Ever had to use sex to get out of trouble?

[WastelandVoice]

seriously

 

[Jringo21]

It would be my guess that girl was probably a pretty easy slut anyway and did not mind sucking the OP's cock. She was cheating on her SO already.

 

[Stella_Omega]

Hey lets look at the facts here in this, (again vague as all hell) scenario- a FEMALE co-worker offered sex to a male co-worker to keep him quiet over her doing a shitty job. Okay- a shitty idea, a shitty deal. Do I blame the male for it? Absolutely. He should have known better. But in that snippet that the OP gives us it doesn't tell us that the male was the boss, the supervisor, the manager, etc- just a male co-worker, perhaps an equal. And the fact that the OP says she offered him sex to keep quiet over quote: "whatever" doesn't seem to indicate this was an actual case or an actual idea- just a random scenario.

In EVERY SINGLE ONE of these cases (and I use the phrase "cases" loosely becasue we are given no real insight into any of these scenarios, if they are actual cases or just BS constructs created to make a point) you can blame the woman for it. In every single one of these cases the WOMAN is the instigator in a seemingly obvious case of "her fault and she's covering it up somehow by crying rape after the fact."

Look, I know these things DO happen. I know rape DOES happen, and I'm not denying that people in a position of authority or power will sometimes abuse that power and use it to their own sexually devant ends. But THIS post does not give us anything. This post does not SHOW us anything. This post only gives us an apparently hypothetical, perhaps fictional, and a no-details view of alleged cases in which coersion was a factor.

Get back to me and tell me the specifics and details of each case and THEN we can talk.

First of all, you have to understand that people might not want to talk to you.

Second, you are hardly able to enforce your demands for academic rigor-- it's a fetish forum.

Thirdly, the specifics are hardly significant. The fact is that to one degree or another, these examples all represent moments in which women have had to use their sex as a bargaining point. You can tell that they HAD to, because they did. For far too many women, that's the only chip we've got. It doesn't matter if you feel filled with righteous indignation about the circumstances that got them there. Op's original example, I think the girl was a total bimbo to be fucking around where she could have gotten caught. That isn't the point.

It would be my guess that girl was probably a pretty easy slut anyway and did not mind sucking the OP's cock. She was cheating on her SO already.

Well, the difference is that she CHOSE to fuck the one guy, but HAD to suck OP's dick.

 

[Jringo21]

First of all, you have to understand that people might not want to talk to you.

Second, you are hardly able to enforce your demands for academic rigor-- it's a fetish forum.

Thirdly, the specifics are hardly significant. The fact is that to one degree or another, these examples all represent moments in which women have had to use their sex as a bargaining point. You can tell that they HAD to, because they did. For far too many women, that's the only chip we've got. It doesn't matter if you feel filled with righteous indignation about the circumstances that got them there. Op's original example, I think the girl was a total bimbo to be fucking around where she could have gotten caught. That isn't the point.

Well, the difference is that she CHOSE to fuck the one guy, but HAD to suck OP's dick.

No, actually she chose to make a deal with the OP.

 

[Evan7403]

Back to the TOPIC!

NO! I've never had sex to get out of trouble.....

 

[Momasboy17404]

It would be my guess that girl was probably a pretty easy slut anyway and did not mind sucking the OP's cock. She was cheating on her SO already.

So because she is a "slut" it is okay to rape her?

You're a piece of work dude. Typical ignorant remark. You make your parents proud.

No, actually she chose to make a deal with the OP.

Rape is not all about physical force. She felt compelled to suck the dudes cock because as he indicated it was a blackmail situation. If this dude was any kind of man at all he would of gone straight to his good friend. But rapist rarely do that you know.

 

[Jringo21]

So because she is a "slut" it is okay to rape her?

You're a piece of work dude. Typical ignorant remark. You make your parents proud.



Rape is not all about physical force. She felt compelled to suck the dudes cock because as he indicated it was a blackmail situation. If this dude was any kind of man at all he would of gone straight to his good friend. But rapist rarely do that you know.

Again, based on the information given, I do not feel this was rape. Rape is a horrible offense and I do not agree with it. That being said, this is a fetish forum and I was commenting only about this post and my feeling towards this post. The post stated that they joked about it later on. Thank you for the kind remarks and chill out, Dude.

 

[Stella_Omega]

He joked about it. Doesn't say that she ever did...

 

[Momasboy17404]

He joked about it. Doesn't say that she ever did...

This is the thing guys just don't get. They say sexual shit to girls and because the girl laughs they think it is acceptable. Most times they fail to notice it is a nervous laugh or she is just trying to laugh it off instead of making a scene. Guys are fairly retarded when reading chicks.

