Emily’s NEW positivity and being nice to each other thread

[Seadog777]

Blessed to wake up for another day.
Blessed to continue to be clean and sober.

 

[AchtungNight]

I have no objection to red hair. Would be nice if people occasionally remembered to say something nice about other people for a change.

And you kids wouldn’t be reasonable so Mom has to put her foot down.

Emily

You’re not our mother. We were doing a lot of nice things before you put out the other thread. Are you saying redhead pics weren’t nice? I’m your friend, not your slave. Look, you’re human. I’d hope you’d acknowledge it instead of getting on a high horse. [sigh] I’ll head to the other thread. Just please remember positive vibes flow both ways thx.

 

[StillStunned]

It's weekend, and the redhead and I are about to head off for drinks and dinner. Enjoying the last few days of sunshine before we have to head back to the cold and miserable north. (On the plus side, we'll see our cats again, and that makes up for a lot.)

 

[EmilyMiller]

It's weekend, and the redhead and I are about to head off for drinks and dinner. Enjoying the last few days of sunshine before we have to head back to the cold and miserable north. (On the plus side, we'll see our cats again, and that makes up for a lot.)

Enjoy the rest of your break.

Emily

 

[EmilyMiller]

You’re not our mother. We were doing a lot of nice things before you put out the other thread. Are you saying redhead pics weren’t nice? I’m your friend, not your slave. Look, you’re human. I’d hope you’d acknowledge it instead of getting on a high horse. [sigh] I’ll head to the other thread. Just please remember positive vibes flow both ways thx.

This is not difficult. Being nice about other people <> posting a bunch of nudes.

Why is this a complicated to understand?

If you wanna post nudes AND be nice about other AHers, then great. But all I see is the former and not the latter.

Emily

 

[desecration]

If you wanna post nudes AND be nice about other AHers, then great.

Sounds ideal. SEND NUDES as the Fediverse kids say.

 

[AchtungNight]

Yes, nudes are nice.

 

[orangecurious]

nice nudes.

maybe with red hair

 

[ShelbyDawn57]

nice nudes.

maybe with red hair

But only if they're complimentary...

 

[orangecurious]

well, they would complement my greying hair

 

[orangecurious]

But only if they're complimentary...

well, they would complement my greying hair

the post on it's own made no sense without Shelby's (wonderful) one and I pressed the wrong button

 

[EmilyMiller]

A shout out to @Pixiehoff who has been unfailingly supportive of my stories on Xitter.

Emily

 

[EmilyMiller]

A shout out to @tenyari who treated me much better than I deserved when I bit his head off here. I’ll try to model his response a bit more.

Emily

 

[Seadog777]

Starting today of with a positive and funny joke.

Shit is about to get REAL in that alley.

 

[StillStunned]

I visited the beach yesterday. It was full of positivity, with all kinds of hair colours.

 

[goldytheGoldfish]

This game is missing from Google's library now somehow. Not even remotely controversial! Guess I'll live. How are you?

 

[Rustyoznail]

Thanks to @Duleigh and @orangecurious for helping me with a classic car question. The things you learn here.

 

[Bamagan]

Hopefully, not all who wanda are lost.
Lighting a beacon for @onehitwanda just in case.

 

[Seadog777]

Laughter is always a positive.

 

[SureWhyNot88]

is it normal for editors to take a while to reply or was i scammed??

 

[StillStunned]

is it normal for editors to take a while to reply or was i scammed??

A) Without more details of what, why and when, nobody has any idea.
B) This thread isn't the place.
C) Editors are, overall, the best people in the world.

 

[SureWhyNot88]

A) Without more details of what, why and when, nobody has any idea.
B) This thread isn't the place.
C) Editors are, overall, the best people in the world.

so being that this thread prob isnt the place should i stop writing about this here? i know i wasnt scammed i just really want someone to read my story at least once and give me an opinion.

 

[StillStunned]

so being that this thread prob isnt the place should i stop writing about this here? i know i wasnt scammed i just really want someone to read my story at least once and give me an opinion.

Your best bet would be to start a new thread, here or preferably in the Editor's Forum, with details of the category, subject matter, kinks and word count.

 

[SureWhyNot88]

Your best bet would be to start a new thread, here or preferably in the Editor's Forum, with details of the category, subject matter, kinks and word count.

im in the process of doing that. thank you for your advice.

 

[Seadog777]

Positive.....As I approach spring and summer clean, one of things that I'm noticing more is how much "clearer" I seem to be.
I've been up for over 24 hours straight now, looking at pictures from the last few years, among other reasons.
It's like looking at a ghost.
I'm at these events and places, but I don't really remember a lot of them.
I have like snippets of memories at a few of them, but that's really it.
Positive.....I'm now able to remember things better and more clearly.
As I continue what will always be a lifelong battle to stay clean, I'm amazed at just how badly addiction screws with the brain and its functionality.
Positive.....I am truly remorseful for a lot of the things that I said to people in many different threads and boards.
I know that some will never forgive me and while I wish that were different, I'm learning to accept that.
I'm thankful to those that have forgiven me and/or at least talk to me.
I hope that over time, the positive things in my life will bleed over to here, and that the person I was before addiction, will shine through.

Hopefully, talking about my struggle here in a positive thread, will help not just myself, but maybe someone else who needs to see that getting clean and change is possible.