Feeldoe... anyone tried it?

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Note... Mia designed the transfer too...

http://www.feeldoe.com/page8.html

not cheap...

be very careful with a friend... ALL the power is transfered... to both users.

 

[StrapFantasy]

http://www.feeldoe.com/page8.html

not cheap...

be very careful with a friend... ALL the power is transfered... to both users.

Whoa! They are expensive!

I can't remember where I saw it now... someone commented that they break easily at the thin part - the angle provides leverage and, well, acrylic is brittle to begin with. At the time I read it, I didn't give it much thought; I wasn't making any association with Mia or the Feeldoe.

 

[SephStarr]

Hmmm, these look interesting. I don't think I'd want to use it on a man (goodness, I'm far too much of a sub!) but there are many, many possibilities for using such a thing when sleeping with a woman... [grin]

 

[SephStarr]

http://www.feeldoe.com/imagery/Stout_vv_watermarked.JPG
Goodness-I rather want one of these! Shiny, black, thick and it vibrates. My!

 

[StrapFantasy]

Goodness-I rather want one of these! Shiny, black, thick and it vibrates. My!

Oooooh! That sounds nice. I rather want one of these... in me!

I'm not so sure one must be Dom to take her guy. Can't it be simply another way for a couple to share their love and give each other pleasure? Certainly if it's not your thing, that is perfectly fine; I just don't think that this kind of role reversal has to change who we are, or how we view ourselves - unless that is what we want. We can keep our identity during the act, or let it temporarily change us, or permanently - whatever we want from it.

 

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be very careful with that!

http://www.feeldoe.com/imagery/Stout_vv_watermarked.JPG
Goodness-I rather want one of these! Shiny, black, thick and it vibrates. My!

Luckily I could give you something smaller to start out with... Interesting you went off to find the picture of the Stout. (soon to be a new one out... in theory!)

Surely you could teach any man a thing or two about how you would like him to use his tool on you?

 

[StrapFantasy]

Luckily I could give you something smaller to start out with... Interesting you went off to find the picture of the Stout. (soon to be a new one out... in theory!)

Surely you could teach any man a thing or two about how you would like him to use his tool on you?

Alright, so the Stout is a little scary... but it is soooo damn hot looking!

 

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scary yes....

Alright, so the Stout is a little scary... but it is soooo damn hot looking!

But... I think if there was one around... I'd want to try it.
AFTER using the others.

 

[Calyph]

Alright, so the Stout is a little scary... but it is soooo damn hot looking!

My wife and I bought one of these, mainly because the standard thickness ones were out of stock. We've been using strapons for quite a while, but the one complaint we've always had is that my wife gets no satisfaction from it, other than that from me being submissive and her having all the control.
Thats all changed with the feeldoe. She still gets the control, but she now gets the sensation to go along with it. While the look on her face with strapons was a turn on for me, the look of arousal from the control AND the physical effects the feeldoe has are much more arousing for me.

I gotta admit though, the stout one still makes me nervous now and then

 

[StrapFantasy]

...control AND the physical effects the feeldoe has are much more arousing for me.

I gotta admit though, the stout one still makes me nervous now and then

That's just what I was hoping it does - gets her off too! It seems like everyone who gets one must never leave their bedroom because we never seem to hear much from them once they buy one. I think I speak for just about everyone here when I say we'd love to hear about some of your Feeldoe experiences!

Sounds like you had enough experience before trying the Stout... but it sure is intimidating to us virgins!

Oh, and welcome to Lit!

 

[Calyph]

That's just what I was hoping it does - gets her off too!.

Oh it does... the bulb sits in just the right place to rock forward when pressure is applied from thrusting. The first time we used it my wife was a bit sceptical, but we gave it a go, inserted it in her, tried to with me, had to move around a bit... we got into a position that was doable and comfortable and she fidgeted a bit and all of a sudden her eyes went wide, her pupiles dilated and she was ooohing and aaaahing

I think I speak for just about everyone here when I say we'd love to hear about some of your Feeldoe experiences!

I may just get around to writing it. I'd like to dedicate some time to it, so it wont be tonight since I've gotta be up for work in five hours (not that I'll be able to sleep).

Sounds like you had enough experience before trying the Stout... but it sure is intimidating to us virgins!

Yeah, we had done a fair bit beforehand I must admit. We've used penis shaped strapons before, with the tapered heads etc, but I've never found anything quite so satisfying or surprisingly easy to insert and get used to.

Oh, and welcome to Lit!

I thank you.

 

[StrapFantasy]

Oh it does... the bulb sits in just the right place to rock forward when pressure is applied from thrusting. The first time we used it my wife was a bit sceptical, but we gave it a go, inserted it in her, tried to with me, had to move around a bit... we got into a position that was doable and comfortable and she fidgeted a bit and all of a sudden her eyes went wide, her pupiles dilated and she was ooohing and aaaahing

My wife and I aren't quite so advanced in the process. She has a bit of an aversion to toys, so it has been a long journey just getting to the point where she'd look at them online with me. That just happened recently - I posted about it on Lit somewhere, though I'm not quite so sure where now...

Anyhow, I think the whole idea of her doing me really gets her hot; it's just the toy part we need to work past.

Still, I can close my eyes and watch her eyes go wide, her pupils dilate, and hear her oohing and aahing!

Curiosity has gotten the best of me - what position got her going?

I may just get around to writing it.

That would be great! I think all the Feeldoe owners must be too busy banging away with them to write about it... so anything you can tell us would be greatly appreciated.

