Feeldoe... anyone tried it?

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She lives!!

Music starts..... men begin to sing.. and perhaps a lady or two??

Hello Francy!
Well, Hello Francy!
(all those willing turn and bend over... presenting their posteriors)
It's so nice you're at our back where you belong
(Francy passing down the line.... stopping to tease a singer here and there)
You're feeling swell, Francy,
We can tell, Francy,
That's your strap on, that you're tappin'
We're still pressin' out,
We feel our butts swayin'
For the straps' playin'
One of your fav'rite butts will woo you soon


...
Well.... you get the idea! I for one am happy!

 

[francypants]

Questionnaire - a la Francypants

First:
Do you use your feeldoe on men, women, yourself only, men and women or all the above…

I use it on men.

1.) Can you use the feedoe without a harness?
Yes, but when I get very excited it starts to slip out.

2.) Are there positions that don't seem to work due to it's angle?
I find him on his back doesn't work so great.

3.) Is your partner at all upset by the lack of texture along the "horse's" length? (or pony..?) NO one's mentioned that.

4.) Can you get what you need from it fairly quickly?
I get a little frustrated with it falling out in the heat of things.

5.) Does the stimulation build for you?
Hard to say. Depends on the moment.

6.) Is once enough? Or you satiated or eager for more?
Once is good for awhile.

7.) Can you hold on to it despite excitement and moisture?
No.

8.) Does thrusting or grinding work better for you?
Both are fun.

10.) Have you tried the pony anally? If your partner takes the pony, you have at least two other options to try. Riding the horse or letting him (or her) try dp on you. (Ladies would need two feeldoes?) Not yet.

12.) Did your partner know that that this was on it's way?
Don't have a steady partner.

13.) Can you do jumping jacks with it? (That's more for you to try.... Mia (the feeldoe's inventor) thought up this test, but we've both decided that even if it is possible, the kegels can't compare in power to sphincters. Though with practice you won't have to keep your legs together as much! So.... practice! I'm sure your partner won't mind watching! You could also try a sideways belly dancing shimmy! Do either of those motions feel good?
Too much work.

14.) Is the feeldoe more intimate to use with your partner than other toys?
Yes.

15.) How in the world did you find out about (and decide to buy) a feeldoe?
It was either Uptoplay who first mentioned it or Mr. Happy ... my hero.

16.) Have you tried either side of the feeldoe anally for yourself? If you took the pony, there would be another mutually penetrating idea to try.
Not yet.

17.) Have you considered adding texture, length, or girth to any part of the feeldoe? Would like for the pony to be bigger or stay in better somehow.

18.) Other than the visual pleasure and a feeling of power, does having your feeldoe sucked by your partner have any other good effects? (You can comment on the other pleasures as well)
I don't really get off on that aspect at all.

20.) Have you checked out the vids at webelez? There are free ones with the ladies talking about the feeldoes, if you just read through this looking or information. Nope ... haven't checked it out.

Any help you can provide by posting pictures here (or finding other links) would be great!

 

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Note...

Even Mia has admitted..... kegal vs sphincter is losing battle. For female play the feeldoe might be ok. For gentle fun... perhaps, but generally.... you'll need a harness for it ladies.

Now... if HE takes the pony, THAT would be a whole different sort of tug of war.

THANKS for answer the questionnaire Francy. If you ever go to the yahoo site. Post your answers there too!

HUG!!

 

[mr happy]

Happys Feeldoe experience

Do you use your feeldoe on men, women, yourself only, men and women or all the above…

wife uses it on me, manually and riding, I use it on the wife and myself manually

1.) Can you use the feedoe without a harness?
Yes, she has no problem keeping it in.

2.) Are there positions that don't seem to work due to it's angle?
Nothing a well placed pillow or cusion doesnt fix.

3.) Is your partner at all upset by the lack of texture along the "horse's" length? (or pony..?) No think it is better being smooth, makes it slide oh so well.

4.) Can you get what you need from it fairly quickly?
We both get what we want easily.

5.) Does the stimulation build for you?
MMMMMMMMMMMMm of course.

