Does your spouse know?

[vr2020]

That it is......

hehe. If it weren't fun we wouldn't all be addicted

 

[vr2020]

My SO is very protective of me (since i had a guy i used to email online and one day he emailed me a love poem and i tried to let him down gently but he didn't take the hint so she basically reamed him out for not leaving me alone lol) She knows i'm part of this forum but she also knows i am a major pervert so she isn't overly worried and while i don't think she checks up on me she does want me to be very careful about what's around me and what goes on (she's also worried about the "i chatted and got killed in a ditch!" stuff)

She does have a good point, whenever I hear of someone wanting to meet someone from the boards for real it kinda makes me cringe. Being anonymouse (sp) is what helps us all open up and be ourselves (or who we want to be) but it also means that the other person may not be who they say they are.

Can be scary.

 

[sexychik69]

So, I think that the majority of posters here are married and clearly some post as a couple and others are part of a couple that each post independantly. Most though, seem to just be one half of a couple, which brings my question:

Does your spouse know you post here? Does he/she know you look at pictures of other naked people? How about if you post pictures of yourself?

As for me, I'm married to a wonderful woman but if she knew I came here to look at other women she would castrate me on the way to the divorce lawyer. Has that stopped me, no. Do I feel bad, sometimes. Does it keep me from posting myself? Sometimes.

So what about all of you? What's your situation?

I'm lucky enough to have met my boyfriend of two years THROUGH here! hehe. So this is like our home away from home.

 

[360chick]

Hubby knows I come here and posts pics. He has an account here as well and used to post some, not so much anymore. He really enjoys taking my pics, and doesn't mind me posting them, so it works out. Although he was very surprised when I asked him if he could take some pics for me to post because he has been wanting to take pics of me since before we were married and I always said no.

 

[tomboy58]

Yup my hubby knows - he has a post name too but he mostly enjoys reading my post and looking and reading.

I found Lit when I was in a job that had a lot of time to kill and a computer lol
I told him about it - as we had really come to a close point in our relationship and Lit has done great things to our sexual side of our relationship.
It is nice to be anonymous - cus you can read and post to ideas that you would never admit to having thought about doing - "in real life" you dont admit such stuff...
and it has been pretty cool to see all the other people who fantasize about the same types of things...
and to be able to post questions etc... and search how to etc

We have become very close and explored threesums and playing with other couples and we have awesome sex now - mostly due to opening up thru Lit

 

[angelkitty7888]

She does have a good point, whenever I hear of someone wanting to meet someone from the boards for real it kinda makes me cringe. Being anonymouse (sp) is what helps us all open up and be ourselves (or who we want to be) but it also means that the other person may not be who they say they are.

Can be scary.

yeah.... i like it that way myself...

 

[vr2020]

Wow, I go on vacation for a week and the thread goes quiet. But not after some very good posts.

Thanks all. What should we talk about next?

 

[woxyroxme]

My wife knows I am on here. We are just two very kinky people.

 

[TheWifesHubby]

Open minded couple here

My wife knows and sometimes we surf the pics together. She comes here mainly for the stories (she reeeeeaaaalllllllyyyyyy enjoys them ). I come for the postings. We are both very open and honest with each other so we both benefit from a place like Lit.

 

[Soloman205]

Well, she does now. I was feeling guilty about hiding it, told her...it didn't go over real well....she didn't forbid me to come here but I can tell she's just not real happy about it.

 

[MsTexas]

I don't have a spouse/boyfriend so in my case it really don't matter ... but I'm sure that if I was in a relationship/married that it would be something that we could do together.

I don't think that I would ever stop posting here, I have found and formed many friendships from Lit, although I have never met anyone from here, but one meeting is in the works, since hes not far from me and single as well ... time will tell if we do hook up and finally meet ... I'm actually looking forward to it.

I do have a question for some of you married people, especially the men.

When you come here and find someone that is attractive and you start to interact with that person ... would you ever met that person?

I have had many married men asking and suggesting that we met ... and yet I read some of their responses here and it seems that it was all just a line, or something to tell someone to get what you want ... am I wrong?

 

[slippedhalo]

My hubby brought the site to my attention because I love writing but I don't think he ever expected me to get as into it as I have. He finds it funny that I can write about things I used to not even be able to talk about,lol.

 

[3reeHoleWife]

My husband knows and loves it when I pull up a good thread of pics..just makes our relationship that much hawtter!

 

[sparc101]

My wife does not know and I don't plan to tell her. Worse than that (maybe), is my company does not know that I am reading this forum durning "work hours". Hey... it relaxes me (I keep telling myself).

