Fetishes that you just don’t get

[DickandDoof]

I am a recent widower (2 years), 72 years old, bald (I shave it), still 6'2" tall and 190 lbs, no belly and average size cock, and am continually surprised at the number of younger women who have shown interest. You are not dead until they throw dirt over you.

Thank you ic69hunter for giving us guys hope for the future.

 

[DickandDoof]

How about these?

https://b.porngals4.com/media/galleries/1/27/141814-3975396675/ravishing-rosa-strictly-glamour-6472496-2658998190.jpg

Em

I think they’re attractive but I don’t find them sexy or arousing in any way. Besides, they’d probably make her four inches taller than me and I’m not into tall women. Now maybe if you were wearing them……

 

[EmilyMiller]

Now maybe if you were wearing them……

I have boots very similar to that, hun.

Em

 

[EmilyMiller]

I here what you’re saying Em and I get it. What I’m referring to is the threads that are dedicated to young women looking for men decades older with large bellies and bald heads. I’d understand if they were looking for a sugar daddy, but I find it hard to understand when they say there’s a genuine physical attraction.

It’s not always appearance, Hun. And de gustibus non disputandum est .

Em

 

[NakedNymph]

I am a recent widower (2 years), 72 years old, bald (I shave it), still 6'2" tall and 190 lbs, no belly and average size cock, and am continually surprised at the number of younger women who have shown interest. You are not dead until they throw dirt over you.

Coincidentally, one of the cutest guys I know is shaved bald and a bit over 6 feet but he's 21, and 93% of his hotness comes from being super sweet and happy. Add 50 years onto that, though, without changing the attitude and I can imagine the appeal

but tbh before coming onto Lit I barely even imagined older people as sexual, it's still an alien concept to me

Anything involving pain, humiliation and degradation. Aren’t these things we want to avoid in life? How are they erotic? Blood, vomit, scat etc. Shoes of any kind.

I'm into humiliation and degradation, but only what I do to myself in a safe way including the whole "written over like a human-bathroom wall at Denny's" deal, as @CuttingEdge poetically put it... but I totally get why someone wouldn't be into it. Shoes, though...

Shoes aren't always sexy but they're a big help for any extended outdoor adventures

 

[DickandDoof]

I have boots very similar to that, hun.

Em

I look forward with bated breath, sweetie.

 

[Mostlyherefortheporn]

Which fetishes do I not get? Most of them.

It’s kind of ironic, but using this site has made me realize that I am not all that kinky. I enjoy oral sex quite a bit and will never say no to occasional anal, but anything more than that turns me right off. Crossdressing, bondage, feet, the hotwife voyeur thing, daddy/daughter fantasies, pegging, etc. Definitely not my thing. I don’t think I‘d even enjoy a threesome in real life,

Actually, of late, I’ve found most modern porn mostly unsexy. Tats and piercings are turn-offs for me and I don’t really dig skanky-looking women proving they can get pounded as hard as possible to cheap production values exciting. The whole “phat-assed” trend is similarly unappealing. Still find a fair bit on this site to interest me, but i tend to find the threads featuring well-dressed, real-looking women the most appealing.

 

[Starlust]

Any use of the word "daddy" in a sexual context. I have a dad and I want him to be nowhere near my sex fantasies/activities thanks very much.

 

[FantasySharer1]

Any use of the word "daddy" in a sexual context. I have a dad and I want him to be nowhere near my sex fantasies/activities thanks very much.

I used to feel this way as well. However, as I get closer to 40, I am kind thinking it would be hot if a 19 year old called me this during sex.

I have no idea why. It seems hot.

 

[Myhotasianwife]

I dont get the foot fetish

 

[EmilyMiller]

Any use of the word "daddy" in a sexual context. I have a dad and I want him to be nowhere near my sex fantasies/activities thanks very much.

I’ve done some DD/lg role play. I’ve also written some Incest porn.l (I was in a bad place, OK). Doesn’t mean I secretly want to fuck my Dad, who would be horrified that I was discussing such things.

Em

 

[DickandDoof]

I agree with nearly all of your list, but I've got a thing for pierced nipples. I can't explain it, but it's a strong attraction for me.

It’s not that I have anything against the look of pierced nipples, but when I see one I can’t help but think how much it must have hurt to put a needle through it. I do what I can to avoid pain at all costs. I still have my tonsils!

 

[DickandDoof]

Agreed, there's a lot to be said for proportion.