6.) Is once enough? Or you satiated or eager for more?
Once is good for me me.

7.) Can you hold on to it despite excitement and moisture?
Yes.

8.) Does thrusting or grinding work better for you?
Both.

10.) Have you tried the pony anally? If your partner takes the pony, you have at least two other options to try. Riding the horse or letting him (or her) try dp on you. (Ladies would need two feeldoes?)
Have tried it all.

12.) Did your partner know that that this was on it's way?
No was a suprise, and a very welcome one.

13.) Can you do jumping jacks with it? (That's more for you to try.... Mia (the feeldoe's inventor) thought up this test, but we've both decided that even if it is possible, the kegels can't compare in power to sphincters. Though with practice you won't have to keep your legs together as much! So.... practice! I'm sure your partner won't mind watching! You could also try a sideways belly dancing shimmy! Do either of those motions feel good?
Too busy fucking with it to take the test lol.

14.) Is the feeldoe more intimate to use with your partner than other toys?
Yes.

15.) How in the world did you find out about (and decide to buy) a feeldoe?
Saw it on the Net, just knew I had to have one, not available in stores here so had to order from Miaat Feeldoe. Awesome service 7day delivery.

16.) Have you tried either side of the feeldoe anally for yourself? If you took the pony, there would be another mutually penetrating idea to try.
Oh yes.

17.) Have you considered adding texture, length, or girth to any part of the feeldoe? Would like for the pony to be bigger or stay in better somehow.

No think it is perfect size as it is

18.) Other than the visual pleasure and a feeling of power, does having your feeldoe sucked by your partner have any other good effects? (You can comment on the other pleasures as well)

20.) Have you checked out the vids at webelez? There are free ones with the ladies talking about the feeldoes, if you just read through this looking or information.
Yep , but yet to find vids of actually fucking.

Any help you can provide by posting pictures here (or finding other links) would be great![/QUOTE]

 

[mr happy]

Love those pics, Consort. Nice to see you taking it in.

And ... out.

And ... in.

Mmmm.

Hi Sweetie,
what a pleasure to see you here, been a while!!

Saw the "My Hero" tag

MMMmmmmmm I like that

 

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so........ anyone see that nice questionnaire??

Scroll up just a bit? Sit down ... put your thoughts down on paper..so we can experience them!!

 

[DrDon]

Someone make a new Feeldoe with a textured finish and I'd try it again!

 

[uptoplay2]

there might be a line of real texture coming out...

Someone make a new Feeldoe with a textured finish and I'd try it again!

can't say when...... but eventually.

 

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repost questionnaires from above??

Mr. Happy and Miss Francypants... can I post those questionnaire answers at the feeldoe group at yahoo? I won't without your ok... but those people over there are sooooo slow!

 

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last chance to say NO

MissFrancyPants and Mr. Happy I'm gonna post your responses.... I figure they are public here.... and I think you are members at the yahoo group. It's about to hit 1000 members... and they are starting to actually post now.

 

[AHHSBITCH]

I GLANCED THROUGH THIS THREAD BRIEFLY AND WANTED TO ASK SOMETHING THATS PROBABLY ALREADY TOUCHED ON (NO PUN INTENDED) BUT WITH THE FEELDOE HAS ANYONE HAD ANY PROBLEMS GOES FASTER, OR MORE "ROUGH"? WITH OUT THE STRAPS AND WITH IT BEING HELD BY THE FEMALE PARTNER, I WOULD THINK IT WOULD HURT IF THERE WAS ALOT OF FAST AHRD MOVEMENT, NOW IM NO SHYGUY TO PAIN, BUT MY GIRLFRIEND ISNT EXACTLY INTO RECIEVING IT, JUST DISHING IT OUT.

 

[Etoile]

Yikes, caps lock!

 

[uptoplay2]

The user gets what she puts out...

with both the feeldoe or Nexus or vaculock....
without straps there's a limit to hard a woman could use it anyways...
Etoile will concur that if you want it fast and hard.. you'll need straps with either.
I LIKE the idea that these operate on the golden rule... "Do unto others...."
She will determine what she wants to feel... and give that to the guy. Now... that might get rough... to get her to where she wants to be, but I'm sure you can take it.

