Do you like to receive a blowjob or a handjob

Wow! I can't believe so many guys prefer hand jobs. I know a lot of guys think they don't like blow jobs, but I've never met a guy that I couldn't convince. Some guys need a little convincing that I am enjoying giving head, once you can convince them of them that and they relax I find they love it :)

For me, I would much rather give a head job, a hand job just seems so impersonal, and if i'm getting sexual with a guy I definitely don't want impersonal.
 
Each has its place. I had a GF once that used to either blow me or suck me every morning about an hour before we got up. It was like a ritual, and she seemed always instinctively know which one I wanted. Of course, maybe it was the other way around and that's what I wanted because it's what she was doing.

One of the best handjobs I received was when a female friend that I was just casually dating was driving down the highway, and asked me to pull it out. She reached over and just stated stroking it with a light tough. She originally planned to just get me hard and play with it, but I told her not to stop. She was surprised that I might actually cum, and pretty soon she was not too happy that I had shot onto her dashboard, but she started it.

And one of the best blowjobs I got was from a married woman I was seeing, in the afternoon, car parked on the street. We were just talking, but as soon as a raging thunderstorm started, we started kissing, and then she told me she wanted to suck me. I think she was turned on by the rain, and the fact that no one could see us because of it. She started sucking me and I was hard as a rock. She stopped and said, "Oh, I HAVE to swallow it, don't I"? (She didn't mind swallowing, but normally she wasn't careful about swallowing all of it. I usually came in her mouth, but she liked it to make a mess. So she was intrigued that she couldn't spill a drop.)

It was pretty fantastic. My jeans were up under my balls so they were kind of acting like a cock ring and making my cock really hard and big. She sucked me like and whore and did manage to swallow every drop.

One thing I love about handjobs is that either she can whisper nasty things in my ear while she's stroking me, or I can whisper nasty things in her ear. And she can also look down and watch the cum shoot.
 
I'll take anything at the moment....but it's been a long time since I've had a blowjob and I must say I miss it....

Yep - what he said. For me, the most important factor is enthusiasm. I want to know that she's enjoying giving me pleasure, not just doing me a favor. If that's true, then hand or mouth makes no difference to me. Something about variety and spice?
 
my experience is a great blowjob beats a great handjob any day, the trouble is not everyone is great at blowjobs but pretty much anyone can give a great handjob.
 
I guess the question is simple--but it may vary depending upon who is giving and who is receiving.Some guys feel a blowjob is more intimate. What do you all think?

I love both. The BJ is hotter especially if she swallows. Knowing I am cumming and watching her bob her head up and down my cock as it is doing so, hearing the slurping, seeing the cock getting wetter with each bob is so hot.

A handjob is fun though too. I came back from an army exercise a few years back. I was gone for over a month. So needless to say when I got home I was horny for sex, thirsty for beer, and in desire for a bath, not in that order. I walk in the door, drop all my duffle backs and ruck sack. Kiss her and walk into my bedroom to strip out of my uniform, I start the bath. She walks in with a beer, I know it sounds like your dream girl. I am butt naked, she hands me the beer, turns the full bath off, and drops to her knees and starts playing with my cock. She says to me, lets get this one out of the way, I want you to have "iron cock" later. Iron cock is how we desribed my cock after my first load. It takes forever to get off, hours in fact. I almost dropped the beer as a result of hearing her say that, bad girl. Not too long after I am ready to shoot my load. I tell her and she lets me cum all over her face. After I calm down she wipes it all into her mouth, goes into the bathroom washes the little she had left off her face and hair, and tells me to get in the bath, and she goes back to kitchen to cook dinner.
 
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I prefer a blowjob by a woman that enjoys what shes doing.

Especially the ones who love doing that more than life, which I can't blame them because I like eating pussy more than anything, but those who really love to give a BJ and who love to swallow the fruits of their hard work and dedication to duty, are the best because it is like you are doing them a favor.
 
now 50-50 on this. received a nice bj from a girl recently. she admitted her inexperience but said proudly "MY TURN" after she came. she was very eager to please and paid lots of attention to my balls too. didnt mind me cuming in her mouth and even sucked the last drops off my stomach and dick.
 
Personally, as long as HE's getting some attention, I'm not picky. But it's always nicer to have a warm mouth around him....
 
Wow! I can't believe so many guys prefer hand jobs. I know a lot of guys think they don't like blow jobs, but I've never met a guy that I couldn't convince. Some guys need a little convincing that I am enjoying giving head, once you can convince them of them that and they relax I find they love it :)

For me, I would much rather give a head job, a hand job just seems so impersonal, and if i'm getting sexual with a guy I definitely don't want impersonal.

Well said. I am of the belief that blowjobs are like pizza, even a bad one is still pretty good.
 
Blow job please! The last girl i was with never gave me one... it's been a couple of years now since I've gotten one... I'm dying for it! Or maybe the last girl who gave me one spoiled me?
 
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