Some people are very sensitive to rape issues as they are victims or close to victims. Most likely this post was a fantasy of the OP and it just went down the wrong path. If not the OP should really reflect upon himself as a man and as a good friend.

I rarely write anything but rape is a sensitive subject for me so I felt compelled to respond.

VERYBADMAN is kind of a funny guy. He runs very cool and classy then he goes from 0 to 60 in a heartbeat or since he was a USMC pilot from 0 to mach 1 in seconds. I would not let him bother you as he seems to forgive and forget as fast as he wants to kill you. I don't want to stereotype but he seems to exhibit typical jarhead behavior at times. Shoot first and let God sort it out

 

[Stella_Omega]

Every woman in the world is "close to a rape victim." it could be her, with one step into the wrong street, or if she catches the eye of the wrong ...

wait for it...

man.

If men were that vulnerable to rape, we would see a whole lot more awareness amongst men of those nuances.

 

[FloridaCouple]

Every woman in the world is "close to a rape victim." it could be her, with one step into the wrong street, or if she catches the eye of the wrong ...

wait for it...

man.

If men were that vulnerable to rape, we would see a whole lot more awareness amongst men of those nuances.

And if men could easily get penis enlargements as easy as women can get breast implants, we'd all be walking around like John Holmes.

It's an oddball thought I needed to share.

 

[Stella_Omega]

And if men could easily get penis enlargements as easy as women can get breast implants, we'd all be walking around like John Holmes.

It's an oddball thought I needed to share.

Thank you for sharing, too!

 

[Nasty_Deeds]

If men were that vulnerable to rape, we would see a whole lot more awareness amongst men of those nuances.

If men were that vulnerable to rape, we would all be walking around with side arms.

 

[Stella_Omega]

If men were that vulnerable to rape, we would all be walking around with side arms.

yes, I'm sure. So one guy wants to rape another guy, because that's just the way it goes in this thought experiment-- and it would all depend on who pulls their gun first, I suppose.

Well, that would take care of a big chunk of the overpopulation problem, anyway.

And the undertakers would do a booming business.

 

[WastelandVoice]

First of all, you have to understand that people might not want to talk to you.

Second, you are hardly able to enforce your demands for academic rigor-- it's a fetish forum.

Thirdly, the specifics are hardly significant. The fact is that to one degree or another, these examples all represent moments in which women have had to use their sex as a bargaining point. You can tell that they HAD to, because they did. For far too many women, that's the only chip we've got. It doesn't matter if you feel filled with righteous indignation about the circumstances that got them there. Op's original example, I think the girl was a total bimbo to be fucking around where she could have gotten caught. That isn't the point.

Well, the difference is that she CHOSE to fuck the one guy, but HAD to suck OP's dick.

First- Whatever. I'm used to people resisting my genius.

Second/Third- You can't have it both ways. You can't say "oh this is a fetish forum so the specifics and details aren't important" and in the same breath cite these examples as fact and make your argument based on them.

Yes, these are examples that represent moments in which women have used their sex as a bargaining point but they are not REAL examples. They are not examples where women have HAD to use sex as a bargaining point because in every single example cited I would say that the woman is the one who instigated and MADE sex a point and an issue whereas the male, in each example, did not even bring it up! In each example it says the woman offered sex, the woman came on to him, the woman offered sex, etc, etc, etc, etc and so forth. Nowhere in these vague examples does it say the man demanded, ordered, or threatened if sex was not provided.

Maybe they are BASED off of real examples or real circumstances but in every single one of them I can make the argument that the woman was the instigator and not the male. So step off the BS that the women in these vague, hypothetical situations were somehow FORCED into doing what they did and had no other option. All of these examples are bullshit.

YES- It does happen that women are sometimes forced into using sex as a bargaining chip and that is terrible and it should not happen and I HATE any man who would use that to his advantage- ESPECIALLY one who is supposedly in a position of authority and/or trust, safety.

But you cannot provide a two sentance, vague scenario, and present it as a factual representation of things when in fact it is just a vague construct presented to prove your point.

I personally know a man who, doing nothing but minding his own business, grabbed a woman on the street, pulled her back onto the sidewalk because she was about to be hit by a car... That man? He's now a registered sex offender because of that incident. He saves the woman's life by grabbing her and pulling her out of the street... and now he's a sex offender because of that situation... How stupid is that? She decided that it didn't matter that he saved her life but rather chose to file charges against him because she didn't want to be touched- and no, he did not grab her anywhere inappropriate- he just grabbed her about the shoulders and pulled her back.

Where's the justice in that? Answer: There is none. That is stupid.

Here's my point: If you want to give solid examples of a situation in which these terrible things happen- go right ahead. But don't say "oh this guy and this girl and this situation and this happened cuz I say so" because that doesn't help. That does nothing. Give me REAL situations, REAL scenarios, REAL court cases, REAL news stories about these things... And you know what? I will agree with you and back you up every step of the way.