Ditto. There’s not much appealing about a phat ass on a thin body.

 

[PMarky2]

Blood, piss, and poop are out for me. Anything over the top in the pain and humiliation department is a no-no too. My idea of fun does not involve hurting people physically or emotionally.

 

[LustyScribe]

Any use of the word "daddy" in a sexual context. I have a dad and I want him to be nowhere near my sex fantasies/activities thanks very much.

I get that. I have two young daughters who are both beautiful. I can't even begin to think down that line, and honestly, I hope that doesn't ever change. But I don't know how I'd respond if a sexy woman called me Daddy during the heat. Hopefully research opportunities will present themselves! LOL

 

[DickandDoof]

Agreed, there's a lot to be said for proportion.

Ditto. There’s not much appealing about a phat ass on a thin body.

Hi Silkee! Sorry to break in on your post here but I wasn’t sure how else to get in touch with you since your PMs appear to be disabled. I’m very glad that we decided to “follow” each other as I think we have a number of things in common. Will you be enabling your PM’s or perhaps there’s another way to get in touch? Please feel free to check out my profile as it’s quite detailed. If there’s anything else you want to know, just ask.

 

[TallGlassOfSarcasm]

Any use of the word "daddy" in a sexual context. I have a dad and I want him to be nowhere near my sex fantasies/activities thanks very much.

This.

So much this.

Calling me "daddy" is a boner killer. No. Nope.

And if a woman says "call me mommy" that is just as bad.

Just no.

 

[19jlr88]

Though I have noticed I sometimes write like that, it’s like I’ve internalized some porn tropes.

Em

I write like that too. . . It conveys the build up well.

 

[bscurious1]

I suppose the point of fetishes is that they aren’t mainstream, but are there some things that others find deeply sexy that you find revolting?

For me it has to be anal prolapses, which are basically a rather serious injury. Now I love anal as much as the next buttslut, but I don’t want to be injured by it (and never have been).

https://yespornpics.com/media/evilangel/adriana-chechik-mr-pete/18yo-anal-asian-download/adriana-chechik-mr-pete-11.jpg
Adriana is such as pretty girl, but surely she needs to go to the emergency room?

I know people who are turned on by this, I just don’t get it.

Em

Agreed, prolapse is nasty. I LOVE anal, but still can't understand how people are into poo play.

 

[bscurious1]

I have done some DD/lg role-playing, but diapers? Ugh!

Em

Love dd/LG and Daddy daughter but no diapers. But open to pee play.

 

[Rockymtnman]

Dirty panties fetish. Just don’t fucking get it. especially buying them? wtf. You know it’s some fat dude named bob running his ass and balls all over it.

 

[AnnyMouse28]

Which fetishes do I not get? Most of them.

That was my first thought as well. My tastes, as I have said before run fairly vanilla with a hint of french vanilla.

 

[ImiGirrst]

I hear what you’re saying Em and I get it. What I’m referring to is the threads that are dedicated to young women looking for men decades older with large bellies and bald heads. I’d understand if they were looking for a sugar daddy, but I find it hard to understand when they say there’s a genuine physical attraction.

Well, there is a thread on that here - and what girls say is that the belly helps them orgasm because it sits right at the right place. Now, I'm not wired that way, but I thought I would pass along that there is a reason beyond anything in humiliation or daddy kink for the attraction.
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Personally, I love a bald head. I'm not at all shy about walking up to a guy in public and just asking if I can rub my hands over his head. Generally, it's met with a quite the smile. Visually, it reminds you about another bald head that gives us a happy.
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And I have to say that being involved with a guy older than you is kinda nice. Girls mature earlier than boys do, so you can often find conversation and experience easier with older men. In fact, right now, I'm having a real issue because I'm older - and older men than me are hard to find. I have a partner that is 20 years older than me - and while he still gets the job done, he is very concerned that he doesn't. But I'm also in a place where sex isn't as important or driving, which is why the age difference works. And the conversations I have with him? They are just as stimulating as the sex - moreso sometimes. And I don't let him be my sugardaddy.

 

[DickandDoof]

Thank you so much ImiGirrst. You’ve given me a lot to think about and I’ll do that tonight while I’m not sleeping. I guess I’m a failure as an “older man”. I have a full head of hair and no belly. How will I ever attract a younger woman?

 

[ScarlettLiv]

feet and poop for me.
I do understand the humiliation aspect behind both but yeah just not for me