Do you like married men?
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So true!
CuriousGuy62
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I'm in the same age range, and same state. Just don't (yet) have the experience. But that makes me genuine and less of a risk.
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Like I said, No experience, that isn't a deal breaker.. No experience may even be better. you hope the risk is (-)10. start slow. If the guy is single, most likely he's been out playing around...your risking your life now
I prefer married, even tho I am widowed and live alone, but I found that most married do not understand that working things as being regular friends works out better then just having to sneak around to have fun and only ends up being blo n goes. I am not into blo n goes for sex with any randoms.
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That is a good point... having a buddy too do things with, projects; we can help each other with. You each have some sort of skill... then, when you're in need of some 'extra' release. It's not awkward "I'm Helping Joe out today" "he's bring his truck over so we can change our Oil"
hence having property, man cave in the barn...
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Like married men
I have been looking for another married guy for some time. I only want one, that I can trust. We are in the same situation, no sex past the change. I wouldn't even mind a romantic relationship, but want to stay married, want him to feel the same. There are thousands of them, but can't find one close by.
I have been looking for another married guy for some time. I only want one, that I can trust. We are in the same situation, no sex past the change. I wouldn't even mind a romantic relationship, but want to stay married, want him to feel the same. There are thousands of them, but can't find one close by.
freakyandthensome
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they are out there; many of us!!
https://xhamster.com/videos/close-up-cock-in-black-panties-and-pantyhose-10138043
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mmm love the vid, and yes I like married men
GentlemanJedi63
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Same here
I have read a lot of messages here that sound a lot like me, and this one is no different. I am 57, sexless marriage, and have no intention of changing my domestic situation, but am looking for one man, married or attached, for a public friendship, along with a private and discreet monogamous relationship. A romantic relationship would not be out of the question, and might enhance the friendship.
The challenge is always the same, however. Where can we play? Perhaps those common interests could give us an option, but you never know.
I have read a lot of messages here that sound a lot like me, and this one is no different. I am 57, sexless marriage, and have no intention of changing my domestic situation, but am looking for one man, married or attached, for a public friendship, along with a private and discreet monogamous relationship. A romantic relationship would not be out of the question, and might enhance the friendship.
The challenge is always the same, however. Where can we play? Perhaps those common interests could give us an option, but you never know.
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Wow! On my own for a while .......not many chances now with lockdown lol but sure would love a stroke or three with that
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I would love to find a married cock wrapped in sexy panties just waiting to be milked dry. Mmmmm
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This is a quite interesting thread. I am in a gay marriage, and we have certainly invited others to join us. However, we have never invited a man married to a woman. I have tricked with married men when I was single, mostly when I was an escort many years ago.
It sounds like many of you are interested in another married man in a similar situation, and that makes sense. Finding someone you probably already know and may have a close friendship with that you can trust is probably a safe situation to explore your feelings in privacy, and not threaten your relationship with your wife. Most of you appear to be in a stable marriage, and I can certainly understand why you don't want to risk that relationship.
Sounds like a good idea.
It sounds like many of you are interested in another married man in a similar situation, and that makes sense. Finding someone you probably already know and may have a close friendship with that you can trust is probably a safe situation to explore your feelings in privacy, and not threaten your relationship with your wife. Most of you appear to be in a stable marriage, and I can certainly understand why you don't want to risk that relationship.
Sounds like a good idea.
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This has been my experience too. I finally figured out that the majority of men are not looking for an actual friend-with-benefits — just hurry up and get the benefits going. It adds even more difficulty to finding someone. But, I'd rather keep looking than go skanky.
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The thing for me is that I truly want to find a male friend for those uniquely male conversations that can only be had with anther male. Intimacy can occur as part of that growing friendship. However, I am seeking a married man, whether to a man or woman is irrelevant, that has some experience to guide me in this exploration of my sexuality.
If that friendship was with a gay couple, and they invited me to join in their intimacy, I wouldn't turn them down.
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I’m married too and I think the perfect situation would be with another married guy with the same curiosities and fantasies. Never topped or bottomed I’ve only ever sucked and stroked and that was with another closeted friend in my teens. I would be open to it all, but it would have to be with a clean, married man with as much to lose.
I’m married too and I think the perfect situation would be with another married guy with the same curiosities and fantasies. Never topped or bottomed I’ve only ever sucked and stroked and that was with another closeted friend in my teens. I would be open to it all, but it would have to be with a clean, married man with as much to lose.
,That's also why I would prefer another married guy, each knowing it stays between us.. I certainly wouldn't turn down a male married couple either if they would have me..
I've made my life pretty simple and doing things out of the ordinary, like disappearing for even an hour would get noticed. I don't see my friends that much and if I started hanging out with a new guy, that would raise a red flag with the people closest to me, especially my wife....
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Join a gym. It's the best way to explain a two hour absence and coming home with wet hair.
Now I just have to find that married FWB and wait for the lockdown to end
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My life and marriage was much like that for years ... same thing day in and day out. Anytime I was gone for an extra half hour, I 'd get the "What have you been doing?" question. Eventually, my wife decided that she no longer had an interest in sex. I guess that I wasn't ready to throw in the towel on sex and didn't see why her decision should mean that I would be sexless for the rest of my life.
So, I'd just turn off my phone, go for a drive, and stay away from the house for an hour or two "just because" ... seldom available and never the same routine. I'd go for a walk, go to the hardware store, or just a drive ... I'd go in the morning, mid-day, or late in the afternoon ... I'd tell her I was going to the store or I didn't say anything at all when I left
Just anything to change up her expectations that she had the power to keep an eye on my comings and goings. When i got home, she'd ask where I'd been and I'd always tell her either "BJs R Us", "Blow Job City", or "Suzy's House of Ill Repute". What's she gonna do? Cut me off?
Since then, I've met with a variety of ladies and gentlemen for short interludes. My wedding vows didn't include granting her the oversight power of my daily routine ... I doubt yours did either. You have the power, you just need to exercise it. I still use the same old excuses ... She won't like it at first but you'll be surprised how quickly she'll adapt. Hope this encourages you to gain the autonomy over your routines.
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