This is not like that big strap-ons that she gets to dole out punishment to without feeling the impact.

...... and who says there has to be a lot of thrusting... read the latest post at the yahoo group.... oh .. my ... god.....

 

[madmike001]

Feeldoe, Nexus & harnesses.

The Feeldoe and Nexus are both great toys. The Feeldoe comes in 3 sizes, the Nexus in 2. Vigorous use of any double dildo requires a quality harness. The lowest prices I've found are at http://www.deepmemories.com/

 

[AlphaSheWolf]

I've had My eye on these for a long time!
I've wondered if I couldn't purchase a harness and then insert the dildo up thru the hole. It could then be used more forcibly and you wouldn't have to worry so much about it slipping out from being so slick!
Problem then is the expense. I would need a $70 harness plus the $60-70 for the Feeldoe.

 

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check out the feeldoe yahoo group...

there are some cheaper options for harnesses.
You could make your own harness, but folks are getting by with other stuff.
Bottom up levis....

I think it's in my signature still.... or pm me.

 

[BreeCarter]

Has anyone tried the feeldoe strap on? If the ad is correct, no harness is needed so it may not actually be a strap on but you get the idea.

I am hoping to convince my wife to use it on me and think it would be quite an experience. Sort of like my turn to yield to her, and give myself over to her pleasure. However, that is not totally true, because I love prostate stimulation so I think it is a win-win situation.

She will use her fingers on / in me and I find it quite intense. I get so close to cumming, but not all the way there. I always feel so guilty about those times when she rubs my gland until I just have to cum, because there is no chance right then to please her.

Other times, if we get into a positon close to a 69 position, if she puts her finger in me and rubs my gland, I can lick her pussy for what seems like hours. We both find that pleasurable. How do I get her to take the next step to using a double dildo on me. I think it would be pretty hot, but I am not sure about her feelings.

Anyone else have experience with this or with female / male prostate stimulation? What positions do you enjoy or hate? Any advice for the first time? I am not ready for something really big back there, nor am I ready for really lustful, screw it to the wall sex with me the receiving end. I know some women here use strap ons on their man. How did you start? Did you suggest it or did he?

Your response is appreciated.
Waterkemist

we got one for valentine's day this past year and have used it a couple times. it's interesting. from a females point of view, it was difficult to keep it in me and do him at the same time, because that's really tough, even if your pc muscles are tight. from my husband's point of view, he loved it, and i enjoyed doing it to him. the vibration wasn't really anything to get excited about, but i have no real problems with it.

 

[neonflux]

Cautionary STI note..

I love the feeldo but want to caution those who are using it with a new partner or who are not in a monogamous relationship. I am convinced that this was the route by which I contracted herpes from another woman (who I am sure knew she had it but couldn't bring herself to tell me - I suspect that she was pre-breakout and denied to herself that she was having "prodrome" symptoms). In any case, always use safer sex but HSV-1 & 2 (the two viruses that can cause genital herpes) are spread by skin-to-skin contact - a person who has either on their genitals sheds the virus from the whole pubic area when newly infected (first several years) and before/during an outbreak. (HPV is spread in the same way - skin-to-skin.) There is no way to completely protect oneself from such exposure when using a feeldo, since the condom, if used, will only cover the base of the "penis" and "vaginal" sections, allowing in my instance for vulva-vulva contact. It could have easily been through unwashed hands - she touched herself and then me, but I suspect that this was the way that I got it... (We both gave each other oral sex but she gave me HSV-2 which is almost NEVER, EVER spread that way.)

~ Neon

 

[Etoile]

Yikes, neonflux, thanks for that info.

 

[francypants]

I totally agree!

we got one for valentine's day this past year and have used it a couple times. it's interesting. from a females point of view, it was difficult to keep it in me and do him at the same time, because that's really tough, even if your pc muscles are tight. from my husband's point of view, he loved it, and i enjoyed doing it to him. the vibration wasn't really anything to get excited about, but i have no real problems with it.