For some strange reason, I find these sites have probably helped me sexually. I have kind of learned more. I would not mind if my wife were to come here as well... heck she read lots of romance novels. But I feel she needs to find this on her own.

Question to everyone...: when you upload pics how much time do you spend making sure you don't accidently leave an image behind. My kids have access to my computer and digital camera... so I spend a great deal of time making sure my tracks are covered...

 

[johnph22]

So, I think that the majority of posters here are married and clearly some post as a couple and others are part of a couple that each post independantly. Most though, seem to just be one half of a couple, which brings my question:

Does your spouse know you post here? Does he/she know you look at pictures of other naked people? How about if you post pictures of yourself?

She does not know about my lit-addiction, or porn for that matter.

As for me, I'm married to a wonderful woman but if she knew I came here to look at other women she would castrate me on the way to the divorce lawyer. Has that stopped me, no. Do I feel bad, sometimes. Does it keep me from posting myself? Sometimes.

So what about all of you? What's your situation?

I think I am in that boat (Sassy, pass some chips? ). I think if I keep it all here, and never ever cheat in real life, I am okay. I know, it is a VERY thin line in my definition of cheating.

My bride and I have very different sexual appetites. I crave sex damn near 24/7. She is happy with once a week, occasionally twice. I figure if I come online and take care of things myself, I will not stray. Twisted logic, but we are going on 10 years, so it seems to be working.

 

[Knightstlkr]

hell no

My wife would freak if she knew I came here ..i just started coming here but was somewhat of a reg a few years back..After I meet her and started having real sex again I stopped coming around ..i brought this place up to her once and got a resounding hell no.. She will not watch porn either..I love my wife but the sex has died down alot and i thought of this place ..I just hope sghe doesnt find out because I like my balls attached

 

[Gutterslut]

My SO knows I'm on here. I've been on here for almost 5 years - a year before I even met him.
He doesn't care. He does get jealous sometimes though, and was a little weirded out that I put pictures of myself on here, but only because I had never showed him the pics, and still haven't! HA!

Sometimes we look at pictures together, or I show him certain ones that i really like.

he's cool with it all. thats why i love him so much!
<3

 

[rrocks37]

I've been taking pictures like this with my webcam for years. And if a guy asks me to see my boobs, I'm probably going to show him.

I was with my ex-fiance for 5 years (3.5 of those spent engaged) from the ages of 18 to 23. At the time, he was sooo unfulfilling (he had been a virgin when we met) and I never had an orgasm with him. Ever.

Sites like this one and just showing guys that I talked to online my nudies opened my eyes to the world of sexuality around me. If I have another boyfriend anytime soon, I plan on being much more open with him. I'm still not too good at sharing but I'd be down to have him chat and interact. No need to be jealous if he loves me!!

 

[jackritz]

My wife doesn't know. Its not really her thing.

 

[LookNoTouch]

My husband knows I post on here. I used to have pictures up too. He has a name on here, but hardly posts.

He looks at the ladies. and I check out the guys.

 

[bob69carter]

My wife doesnt knows I post here, she would be horrified, but I have a girlfriend who I meet for casual sex and she enjoys reading my posts from her home.

 

[cockslave]

mine knows i post to SRP forum but not about the pics. that was for my own enjoyment. not that it matters much any more anyway . splitting for other reasons. hope to find someone equally open about sex now..not the opposite!

 

[southtxtraveler]

After I caught my wife having an affair which included very hot emails, 90 of them that she saved. I acted all goody two-shoes. Now shes become frigid and I got addickted. Came to Lit because I found porn boring and would rather read. This bulliten board is great because its mostly real people and not just a bunch of young chicks trying to sell websites.

 

[pickax]

So, I think that the majority of posters here are married and clearly some post as a couple and others are part of a couple that each post independantly. Most though, seem to just be one half of a couple, which brings my question:

Does your spouse know you post here? Does he/she know you look at pictures of other naked people? How about if you post pictures of yourself?

As for me, I'm married to a wonderful woman but if she knew I came here to look at other women she would castrate me on the way to the divorce lawyer. Has that stopped me, no. Do I feel bad, sometimes. Does it keep me from posting myself? Sometimes.

So what about all of you? What's your situation?

mine doesn't know but she thinks i am a pervert, with all the ideas i come up with.She also thinks everything is nasty sex is only for making babies. to old for babies

 

[pickax]

actually someone I met on another website told me about this site. said she had written and posts. so i like to read. very interesting things going on here. look everyday send hours here some days