Does a guy jacking off turn a lady on?

[Lust Engine]

Not meaning to be so narcissistic or anything but I like showing off every now & then! Hey, I'm proud of my package so why not show it off??

 

[ReadyOne]

This must have something to do with the difference between having sex and making love. There are lots of women who barely have sex when they make love, if at all.

The 5 "R"s of Sex

Sex has 5 funtions:

1. Reproductive -- obviously.

2. Relational -- express emotions, build relationships.

3. Relaxer (Releaser) -- a way to shed (non sexual) stress and relax.

4. Resource -- sex is exchanged for security, favors, etc. or withheld to control.

5. Recreational -- Adult play.

Watching or sharing mastrubation seems 95% recreational. So I expect that if a person doesn't use sex as adult play, they will be cold to the idea of watching, be it matrubation or other sexual activity.

 

[jupiter lilly]

I love to watch in general...but the idea of my boy doing completely gets me going. I haven't seen him do it yet (I've had past experience with it) but the idea of it is a *major* turn on for me.

 

[sobesundevil]

I love to watch. Doesn't matter on anything. I get to learn more of there sexual desires and what they really, really like.

~hi again~!

you've already seen what i like.... toys, more toys, a little bondage here and there...

those girls that do like to watch - do you like the whole act, or just the part of jacking off the rock-hard erection? i love playing with my cock when it's still soft or semi-erect... that's where touching, squeezing, and stretching feels so electric...

 

[Latinababe]

I love it when a man jacking off infront of me and love to do it infront of him as well

 

[pw27]

I enjoy watching my husband jack off but I usually get involved before he finishes. He loves to watch me. I also like mutual masterbation.

 

[Machiavellian]

Most of my moods enjoy it - especially when my wrists and jaw are soar == lets me see what it takes to finish him off sometimes!

 

[athick14u]

Wow Great Thread

Anyone need a volunteer?

 

[SweetBlindness]

Watching my man stroke himself is a true pleasure. Contributing my own hands or mouth makes it even better... especially when he cums so hard that it spurts on the wall.

Lending a hand (and/or my mouth) while masturbating him is a nice diversion from normal lovemaking now and then.

 

[bharman4102]

hit the celing? wow, what the hell are you doing to him to work up that much velocity?!!!

 

[WickedEyes]

Well if I jack off for a girl I'd like to end on a really nice note - I'd love it if she's naked and touching her pussy while I'm watching her, and as I start to jack it faster she starts dipping those fingers harder and faster into her wet snatch... and when I cum I want to get right next to her and aim my cock at her pussy while she spreads it and cum all over her pussy lips as I orgasm... watching my seed spill all over her fuck-hole... god, I get hard just imagining it!

Then you watch her rubbing it all around, in, on, her pussy or you can help... mmmm.

 

[SlvrTongueDevil]

I enjoy watching my husband jack off but I usually get involved before he finishes. He loves to watch me. I also like mutual masterbation

Sounds like us. It turns us on so much we end up not being able to finish masterbating. But what a great interruption!!

 

[Meat Whistler]

I'm M or F, and I enjoy watching anyone.

I'm female and while I enjoy watching either sex masturbate, I get so hot watching a man masturbate, especially one I love. What a turn on!

 

[blondie74]

Just thinking about this sends shivers up and down my spine. We've never done this before now...don't know why not, but we're about to start tonight!

 

[sobesundevil]

YES i've finally hooked up with someone who's into similar kinks... she loves watching me stroke, all the toys, etc. i may be one of very few guys who prefers handjobs to blowjobs, actually...

ladies, any particular videos you like to watch about this?

 

[Avery_Chisholm]

I'm into it - but it depends on the man involved. And as long as it isn't the fake induced pleasure that porn flicks provide. When I become involved with a man, I like to watch him jack off because it helps me to understand what he likes. I also do find it sexy as hell!

ITA

 

[Pimptress J]

To me it is something that (I feel ) brings us closer, it is such a personal thing, that in itself is a huge turn on for me.
That and when he is on top of me, and cums on my chest.
*shudder*

 

[SlvrTongueDevil]

To me it is something that (I feel ) brings us closer, it is such a personal thing, that in itself is a huge turn on for me.
That and when he is on top of me, and cums on my chest.
*shudder*

Exactly how my SO feels ... and I'm always willing to oblige!

 

[sobesundevil]

To me it is something that (I feel ) brings us closer, it is such a personal thing, that in itself is a huge turn on for me.
That and when he is on top of me, and cums on my chest.
*shudder*

very well put!

well i'm seeing someone new.... glad to report that she is as kinky as i am (if not more)... the first night was spent mostly masturbating right in front of her face, with an occasional dip into her mouth (and fingers on the g-spot, of course), and the second shocked the hell out of her by how much i unloaded onto her chest... i've been known to cum a lot when i'd been stroking so long (didn't cum on the first night at all), but that surprised even me...

SO wish that we'd had a camera!

 

[scottb7]

Too me the mere knowledge of a female masturbating turns me on. Like if I'm chatting with one and she says shes' masturbating it gets me hard and horny everytime. So I usually end up masturbating as well which is really fun.

 

[kinky shy girl]

"jilling" ~ now that's a term I've never heard before...you learn something new every day.

 

[sobesundevil]

"jilling" ~ now that's a term I've never heard before...you learn something new every day.

are you sure you're not talking about "jizzing", i.e., ejaculating?

 

[orangeangel]

I'm M, and almost any F jilling off does it.

 

[sobesundevil]

DUH! got it... jack and jill...

by the way, i'm online right now, and i would gladly jack with a jill on yahoo messenger!

 

[Lady Tango]

I like to watch my guy play with himself. To see him shoot his seed is very erotic, not to mention the expression on his face as his orgasm takes hold. Sometimes when I'm not in the mood I like to start him off and then let him take over.