Euro lit gathering in a BDSM mansion

[m wisdom]

The only problem I have with new people no-one knows is simply that, no-one knows them or if they are into BDSM or are perhaps just people who think we are all ready to fuck anything so they have a good opportunity or getting sex or the feeling which comes up for me, see us like monkeys in the zoo...a curiosity to check out what we are really like. That for me raises trust issues which if we don't have, make any ground rules pointless. If we have some knowledge of people through regular posting (preferrably before this was mentioned), it gives some grounds for trust based on how we have already seen them conduct themselves on the forum and their personal interest in this area of kink as opposed to wanting to see if we have 3 heads.

Slightly off topic... I think it could be really cool if neon could skip across the pond to join us.

Catalina

You mean we aren't monkeys

I agree with you, but that raises the question about how to decide on who that might join. Guess we have to do some case by case decisions. I like to hear what the rest say about this as well.

Yes, it would be really cool if Neon could join.

 

[neonflux]

Slightly off topic... I think it could be really cool if neon could skip across the pond to join us.

Yes, it would be really cool if Neon could join.

I'm already talking to ~D about it. If we start saving now, we could definitely afford it (he wouldn't join us at the castle but would come after - neither of us has been to Scandanavia before and both of us have wanted to make our way to your neck of the world.). Neon

 

[shy slave]

I'm already talking to ~D about it. If we start saving now, we could definitely afford it (he wouldn't join us at the castle but would come after - neither of us has been to Scandanavia before and both of us have wanted to make our way to your neck of the world.). Neon

So many people I would love to meet seem keen to go.

Maybe, just maybe, a year is a long way off.

But, I am shy about groups of people.

 

[sexycaz22]

So many people I would love to meet seem keen to go.

Maybe, just maybe, a year is a long way off.

But, I am shy about groups of people.

Yeah, I am very shy, too about meeting new faces, especially in groups.

But like you say, it's a year, a long way off so who knows what will happen between now and then?

 

[neonflux]

So many people I would love to meet seem keen to go.

Maybe, just maybe, a year is a long way off.

But, I am shy about groups of people.

Oh, I hope you will come, Shy! (We can be shy together - yea, I'm shy in groups, too, believe it or not. I just act like I'm not, LOL.)

 

[ShyGuy68]

So many people I would love to meet seem keen to go.

Maybe, just maybe, a year is a long way off.

But, I am shy about groups of people.

You shouldn't be shy shy, and you have met a few of those that want to show up before

 

[minx1]

So many people I would love to meet seem keen to go.

Maybe, just maybe, a year is a long way off.

But, I am shy about groups of people.

I'm a little shy too Shy. I think for me the biggest hurdle was the idea of 'play' that initilly worried me as I am quite a private person in that respect. But now I know you don't have to play if you don't want to, I feel a lot more comfortable with it.

 

[JMohegan]

But, I am shy about groups of people.

I'm not shy at all, but I'm not all that threatening either.


I'll be in Russia in June. If the timing works out, stopping on the way to tour Stockholm and say hi to you folks sounds like fun! Whether I'd be solo or accompanied is difficult to predict at the moment.

 

[catalina_francisco]

So many people I would love to meet seem keen to go.

Maybe, just maybe, a year is a long way off.

But, I am shy about groups of people.

LOL, so am I so we can hold each others hand and find some mischief to take our minds off of how shy we are.

Catalina

 

[ShyGuy68]

LOL, so am I so we can hold each others hand and find some mischief to take our minds off of how shy we are.

Catalina

I have no doubt you'll easily get into mischief

 

[marieR19]

*sighsighsighsigh!* I would loooove to go! *thinks* Well, if I start saving now.... Wait, no, I have to get a job first... then start saving... then get a passport... then convince myself that I wouldn't go into a meltdown... *sighsighsigh*

Yeah, I probably can't/won't go, but if at alllll possible.....


Heather

 

[shy slave]

LOL, so am I so we can hold each others hand and find some mischief to take our minds off of how shy we are.

Catalina

I agree with shyguy, there is no limit on the amount of mischief we could find, especially with all the 'shy in a group' people.

Of course, I am being ridiculous, the biggest part of me wants to be there, it is that small voice that is making me unsure.

I will figure it out nearer the time.

Edit to add: I have just agreed that if I go, I will let shyguy spank me. He owes that from about three years ago.
So, I hate spankings, I hate public displays and I am not good in groups.....

 

[@}-}rebecca----]

I will let shyguy spank me.

Above quoted for posterior posterity

Oh dear Miss Shy do we require a refresher ?

My apologies to ShyGuy I owe you a pm in regards to the other trip you have planned. I'll tend to that in the ongoing week

 

[ShyGuy68]

Above quoted for posterior posterity

Oh dear Miss Shy do we require a refresher ?

My apologies to ShyGuy I owe you a pm in regards to the other trip you have planned. I'll tend to that in the ongoing week

I don't think that Shy slave is the only one that needs a spanking!

 

[shy slave]

I have seen shyguys hands, believe me, they are as bad as they look.

I must have been mad to agree to that, then again, It does seem unlikely I will be there.

His spanking of me has been on hold for so long another couple of years won't matter too much lol

 

[ShyGuy68]

I have seen shyguys hands, believe me, they are as bad as they look.

I must have been mad to agree to that, then again, It does seem unlikely I will be there.

His spanking of me has been on hold for so long another couple of years won't matter too much lol

You better be there, or else you'll be in for a caning once we meet!!

 

[catalina_francisco]

Edit to add: I have just agreed that if I go, I will let shyguy spank me. He owes that from about three years ago.
So, I hate spankings, I hate public displays and I am not good in groups.....

Now get your thinking cap on...you might have agreed, but you don't have to do it publicly or in the group, though I will still hold your hand if you want.

Cat

 

[ShyGuy68]

Now get your thinking cap on...you might have agreed, but you don't have to do it publicly or in the group, though I will still hold your hand if you want.

Cat

Who said I want to let anybody watch?

Or maybe all submissive women that want to watch, have to be spanked as well?

 

[ShyGuy68]

OK so I was thinking that we should start some kind of list at to whom are interested in attenting.

To respect that some members might not want to let other people know they are interesting in attending, I suggest that we let somebody collect the e-mail and id's of the members via PM.

I'm willing to do it, if it's ok with everybody here.

 

[shy slave]

Now get your thinking cap on...you might have agreed, but you don't have to do it publicly or in the group, though I will still hold your hand if you want.

Cat

I will want you to hold my hand, or take it on my behalf instead.

After all we submissive women need to support each other!

 

[@}-}rebecca----]

I would just like to point out that this thread is massively discriminant towards antipodeans

 

[ShyGuy68]

I would just like to point out that this thread is massively discriminant towards antipodeans

How come? You are all more than welcome to fly in a join us!

 

[Shadowsdream]

Sounds fabulous as I sit in Sweden wondering if I have seen this castle or not.

I am trying to make another trip to Stockholm in April of next year with a group of BDSM kinksters from Canada.

I will be keeping this thread close at hand and suggesting joining up.

 

[m wisdom]

A Shadowsdream sighting
It would be great if you could manage join us. I'm sure that there are more then me that would love to meet you.

 

[m wisdom]

How come? You are all more than welcome to fly in a join us!

I agree