emmcee_M_Aussie
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Keep encouraging him to be open to your desires - he'll warm to the idea to at least try it. My GF (later wife) wanted to play with some mild bondage and tied me to the bed spread eagled with light rope. She then proceeded to tease me with a feather (I was very ticklish at that time!), tongue, fingers and a riding crop (stroking rather than hitting). It went on for a while and I was more than a little hot and bothered - and she enjoyed creating the 'ups & downs' as much as I did having them. Just when I thought (hoped/prayed) she was going to take advantage of my state, the door bell rang and she went to answer it. A mutual friend from college had popped in to see her and I could hear their voices as she'd left the bedroom door wide open. My GF offered coffee and they sat and chatted while I was nervously spread on the bed naked with a feather and the crop beside me. Knowing that, if the friend wanted to use the loo which was directly opposite the bedroom, I'd be totally sprung, I had to release myself from the bonds and get dressed before casually walking out into the lounge area much to both of their surprise. The friend's comment of, "Oh, hi... you're here too." told me it wasn't a set up but, in my wildest wanking fantasies years later, I wondered if the GF would have had the friend catch me tied up and what would have happened.My husband & I recently discovered he likes being blindfolded... that's about as far as we've gotten, LOL. Not long ago, I also attached straps (& long scarves) to the bed in the guest bedroom. I'm pretty sure I eventually told him about the straps. And that I'd like him to use on me, but no such luck. (The straps are all releasable by me, I don't want to be truly tied up... I describe this a very mild bondage, LOL.)