I do not, in any way deny that these things happen- they do. And when they do the men should be held accountable for their despicable actions... but vague, no detail examples that ambiguously place the women at fault do not support your point nor do they help the REAL women who are affected and stricken with this problem.

And again, the OP was simply asking if anyone had ever used sex to get out of trouble- not to debate on the morality or the legality of the actions. I have to belive the intention was to get somd steamy stories about women using sex to get out of bad situations- not to debate the reasoning or morality of the situations.

Let me be clear- Any man who is in a position of authority or power who uses his position to rape or take advantage of women- is an asshole. And one who should be arrested, prosecuted, and dare I say (in the most extreme examples) killed- because he's a filthy, dirty person who is devoid of any sort of basic human decency and kindness.

 

[bbw_cutie1983]

Wow....this thread took a wrong turn right from the start! it coulda been fun......but then again. ...I have rape fantasies.....and i love a man in uniform....i.e.....authority figures.....so i guess that's where the fantasy comes from of me screwing my way out of a traffic ticket on the side of a deserted road.......i just love the thought of having weakening someone with power to their knees.........so i guess that's a combo of rape...authority figure....uniform...and semi-public place...what can i say, i like to multi task

 

[Randolph]

Wow....this thread took a wrong turn right from the start! it coulda been fun......but then again. ...I have rape fantasies.....and i love a man in uniform....i.e.....authority figures.....so i guess that's where the fantasy comes from of me screwing my way out of a traffic ticket on the side of a deserted road.......i just love the thought of having weakening someone with power to their knees.........so i guess that's a combo of rape...authority figure....uniform...and semi-public place...what can i say, i like to multi task

That's something worth dedicating a little time and imagination to...

 

[bbw_cutie1983]

That's something worth dedicating a little time and imagination to...

If only I had a willing officer

 

[Randolph]

If only I had a willing officer

If only hmm....

 

[Very_Bad_Man]

First- Whatever. I'm used to people resisting my genius.

Second/Third- You can't have it both ways. You can't say "oh this is a fetish forum so the specifics and details aren't important" and in the same breath cite these examples as fact and make your argument based on them.

Yes, these are examples that represent moments in which women have used their sex as a bargaining point but they are not REAL examples. They are not examples where women have HAD to use sex as a bargaining point because in every single example cited I would say that the woman is the one who instigated and MADE sex a point and an issue whereas the male, in each example, did not even bring it up! In each example it says the woman offered sex, the woman came on to him, the woman offered sex, etc, etc, etc, etc and so forth. Nowhere in these vague examples does it say the man demanded, ordered, or threatened if sex was not provided.

Maybe they are BASED off of real examples or real circumstances but in every single one of them I can make the argument that the woman was the instigator and not the male. So step off the BS that the women in these vague, hypothetical situations were somehow FORCED into doing what they did and had no other option. All of these examples are bullshit.

YES- It does happen that women are sometimes forced into using sex as a bargaining chip and that is terrible and it should not happen and I HATE any man who would use that to his advantage- ESPECIALLY one who is supposedly in a position of authority and/or trust, safety.

But you cannot provide a two sentance, vague scenario, and present it as a factual representation of things when in fact it is just a vague construct presented to prove your point.

I personally know a man who, doing nothing but minding his own business, grabbed a woman on the street, pulled her back onto the sidewalk because she was about to be hit by a car... That man? He's now a registered sex offender because of that incident. He saves the woman's life by grabbing her and pulling her out of the street... and now he's a sex offender because of that situation... How stupid is that? She decided that it didn't matter that he saved her life but rather chose to file charges against him because she didn't want to be touched- and no, he did not grab her anywhere inappropriate- he just grabbed her about the shoulders and pulled her back.

Where's the justice in that? Answer: There is none. That is stupid.

Here's my point: If you want to give solid examples of a situation in which these terrible things happen- go right ahead. But don't say "oh this guy and this girl and this situation and this happened cuz I say so" because that doesn't help. That does nothing. Give me REAL situations, REAL scenarios, REAL court cases, REAL news stories about these things... And you know what? I will agree with you and back you up every step of the way.

I do not, in any way deny that these things happen- they do. And when they do the men should be held accountable for their despicable actions... but vague, no detail examples that ambiguously place the women at fault do not support your point nor do they help the REAL women who are affected and stricken with this problem.

And again, the OP was simply asking if anyone had ever used sex to get out of trouble- not to debate on the morality or the legality of the actions. I have to belive the intention was to get somd steamy stories about women using sex to get out of bad situations- not to debate the reasoning or morality of the situations.

