Fat fetish debate

[Prince Albert]

Oh yeah?

Yes I LOVE women, espacailly those of you have some, "meat on ther bones."

 

[DarkPleasures]

Yes I LOVE women, espacailly those of you have some, "meat on ther bones."

Well, it's nice to find men like you.

 

[Jluve]

A confident woman, no matter what size she might be works for me.

I second that thought....

 

[Kissmykitty]

In my experience fetishes are alluring because they aren't constrained by rules. I love curves on a woman, nice thick thighs and a good portion of confidence. If you let other people define you, you're always going to be disappointed.

I would consider myself a "Curvy" female not BBW size 10-12. Men have never complained about my womanly hips and thighs or my huge tits. Any man that puts you or your body down is not worth your time. A real quality man will love you imperfections and all. Don't let the number on the scale define who you are!

 

[SissyKatie]

Feeling good about yourself and accepting your body are positive things, but culture fetishizing morbid obesity is not.

Absolutely true!

Of course 'BBW' is just a term (and one I would never use myself; it is a bit on the silly side ), and it is entirely subjective. I believe people do take it too far though.

Most of the women I lust after are not at all the modern favoured 'celebrity' type, and I tend to find a lot of supposedly famous beautiful women to be rather ugly. I often find larger women quite attractive, but anyone encouraging a truly unhealthy lifestyle really isn't doing anyone any favours.

 

[BBW_T&A_Lover]

For me there is a difference between a fat fetish and being genuinely attracted to larger women.

Guys who have a fat fetish love just that: FAT. It doesn't matter if the woman's face is a 10 or a 2. If she is big, they get turned on. Just like they get turned on by watching women get larger, or watching them eat (feederism).

I've been friends with bigger women, but wasn't physically attracted to them. Just like I have dated bigger girls who I WAS physically attracted to. Personality only gets you so far with me. I'm not going to find an ugly/big girl attractive just because she's bigger. But what is ugly to me is beautiful to someone else. Just like I think some women are beautiful and some guys don't think the same. I don't have a fetish. I just find pretty/big girls attractive.

Just because a woman is big doesn't mean I have to automatically be attracted to her. That's like telling a gay guy he has to be attracted to ALL gay guys he sees.

 

[TheLM]

I'll add:

I personally find a woman with hips more attractive than a woman with a visible pelvic girdle, so it really is subjective based on preference.

 

[Dragonfire76]

I'll add:

I personally find a woman with hips more attractive than a woman with a visible pelvic girdle, so it really is subjective based on preference.

Yes, a woman that has meat on her is way more attractive then that skinny waif a man could probably break in half if things really got heated. BBW's has bigger chests and asses. Feels a lot better to fuck in my opinion.

 

[Ember_on_ice]

I don't have a fetish. I just find pretty/big girls attractive.

Just because a woman is big doesn't mean I have to automatically be attracted to her. That's like telling a gay guy he has to be attracted to ALL gay guys he sees.

Well said.

 

[Ember_on_ice]

What does SSBBW mean?

 

[DarkPleasures]

What does SSBBW mean?

Super Sized Big Beautiful Woman. For the very large.

 

[Interested_Girl]

What does SSBBW mean?

Yes, it means Super Sized Big Beautiful Women.

It's for those extra sexy ladies.

 

[Ember_on_ice]

Thanks for the clarification, ladies. It's so hard to keep up with the labels these days, especially if one is rather out of the media loop, as I am.

It's also hard to strike a good balance between being happy with who you are and being interested in improving yourself. It seems like having or expressing the wish to lose some weight automatically puts a woman into the "she hates herself" category, when I'm sure it's possible that a woman can be totally ok with being a larger woman but simply wants to drop some extra pounds in certain areas or for certain health reasons. Right?

For instance, I feel the need to lose enough weight so that my belly no longer impedes my view of my pussy - I want to see what's going on down there! But because of the way my weight is distributed, losing the belly will probably mean losing my status as a larger woman (the rest of me isn't really big). I can't be sure of that, since I've been shaped this way since puberty set in, so I kind of associate the fat with my adult sexuality, which is probably not healthy.

Anyway, my point was that there must be a way for a woman to make plans to change her body without it necessarily meaning that she hates or disapproves of herself. It does take a certain level of self-love to feel that you deserve to be as healthy as possible! Now, can I get an Amen for that?

 

[TexasWife25]

Anyway, my point was that there must be a way for a woman to make plans to change her body without it necessarily meaning that she hates or disapproves of herself.

Its not for anyone else to judge if there are things about yourself you want to change, but if there are then clearly you disapprove of those things about you/your body.

Hate/disapprove of herself and disapprove of her body can be 2 different things.