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Does your partner know?

bullus said:
The wife does not know I'm on Lit. Its my getaway. Here, I can help satisfy the desire and not cheat.
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This, exactly.

I have a very high sex drive, and so did she, when we met.

Now hers has trickled away to nothing. We've discussed it, and she says that whilst she knows its hardly fair to expect me to live a sexless existence, she is very reluctant to discuss it further, and I feel bad every time I try to bring it up again. I don't want her to lie back and think of England, I want her to be my willing partner in sexual adventure but it just isn't happening.

I love her, she says she loves me, and we would both be heartbroken if circumstances forced us apart. Especially since we both dote on our little boy.

So, I come here, in secret. I have no intention of meeting anyone, even if I did find somebody local (and desperate enough to want me), but it helps me meet my craving, not just for sex, but for friendship and affection and open conversation with people who enjoy sex.

It lets me share sexual gratification with a real person without actually cheating. It's not perfect, but it's what I have.

Sorry, if that offends people who believe that partners should share everything. I wish things were otherwise but, it is what it is.
 
No, my wife doesn't know, though she does know in general that I sometimes watch porn and read erotica online. She's an amazing woman, but has never between particularly interested in discussing sexuality, which is something that I'm endlessly fascinated by... my own, as well as that of others. I'm a little bit of an addict for that rush of a cerebral connection, feeling someone open up to me, revealing increasing amounts about my own sexuality, including things that I haven't told my wife because she'd be very uncomfortable with them... (though she knows that there's another side to me that she chooses not to explore).
I'll give her whatever she wants, whenever she wants it, I'll be 100% emotionally present with her, and compartmentalize those other aspects of my sexuality that don't apply to our relationship. I've determined my limits, I've rationalized them to myself as I think most of us do, and if it gets me into trouble at some point, I'll accept those consequences. Hopefully it never comes to that!
 
I am doing the same as CallMeIsmael & Led Astray, my wife has some idea, but not the depth of it.
 
Yes, my lover knows and we love to let one another know if the other has posted something erotic and sensual. Just makes us hornier. :)) I've made some good friend(s) here also. It's a wonderful place to learn and seek and explore.
 
cheekychic said:
Yes, my lover knows and we love to let one another know if the other has posted something erotic and sensual. Just makes us hornier. :)) I've made some good friend(s) here also. It's a wonderful place to learn and seek and explore.
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I agree totally which is why I worked so hard to get her to be a member.
 
Not only does he know, we share everything on here. It's a great place, too great to keep a secret!

Tifani
 
Absolutely

Yes...she sits in with me from time to time...and I have post many pix of her here.
 
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Ho and she would never approve but when there is a severe lack of passion, what is a man to do...>?
 
My hubby and I are both active on lit. Every night we read eachothers messages. It turns us both on seeing how erotic and sexual some people are. If we see anything real good we try and make it happen ourselves. Very exciting.
 
hub knows I read the stories but he has no idea of the other stuff i do online at Lit or anywhere else & he'd b pissed!
 
Petetheman said:
How Many Lit users are here on Lit in secret...Does your partner know and and/or approve or disapprove?
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My hubby knows and encourages me to post on-line. He requested that I start my picture thread so others could find my pics easier.
 
My wife does not know. This is my playground to be a little naughty ... Of course I find that being married outs up a wall between the me and the ladies ... And that's okay, too.

The real reason its a secret is I once wrote her a naughty yet beautiful sex story. She didnt seem to understand and pronounced me a pervert. Of course I'm a pervert, but she meant it derisively. She's very vigorous and we have a great sex life ... Just not a sex life that wades into deviant waters.

There it is ... The land of lit where I can play on the edge of getting into trouble ... In secret.
 
My wife doesnt know either. I think I am like alot of people here who use this as a sexual escape. She would be mortified if she found out that I was on here and by some of the things I have written.

It will always remain a secret, it will be something we never share.
 
Yes, he does know about everything on Lit and yahoo. As others have mentioned, he reaps the benefits!
 
hub reaps the benefits but he thinks it's from reading the stories here....i use 2 feel guilty but damn i need O's more often....
 
I may have answered this already, but if I could talk about being here with my wife, I wouldn't be here in the first place.
 
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