Face Spitting

[Pythoness]

Interesting topic! I liked reading everyone's thougths on it. Spitting is one of my few hard limits. Whip me, burn me, cane me, stick needles through my nipples, slap me in the face... all of that is orgasmic! But spit on me and we're done. I do enjoy other kinds of heavy humiliation but for some reason I can't tolerate spitting.

I have one playmate who likes having me spit into his mouth. I love making a partner happy so no problem doing it but it's not sexual or erotic to me.

Still... nothing wrong with it! I'm all for whatever makes consenting adults happy.

 

[sister76]

Yeah, spitting in my face is one of those things that would trigger my fight mechanism.

 

[Pure]

excellent!... possibly a few restraints would be needed, to continue..

 

[Pythoness]

Yeah, spitting in my face is one of those things that would trigger my fight mechanism.

Amen, sister! I like how you phrased that - I feel much the same way.

 

[Pure]

a story, à propos of thread.

here's a little literotica offering with *lots* of spitting. extreme degradation, sexual and otherwise; but entirely consensual.

(you have been warned.)

i found it hot. anyone else? or was it simply offputting, sordid?

Jessica Pathetic

by GvilleWriterGuy

http://www.literotica.com/stories/showstory.php?id=136759

 

[Pure]

hey, a bottom without a fight mechanism is like an egg without salt.


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question for pythoness and anyone else.

is being spit on (face) worse [more degrading] than being peed on? why or why not?

i confess it's hard to decide, for me. but with protests such as pythoness', i know which to choose for maximum effect!

 

[Pythoness]

It's not really that spitting is degrading (to me anyway) because I can really get into degradation. But being spit on turns my stomach rather than turns me on.

Getting peed on, on the other hand... very degrading and a whole lot of fun!

(This is a bit off-topic but anyone else notice being peed on can be either warm/intimate or humiliating depending on the scene/mood?)

 

[Pure]

pythoness,

hi,

you said, It's not really that spitting is degrading (to me anyway) because I can really get into degradation. But being spit on turns my stomach rather than turns me on.

Getting peed on, on the other hand... very degrading and a whole lot of fun!

(This is a bit off-topic but anyone else notice being peed on can be either warm/intimate or humiliating depending on the scene/mood?)
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P: being peed on, i'd say, is like being fucked in the butt (or pussy!); possibly intimate, possibly humialting. context is all, so to say, and mental state of the participants (their willingness or lack of it; their enthusiasm; their attitudes, etc.)

the question is why should spitting be different; as one poster said, it *might* express "you're mine." think of a mother bird who pre chews the food and drops it in the baby's waiting mouth. human mums have done this (anyone still?), haven't they, before Gerbers. so that 'bolus' (wad to be swallowed) mom drops is 50 percent mom's spit, is it not?

see for example 'shy slave'; posting #69


but our adult stomachs tell a different story! yeccch!! as you say.

as to your 'hard limit', you set them where you will! incidentally, do you object to being the 'donor'; could you do it *without* saying to yourself 'I'm degrading you,' but rather 'you want it, so here goes, baby.'

 

[ownedsubgal]

hmm...interesting bump. i'm still not spit on very often, but when it happens, whether it's my Master or someone else doing it, i always tend to zone out, or as i call it, go to the secret garden. it's a mental and emotional headspace i automatically shift to whenever something is just too much, too scary, too painful. i've been doing it since i was a little kid, being raped and bound and tortured by my abuser/uncle. back then being able to go to the secret garden was a wonderful, precious gift that allowed me to endure even the most vile of acts with nothing but cold in my heart and an expression of peace on my face.

why it happens after something so comparably minor as spitting, i don't know, except that maybe deep down i view spitting as a precursor to the really really ugly stuff, so i go ahead and check out early.

 

[Pure]

good to hear from you again, osg. the incidents do nothing for you. may i presume they are consented to as a kind of total service?

 

[ownedsubgal]

good to hear from you again, osg. the incidents do nothing for you. may i presume they are consented to as a kind of total service?

i wouldn't call it service, so much as just a part of life. sometimes life is hard or cruel or nasty...you deal with it, my way of dealing with it just seems to be going off into lalaland. also i would not say that they do nothing for me...they do a great deal for me, they are a wonderful reminder of my place and lot in life, and help prevent me from ever feeling too good about myself. it's like....yes, you are loved and cherished, but you are still a slave, still a piece of property that i can spit on, puke on, choke, destroy, whatever...just because.

 

[Pure]

a "reminder." yes, i like that. just of how things are. A belongs to B.

 

[DeservingBitch]

I get some of the best 'domme-rush' (if such a term exists) when spitting in the face of a willing pyl. There something sooooo hot to me about a successful grown man twice my size begging me for my spit.

However, spitting on someone who's not really into it doesn't do anything for me. I guess I need the additional humiliating factor of "look at you bitch begging for my spit".

 

[priapiscean]

here's a little literotica offering with *lots* of spitting. extreme degradation, sexual and otherwise; but entirely consensual.

