Fetishes that you just don’t get

I don't get the golden shower or scat fetish nor hanging from the ceiling with a ball gag stuck in my mouth.
 
I don't get the golden shower or scat fetish nor hanging from the ceiling with a ball gag stuck in my mouth.
As someone into watersports now and again, I totally get why some people are turned off by it. But, I must say, scat fetish is in a completely different stratosphere in my mind and I cannot comprehend it.

I would honestly love someone who's into it help me understand everything... How'd you realize your fetish? How'd you bring it up to a SO (if you even have)/find a like-minded partner? Just what are your limits? What is your monthly cleaning supply budget?

Lol, but seriously. It seems like an all-in/out lifestyle, that I have to imagine the commitment level is high. Fascinating stuff to me.
 
I despise this scripted cuckold where the husband sits down with his wife and tells her he wants her to have sex with other men or he even picks out other men for her to have sex with.

It’s so much hotter if your wife just naturally begins cheating on you and if you are already a cuckold let yourself surrender to those feelings.

But stop pre-arranging it. That is not hot.
 
As someone into watersports now and again, I totally get why some people are turned off by it. But, I must say, scat fetish is in a completely different stratosphere in my mind and I cannot comprehend it.

I would honestly love someone who's into it help me understand everything... How'd you realize your fetish? How'd you bring it up to a SO (if you even have)/find a like-minded partner? Just what are your limits? What is your monthly cleaning supply budget?

Lol, but seriously. It seems like an all-in/out lifestyle, that I have to imagine the commitment level is high. Fascinating stuff to me.
In the thread about things your co-workers would be suprised about you, one woman wrote that she is manager and her employees would be surpised that she loves sex parties where she has been the recipent of golden showers. To each his own, just not something I would be into.
 
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So scat and puke, I agree. But here we get into the diversity of what people like and I’m now on the other side of the argument. I’m not a big watersports girl, but have fooled around (giving and receiving) and had fun. Not a major turn-on, but had a good time.

Em
Puke is a hard no unless you want more puke, LOL

Sometimes with anal play there could be a surprise, but I suppose that's not "scat play".
 
In the thread about things your co-workers would be suprised about you, one woman wrote that she is manager and her employees would be surpised that she loves sex parties where she has been the recipent of golden showers. To each his own, just not something I would be into.

Wonder if her employees would want to give her a golden shower if they found out? Especially if she is a cruel boss it might feel good to urinate on her.
 
I suppose the point of fetishes is that they aren’t mainstream, but are there some things that others find deeply sexy that you find revolting?

For me it has to be anal prolapses, which are basically a rather serious injury. Now I love anal as much as the next buttslut, but I don’t want to be injured by it (and never have been).

https://yespornpics.com/media/evilangel/adriana-chechik-mr-pete/18yo-anal-asian-download/adriana-chechik-mr-pete-11.jpg
Adriana is such as pretty girl, but surely she needs to go to the emergency room?

I know people who are turned on by this, I just don’t get it.

Em
I agree with you completely. I love anal sex even gaping is kinda hott but pink socks are way too much.
 
Puke, spitting, scat. Hate them all, definitely not for us, only exception is spitting our assholes before fingering. We met a couple while swinging who were into watersports like ourselves, we had an amazing, wet night at their place. The weekend after we had agreed to meet up but the night before we had a few drinks socially. The wife asked if we would like to go further than pissing, she said they enjoyed scat play and liked to indulge regularly, he was also into making her puke. We declined and had another great wet night, it got a little messy when they introduced food but still fun. We never saw them again after that night though. I guess it was a mutual decision, they were looking for something more than we wanted. Each to their own and we all have our limits
 
A lot. But off the top of my head would be
Animal porn
Golden showers
Shit
Acting like a baby
Men on men sex. Look not judging just not my thing
 
Look not judging just not my thing
If I listed all those "just not my thing", it would be multiple times the list of "I don't get" 🙂

Like, I do get women on women, it's not hard at all. Yet it turns me off usually - totally not my thing.
 
If I listed all those "just not my thing", it would be multiple times the list of "I don't get" 🙂

Like, I do get women on women, it's not hard at all. Yet it turns me off usually - totally not my thing.
I enjoyed watching girl on girl in real life. Was fun. Then was part of a 3 way make out session. Oh there is more but I need to get my day going. Have a good one.
 
There are a lot that I just don't get. Too many to list. That isn't to say they shouldn't exist, just means I don't get them. Sometimes it means I need to experience them differently, and sometimes you just know.

One of the ones is race based stuff. Like I get power is a thing. But my brain can't take hearing the language. Love women of all races for their beauty and variety. But can't imagine shouting out slurs to get off or in play. Just don't get it.
 
Clown sex. I mean,full costume/makeup/props, w/ another clown-having sex and getting turned on by making ea.other laugh, Like, what the...WHAT????? How does honking a big red nose get you to both laugh AND get off at the same time? Yes,I HATE clowns,but still. :oops: 😲🤯
 
Clown sex. I mean,full costume/makeup/props, w/ another clown-having sex and getting turned on by making ea.other laugh, Like, what the...WHAT????? How does honking a big red nose get you to both laugh AND get off at the same time? Yes,I HATE clowns,but still. :oops: 😲🤯
I don't hate clowns, but I still don't get it.
 
yeah.....same as far as the clowns.....until Tinker Bell The Clown stopped for directions and I got a boner. I guess it is almost no different than a costume party.....for hundreds (thousands?) of years people have been dressing up and getting freaky.
 
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