have expressed the view that this consitutes sexual assault. And it does.
Men, if you try to "get away" with touching women against their will, even if just to test whether they mind or not, you are an asshole. If she complains and criminal charges are brought against you, or if she sues you, you deserve what you get.
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They'll find out the hard way. Consent is always required. I guarantee 49 out of 50 women don't want some random creep touching them in public.
 
eric_erosfan said:
They'll find out the hard way. Consent is always required. I guarantee 49 out of 50 women don't want some random creep touching them in public.
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I'm sure the percentage is much higher.
Of women who don't want this. Like maybe 999 out of 1000.
Women are feeling stronger and more assertive. They are much more likely to complain than they were when I was young.
And, if I'm not being clear, that is a good thing.
 
MrMikelobe1952 said:
I'm sure the percentage is much higher.
Of women who don't want this. Like maybe 999 out of 1000.
Women are feeling stronger and more assertive. They are much more likely to complain than they were when I was young.
And, if I'm not being clear, that is a good thing.
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I have a young relative who was assaulted in this manner that everyone is fetishizing here. It led to a downward spiral that resulted in a suicide attempt.

Fine if you are a woman who welcomes it. But realize most don't. And don't encourage the creeps. If I caught a guy doing it there would be a lot of violence in response.

Consent is required for everything sexual.
 
I'm old. When I was in my late teens or early 20s, I did absorb the idea that some of this behavior was acceptable because women had to pretend not to enjoy sexual contact when, of course, they really wanted it. I am embarassed to admit that, on a couple of occasions, in crowded parties or bars, and would walk around and "accidentally" brush my forearms against women's breasts, somehow expecting a positive response. (Must have been in my teens. God). I can't believe it now, but I actually believed that women didn't realize that this was intentional or that they didn't find this assaultive.

I thought we were moving beyond the day when boys were raised to think this way. Don't bring it back.
 
MrMikelobe1952 said:
Is this a fantasy forum, or one about things people like in real life.
Evidently, there are women who enjoy this kind of contact in certain circumstances. This is Lit, and there is no room in Lit to judge what turns someone on.
BUT
There is more than a little reason to be concerned that this thread is going to encourage men to touch women without their consent, thinkning that many or most women secretly want to feel the hands or other body parts of men pressing against them. If you look back through this thread, you will see that some of the most open and uninhibited women on Lit have expressed the view that this consitutes sexual assault. And it does.
Men, if you try to "get away" with touching women against their will, even if just to test whether they mind or not, you are an asshole. If she complains and criminal charges are brought against you, or if she sues you, you deserve what you get.
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Thank you for saying this. I really have been assuming everyone knew the difference between fantasy fiction and reality crime.
 
Did I let it slide? Yes. Because I was way too young to be comfortable to cause a scene. Public transportation wasn't a safe place for girls half the age of consent and up to the end of HS when and where I was growing up.

Would I let a random person get away with it now? Absolutely not! I probably wouldn't file any charges, but I definitely would make them very uncomfortable by talking out loud about what they just did.

And the idea that women en mass enjoy this is rather nauseating. Even if the ratio was 50/50, and it is no where near that, there still would be a pretty good chance of offending a woman. For what? For the fantasy that you are so irresistible? If you are so sure that she wants it, you are not going to loose anything by asking first.
 
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