Yeah, we had done a fair bit beforehand I must admit. We've used penis shaped strapons before, with the tapered heads etc, but I've never found anything quite so satisfying or surprisingly easy to insert and get used to.

To me, the conventional strapons just flop around and don't appear that they could possibly do anything for the wearer. From the instant this role-reversal fantasy formed in my mind, it always had to be about both of us getting pleasure from it. I just don't think it would do a thing for me unless it did for her.

Curiosity again... did she use it without a harness? How were the, uhm, logistics for her?

 

[Calyph]

Anyhow, I think the whole idea of her doing me really gets her hot; it's just the toy part we need to work past.

Yeah, it took a little while for us to get to that stage, we were both insanely shy when we got together. I wish you luck in your quest though, it really is worth it, both for the sexual gratification and I do honestly feel that its brought my wife (who posts here incidentally) and I closer together.

Curiosity has gotten the best of me - what position got her going?

I meant to mention this last time, actually. The one problem we've found with the feeldoe is that its a little bit short if the lady is on the larger side. My wife is curvacious and gorgeous with it (there's pics floating about here somewhere) and it means the feeldoe doesn't reach quite as far as it could do. We tend to have her on her back with me on top, it gives me a small degree of control, but I tend to just let her do what she will.

To me, the conventional strapons just flop around and don't appear that they could possibly do anything for the wearer. From the instant this role-reversal fantasy formed in my mind, it always had to be about both of us getting pleasure from it. I just don't think it would do a thing for me unless it did for her.

Bear in mind when we started using strapons, I dont think the feeldoe was available at that time. This was back in 99/2000, but we had no connection to the net so I cant say for sure.
Part of the reason we started using strapons was the control aspect, partly because I wanted to be penetrated. For that purpose strapons suited us pretty well, but after a while I wanted her to get pleasure physically as well, and we tried all sorts of things, until we saw the feeldoe.

Curiosity again... did she use it without a harness? How were the, uhm, logistics for her?

Yeah, we dont have a harness at all. It works very well for the most part, but when my wife gets really into the swing of it, she becomes quite aroused and the bulb's shape can be overcome by overlubrication

Mads

 

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she gets too wet??

This is just terrible! What a useless toy that makes the women so wet!

(I hope you have figured out some simple ways to keep it in. I hate it when my cock falls off... or... I pretty sure I'd hate that!)

 

[StrapFantasy]

This is just terrible! What a useless toy that makes the women so wet!

(I hope you have figured out some simple ways to keep it in. I hate it when my cock falls off... or... I pretty sure I'd hate that!)

Yeah, listen to you. I know better than that.

But I have to agree, I don't think I'd like it much if it fell off.

 

[Calyph]

On the plus side, its only happened twice... part of keeping it in place is learning which muscles she needs to use to grip it herself.

 

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true... it takes some learning

On the plus side, its only happened twice... part of keeping it in place is learning which muscles she needs to use to grip it herself.

Some ladies catch on right away. Others get upset that it's not perfect the first time.

Who rode a bike perfectly the first time?

Consider harness ideas (see yahoo group).... as training wheels. I'm told that after a few hours.... it becomes very natural. That is... if you're willing to give a few hours to practice.

Tough job....

 

[Calyph]

Some ladies catch on right away. Others get upset that it's not perfect the first time.

Who rode a bike perfectly the first time?

Hehe, IIRC I smacked into a wall first time out.

Consider harness ideas (see yahoo group).... as training wheels. I'm told that after a few hours.... it becomes very natural. That is... if you're willing to give a few hours to practice.

Tough job....

Yeah, I've wondered about getting a harness, but we seem to have mastered it now. It is definitely worth the effort of practice, though, in my humble opinion.

 

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There is a longer version on the way...

Hehe, IIRC I smacked into a wall first time out.
Yeah, I've wondered about getting a harness, but we seem to have mastered it now. It is definitely worth the effort of practice, though, in my humble opinion.

Have you tried ALL of the options?? A longer version would make some of those (DP) more likely ... or if doable.... more fun with an inch more play

 

[Calyph]

I want to get a longer one, along with a standard one, but its down to cost at the moment.
I have to say, though, that its the best dildo we've ever used, much better than any of the strapons we've used in the past.

And now I've gotta get to bed, gotta be up for work in a little over 4 hours.

Be well.

Mads

 

[StrapFantasy]

I want to get a longer one, along with a standard one, but its down to cost at the moment.
I have to say, though, that its the best dildo we've ever used, much better than any of the strapons we've used in the past.

I'm by no means an expert, but is length really so important with anal? I mean, all the nerves are right at the opening. I've read several times about guys worrying she'll go too deep, bottom out... ouch! Just recently I saw a comment (I can't remember where, I'm such a slut), where the guy said shorter is better for just that reason.

It sounds like you've got some great stories to tell. I can't wait!

 

[Calyph]

Yeah, normally shorter would be better, but for various reasons the reach of the one we have isn't as long as we need... hence why we tend to go for her on her back and me on top.
Our body types tend to make other positions with the one we have a logistical nightmare.

 

[xxCrystal4314xx]

It sounds like you've got some great stories to tell. I can't wait!

Funnily enough, I'm actually part way through writing one ( a sort of true life based one anyhow)

 

[StrapFantasy]

Funnily enough, I'm actually part way through writing one ( a sort of true life based one anyhow)

Ohhh, the anticipation!

 

[xxCrystal4314xx]

Ohhh, the anticipation!

I know, but it's a work day tomorrow, so I should have a few hours sat on my ass doing nothing, so I might just get it finished... of course then you have to wait for Lit to approve it (or join a list to get it first via email! )