Let me be clear- Any man who is in a position of authority or power who uses his position to rape or take advantage of women- is an asshole. And one who should be arrested, prosecuted, and dare I say (in the most extreme examples) killed- because he's a filthy, dirty person who is devoid of any sort of basic human decency and kindness.

Well, well, well genius. Let us play by your rules. Please state the case number and provide us with a certified stenographers copy of the trial so we can render our own opinion.

Actually never mind, now your ire is all so clear. You are friends with sex offenders.

 

[RjThoughts]

Well, well, well genius. Let us play by your rules. Please state the case number and provide us with a certified stenographers copy of the trial so we can render our own opinion.

Actually never mind, now your ire is all so clear. You are friends with sex offenders.

I'd love to know a judge that would allow this to even be tried. Really? A stranger pulls a woman out of the way and is then placed on the sex offender registry? If that were true, how many in NYC would be on it! Shit if that were true Iwould be MANY times over!

 

[rthnck]

Well, well, well genius. Let us play by your rules. Please state the case number and provide us with a certified stenographers copy of the trial so we can render our own opinion.

Actually never mind, now your ire is all so clear. You are friends with sex offenders.

I'm not defending the "genius" here but the challenge was there so I googled around a little bit and didn't find this tragic case of misjustice but I did find this

MAN RESTRAINS MINOR TO LECTURE HER AND BECOMES A REGISTERED SEX OFFENDER

So I'll join VBM in calling bullshit on becoming a sex offender while saving a woman's life but if the above link is any indication, there is a possibility of a miscarriage of justice

 

[Galactic_Perv]

I'm not defending the "genius" here but the challenge was there so I googled around a little bit and didn't find this tragic case of misjustice but I did find this

MAN RESTRAINS MINOR TO LECTURE HER AND BECOMES A REGISTERED SEX OFFENDER

So I'll join VBM in calling bullshit on becoming a sex offender while saving a woman's life but if the above link is any indication, there is a possibility of a miscarriage of justice

Nobody every accused our judicial system of using common sense. Things like this occur when we start living in fear. I saw a guy got registered because he was drunk and went into an alley to take a piss. The only person who saw him was a cop but he got charged for open lewdness. This country has lost it's fucking mind.

 

[Nasty_Deeds]

Let’s get real folks! The world is corrupt, so let’s stop trying to turn every woman into a victim who had to give someone a blow-job that she didn’t really want to.

Let’s take a look at the original post that started this thread. Love2stroke caught his friend’s fiancé fucking around with another guy, so Love2stroke says, “give me a blow-job and I won’t tell my friend that you are fucking around on him”. And to that she answered, “OK”. So what, she gave a guy a blow-job. She knew what she was doing was wrong and got caught. This is not her first blow-job, nor will it be her last, and if she didn’t want to get caught, she shouldn’t have been fucking around on the man she is going to marry. His friend’s fiancé is a whore and she got exactly what she deserved. Love2stroke could have told his friend that his girl friend was fucking another guy, and his friend may have beat the crap out of her. How would that have been better? In my opinion, she got off light.

Very_Bad_Man cites an example of a cop who was convicted of rape after inviting a woman to a hotel. (And this happens more often to cops than you might think) She claimed that she didn’t know that he wanted sex. Do you really believe this ignorant cunt thought she was being invited to a hotel room to clean the grout in the bathroom tile? She knew exactly why she was going to that hotel room, and unless she is a total fucking retard, she knew all she had to do is say NO!! And if she was a total fucking retard, she should not have been allowed out of the house by herself anyway.

Usually when you follow up one of these cases where some cunt has filed rape charges against a person in position of authority, you will find that she filed a lawsuit at the same time. More often than not in these cases, women who cry rape aren’t victims; they are doing it for a payday! And from the beginning, they know exactly what they are doing.

If the cop had half a brain, he would have defended himself. He would have said: “Sure I went to a hotel with this woman”. She was flirting with me and told me that she had a fantasy of role-playing a prostitute turning a trick with a cop. So, I gave her a hundred bucks and we went to a hotel and fucked each other’s brains out. He should have publically branded her a prostitute and ruined her marriage and her life. In other words, he should have mother fucked her before she mother fucked him.

If you look at the jurisdictions where women get away with crying rape every time they are touched, you will find they are often very liberal jurisdictions where women have learned to use the law to get a payday. Just because a woman cries rape doesn’t mean that she is automatically a victim, just as often, they are looking for a payday. Just because a woman may look like the Virgin Mary, doesn't mean she is.

 

[Nasty_Deeds]

yes, I'm sure. So one guy wants to rape another guy, because that's just the way it goes in this thought experiment-- and it would all depend on who pulls their gun first, I suppose.

Well, that would take care of a big chunk of the overpopulation problem, anyway.

And the undertakers would do a booming business.

LOL, At least it would be a boost to the economy.