Does your partner know?

[winepleasures]

I call it my secret club house

flashes his member
ship card (friggin "return" button)

 

[switchbitch]

he was the one who suggested I sign up, he likes to know that I enjoy myself and he is well aware of my rather over the top proclivities and would never seek to inhibit them.

 

[winepleasures]

he was the one who suggested I sign up, he likes to know that I enjoy myself and he is well aware of my rather over the top proclivities and would never seek to inhibit them.

that man of yours is a keeper!! Not that you don't know that already.

 

[shybiguy71]

No

mine doesn't know...... i have a very minimal sex life with my wife so places like this at least allow me to explore my fantasies

 

[Dvus_D]

mine doesn't know...... i have a very minimal sex life with my wife so places like this at least allow me to explore my fantasies

Out of curiosity, how much is minimal?

 

[mustang_driver]

...................

 

[KatNW1]

Ah....I'm in insomniac hell....sort of my fault after 1/2 a bottle of wine and two pints earlier in the pub....


As for the question, yes, he knows; my thread was actually his idea. He's nine years older than I so I think he gets a bit of a charge out of it all.

He also thought it might help me get over a few self-confidence issues - funny thing is he was right; it's certainly doing me no harm....Damn, I hate it when he's right!

 

[shybiguy71]

Out of curiosity, how much is minimal?

maybe 1-2 times a month

 

[PinupgirlLvr]

My wife knows that I'm on here........not an issue. (She's on here as well.)

 

[goodsonformom]

my hubs has no idea I come here ~ dont think he would approve at all

Ditto on my wife as well........

 

[Alexandra831]

my husband knows.. I don't sign out.. so if he wants to see what I have been doing or saying.. he is free to do.. I have nothing to hide.. Unlike him who.. is part of tagged.. and talks and watches women all the time.. and doesn't think I know about it.. I gave up caring.. cause he will not change.. but the moment he makes it a real physical sexual encounter.. we are done.. shit he even offered a woman $150 for some photos of her in lingere(sorry not sure how to spell it). However I haven't talked to him about it.. because I am not suppose to know about it.. Plus he would just lie.. like he always does..

I do care.. but he wont change.. and divorcing isn't an option right now.. so.. I just deal with it..

 

[goodsonformom]

my husband knows.. I don't sign out.. so if he wants to see what I have been doing or saying.. he is free to do.. I have nothing to hide.. Unlike him who.. is part of tagged.. and talks and watches women all the time.. and doesn't think I know about it.. I gave up caring.. cause he will not change.. but the moment he makes it a real physical sexual encounter.. we are done.. shit he even offered a woman $150 for some photos of her in lingere(sorry not sure how to spell it). However I haven't talked to him about it.. because I am not suppose to know about it.. Plus he would just lie.. like he always does..

I do care.. but he wont change.. and divorcing isn't an option right now.. so.. I just deal with it..

*Hugs*...............

 

[ketalia]

When I had one, they knew about it. My primary fuckbuddy knows, and doesn't care. I'm not in a One True Love sort of relationship thing right now. When I was, he knew. We have this thing about masturbation, porn and Lit. As long as you're not neglecting the other partner in favor of any of the above, knock yourself out! We're both adults. Sometimes you want to be with each other. Sometimes you want to be with yourself. Sometimes you want a weird quickie with an online buddy. As long as there's honesty, no problem.

I would not be with someone who demanded that I cease hanging out on Lit, or has me drop all sexual conduct aside from them. I am a sexual being, apparently more sexual than most women (aside from Litizens), and unless they're able to provide for ALL of my sexual needs and will not be doing anything with anyone else at all, it won't happen. I don't think I'll ever meet someone who can do that. I like my "me time" too much. Honestly, I don't think anyone is able to be everything to everyone, and trying to force someone into that mold is dishonest and selfish.

 

[aim2pleaseyou]

My wife doesn't know, but I want her to, I'm trying to introduce her to this site.

 

[dreamykitten2]

No he has no idea

He knows I read erotica but he has no idea I chat or write erotica but it's all good whatever I read or do helps to fuel my desires for my hubby.

 

[mustang_driver]

..................

 

[Themoodyone]

Hubby has his playtime on his laptop and so do I. I don't check up on him and he's right to be confident that all roads lead home as far as I'm concerned. What I write about is my own business and so is what I read.

 

[literal]

has no idea whatsoever about lit

 

[shesnotcheating]

If my wife was open-minded enough for me to tell her about this site, I wouldn't have to come here. Oh, irony.

 

[thesweetsweetness]

Yes, hubby knows and even has his own account. So, yes he has also read my story.

 

[mrspank30]

She has no idea about this site and would be pissed. She would not be suprised but not happy. But flirting and chatting here keeps me from getting in trouble in person somwhere else.

 

[headrichard22]

We cum here often together

 

[peachesmelba]

Its actually

how we met-he read one of my first stories and sent an email-I answered and...of such things are legend made.... He's still the biggest and best fan of my writing, and we have other...mutual interests as well. Makes me sad when I read some of the comments from couples that are so dissimilar. I'm glad you have an outlet here but wish everyone had a partner they could be honest/share themselves totally with...

 

[klippert]

yes she does....talked about yesterday as a matter fact

 

[deskuser]

Yep Mr D aka benedict_arnold does know and approve.