(you have been warned.)

i found it hot. anyone else? or was it simply offputting, sordid?

Jessica Pathetic

by GvilleWriterGuy

http://www.literotica.com/stories/showstory.php?id=136759

Pure, as a Top, I'd find inflicting some of that kind of humiliation would cross some kind of my own hard limits. But it *was* hot. It had its... moments

DeservingBitch, do you have any switchiness in you? Pure, thanks for posting that story.

 

[DeservingBitch]

DeservingBitch, do you have any switchiness in you? Pure, thanks for posting that story.

I guess I'll use Priapiscean's question as an opportunity to introduce myself:

I'm a queer woman whose mostly interested in women/butches/boi sexually, but so far, I've only played with male pyl (mostly because the opportunity to play with a female pyl didn't present itself yet. *sigh*).

I have bottomed on occasion for some butches Top when I needed a fix for my masochist side, and will probably do it again when/if the right person comes at the right moment.

I don't think however that there is a iota of submissive in me.

And bottoming/subbing for a male PYL is on top of my hard limits.

 

[priapiscean]

I guess I'll use Priapiscean's question as an opportunity to introduce myself:

I'm a queer woman whose mostly interested in women/butches/boi sexually, but so far, I've only played with male pyl (mostly because the opportunity to play with a female pyl didn't present itself yet. *sigh*).

I have bottomed on occasion for some butches Top when I needed a fix for my masochist side, and will probably do it again when/if the right person comes at the right moment.

I don't think however that there is a iota of submissive in me.

And bottoming/subbing for a male PYL is on top of my hard limits.

Very pleased indeed to meet you. A brief study of your previous posts reveals that you spell like a Brit (or at least, an European), but my next question may be ignorance on parade: what is a PYL? Is it a Spivak pronoun?

 

[DeservingBitch]

Very pleased indeed to meet you. A brief study of your previous posts reveals that you spell like a Brit (or at least, an European), but my next question may be ignorance on parade: what is a PYL? Is it a Spivak pronoun?

English is my second-language, and try as I may, I've never been able to remember which is British spelling and which is American!

I've actually figured out what pyl/PYL stands for by lurking around here for quite a while: 'pick-your-own-label' (sub/bottom/slaves/etc. or Dom-me/Top/Mistress/Master/etc.). Used to avoid excluding, prioritizing, or assuming some labels over others.

 

[Pythoness]

incidentally, do you object to being the 'donor'; could you do it *without* saying to yourself 'I'm degrading you,' but rather 'you want it, so here goes, baby.'

One of my guy friends that I switch with loves being spit on and esp having me spit into his mouth. It was really hard for me to do it the first time but seeing his reaction to it let me enjoy it. I like what you said, and that's very much how I feel about being the 'donor' - "You want it so here goes, baby!"

Thanks for sharing the story, btw. Mostly not my personal cup of tea but parts of it were very hot indeed!

 

[priapiscean]

English is my second-language, and try as I may, I've never been able to remember which is British spelling and which is American!

I've actually figured out what pyl/PYL stands for by lurking around here for quite a while: 'pick-your-own-label' (sub/bottom/slaves/etc. or Dom-me/Top/Mistress/Master/etc.). Used to avoid excluding, prioritizing, or assuming some labels over others.

Ahhh... *sees the light.* Excellent. I shall, in all likelihood, start using "PYL" myself Regarding the transatlantic vowel dropping/vowel adding, I too have the same issue, since English is also my second language.

I have enjoyed the pictures you've posted.

 

[Pure]

i think PYL/pyl stuff is silly. what can possibly be said accurately of masters, doms, sadists and tops?

 

[Batcum2002]

Spit cum in my mouth

I like it when a women holds my cum and spits it on my face and into my mouth.

 

[RawHumor]

i think PYL/pyl stuff is silly. what can possibly be said accurately of masters, doms, sadists and tops?

A lot of otherwise good conversations get off track by side-debates about semantics (I'm not a sub, I'm a slave; I'm not a slave, I'm a sub; etc. etc.). The PYL/pyl thing gets us around those side issues.

 

[Netzach]

I get some of the best 'domme-rush' (if such a term exists) when spitting in the face of a willing pyl. There something sooooo hot to me about a successful grown man twice my size begging me for my spit.

However, spitting on someone who's not really into it doesn't do anything for me. I guess I need the additional humiliating factor of "look at you bitch begging for my spit".

Yeah. That. I relate totally to that.

 

[Netzach]

A lot of otherwise good conversations get off track by side-debates about semantics (I'm not a sub, I'm a slave; I'm not a slave, I'm a sub; etc. etc.). The PYL/pyl thing gets us around those side issues.

In the 3D world, we just always said "top/bottom" it was assumed that there may be power dynamics present or not. No one threw a hissy local to me, anyway.

 

[RawHumor]

How many people who enjoy having their PYL spit into their face would, if you knew it was coming, open your mouth to receive it?