While I love the intimacy and the feeling that it is sprouting right out of my body (residual penis envy from when I was a little girl and thought it would be the coolest toy to have attached to you), I get so excited using it and so wet that it starts to slip out right at the peak of things. A harness would be perfect but I hate to ruin the whole "bareback" thing of it.

I must say, it's been a little easier when the gentleman I am pegging is able to really open his hole and relax it, which gives me a lot more ease and fluidity in sliding in and out of him. (All you tight-assed boys who clamp up and hold on for dear life make everything more difficult and, frankly, are missing the whole point! Lol! Just open wide and take it in!)

Francy

By the way, I just started a blog called straponsalon dot blogspot dot com for those who like to explore the many facets of this particular pastime. It's on the literary side but also erotic. Let me know if you like it!

 

[neonflux]

Yikes, neonflux, thanks for that info.

You're welcome - and thank you for recognizing that the comment was in no way meant to dampen anyone's enthusiasm

 

[BreeCarter]

While I love the intimacy and the feeling that it is sprouting right out of my body (residual penis envy from when I was a little girl and thought it would be the coolest toy to have attached to you), I get so excited using it and so wet that it starts to slip out right at the peak of things. A harness would be perfect but I hate to ruin the whole "bareback" thing of it.

exactly. i have that same problem. we've thought about trying a harness and i'd like to do so, althought my problem is that most look really uncomfortable, and i want one i'll feel nice in still.

 

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Bless you Miss Francy!

The idea that it excites you would make me willing to keep trying til I was plenty easy for you to penetrate. Would some of the simpler ideas be so bad? Bringing the feeldoe over the wasteband of some underwear? Or though the fly of some nice tight jean cutoffs with a button fly? Then again, some women say that with practice it works better. So...... find some lucky guy to practice on! (I'm off to your new site now)

While I love the intimacy and the feeling that it is sprouting right out of my body (residual penis envy from when I was a little girl and thought it would be the coolest toy to have attached to you), I get so excited using it and so wet that it starts to slip out right at the peak of things. A harness would be perfect but I hate to ruin the whole "bareback" thing of it.

I must say, it's been a little easier when the gentleman I am pegging is able to really open his hole and relax it, which gives me a lot more ease and fluidity in sliding in and out of him. (All you tight-assed boys who clamp up and hold on for dear life make everything more difficult and, frankly, are missing the whole point! Lol! Just open wide and take it in!)

Francy

By the way, I just started a blog called straponsalon dot blogspot dot com for those who like to explore the many facets of this particular pastime. It's on the literary side but also erotic. Let me know if you like it!

 

[francypants]

I forgot, I did find one solution!

Once I put on a slinky, shiny pair of spandex capris that had already had a little hole in the seam of the crotch. I figured, what the heck, and I opened the hole a little more. Then I slipped the Feeldoe in and pulled on the skin tight leggings and pulled the cock through the little hole. It was kinda cool and pretty darn snug.

The downside is not female flesh to see and touch, but the upside is sexy black tights and a firm Feeldoe.

I just wish it was real looking with a pair of pendulous balls hanging down so that when I'm fucking my gent he could feel my balls banging against his balls .... or against his cheeks. It depends on what position I put him in, doesn't it?

 

[uptoplay2]

In time.... you might get your realistic feeldoe...

Don't hold your breath though.... a realistic version is not in the works.

I'm glad you found a way to make the feeldoe snug though. I agree..... female flesh is preferable. Perhaps after a nice pounding.... a gentle loving slow grind? (He'd be nice and open....)

Seriously.... really happy that you've found a way to make use of the feeldoe!

Once I put on a slinky, shiny pair of spandex capris that had already had a little hole in the seam of the crotch. I figured, what the heck, and I opened the hole a little more. Then I slipped the Feeldoe in and pulled on the skin tight leggings and pulled the cock through the little hole. It was kinda cool and pretty darn snug.

The downside is not female flesh to see and touch, but the upside is sexy black tights and a firm Feeldoe.

I just wish it was real looking with a pair of pendulous balls hanging down so that when I'm fucking my gent he could feel my balls banging against his balls .... or against his cheeks. It depends on what position I put him in, doesn't it?