Fingering yourself?

[clb110269]

Do any bi-married guys out there enjoy fingering the prostate?

Any pics? My batteries aredead at the moment!

Will post soon.

After reading about it today, I'm going home to try it right now!

 

[Irony_Sinclair]

I love anal play in just about any form. From rimming to stretching I find it a HUGE turn on! Prostate massage is delicious and can have precum streaming from me, as in if I'm standing up I can literally have a long shiny thread of precum hanging from my cock all the way to my ankles.

I love anal penetration! That amazing sensation fo the tight ring so alive and excited as it starts to get stretched. The almost calming but equally exciting feeling as whatever it is that is entering passes that ring and truly slips inside of you. The deep, almost achey pleasure of having the prostate rubbed. The intense sense of fullness and incredible internal pleasure when you're completely stuffed...yummy!

Just the other night I had the MOST AMAZING experience with my wonderful wife. We shared a large double-headed dildo. It had been a fantasy of mine for a very long time and a few nights ago it became a reality and it was absolutely incredible.

First she had me get on all fours and lubed my ass up well. Then she fingered me for a bit, first one, then two, then three...I wanted more. I always want more. Once I'm relaxed and excited I can be very accomodating and always desire more stretching. But rather than bury all five fingers up to her knuckles in me (haven't quite got to full fisting yet) she began to fuck me very well with a rather large life-like vibrator. Full, deep strokes, bringing it almost all the way out and then slowly but firmly pushing it all the way into me until it was burried up to the fake balls. She cranked the blissful little buzzing motor and gradually worked into a good steady rhythm. Precum oozed out of me and I soon found myself doing the fucking. Slamming back and forth on the fake cock. Plunging it deep in me and grinding and rolling my hips. Then again hammering it fast. All the while, and as usual, she was talking to me the entire time and occassionaly reaching between my legs to grip and pull and stretch my balls, lightly scratch my taint, tweak my cock. Great stuff for sure, but certainly nothing new for us. But then...

She laid on her back and I licked her lucsious sweet pussy for a good long time. Then I sat up and put my legs over hers so that we were essentially crotch-to-crotch and looking each other in the eyes. She got out her clit vibe and had some nice slow tandem masturbation and I started to again work my ass. As we both grew more heated I re-lubed my ass, very generously. I pulled out the lovely thick double-headed dildo and lightly lubed one end. My end. I eased away from her a bit and laid back. This gave me free room to work and enabled her to watch as she brought herself up onto her elbows.

Since my nether hole was already well worked, the big toy slid in easily. I fed it into my body until I had about half, or around 7-8", in my ass. I fucked myself with the toy for a bit, both for her voyueristic indulgence and my slutty exhibitionist needs, not to mention my outright physical pleasure. Then I inched back up to her soaking wet and engorged pussy. I eased the other head into her and got enough inside that her slick lips were able to hold it in place. Then, clamping my ass tight, I inched my butt even closer, pushing the other end of our shared "cock" into her. It was so insanely intense!

It's a pretty long toy and that, combined with some basic ergonomics, kept us from completely devouring the toy and touching. But that's a good thing I think as hygene in such activities in paramount (reminder to be ever concious of what hand has been doing what). But oh man did we eat and fuck that dildo. She went back to her clit vibe and I would stroke my cock some but really for a good long while it was just about the experience and totally and completely reveling in it.

Often when I'm experiencing anal stimulation, my cock will just stay in a semi-erect state. Not from lack of excitement by any means, it's just a totally different kind of pleasure than direct genital stimulation. That's where I was at for a long time while we shared the toy. I grind and buck my hips and then clench my ass tight and fuck her quickly with the toy. I'd rise up and fuck more and at point I was able, after a couple tries, to roll up atop her and virtually ride her. I leaked so much precum my thighs, her thighs, my belly, her belly, our groins, were glimmering.

Eventually, it was time to cum. I squeezed some lube on my cock to make it even more slick than my own flowing juices had it and she put the clit vibe t hard use. I raised my hips so she could watch the dildo plunge in and out of my ass while I stroked myself. She told me I could cum whenever I wanted so I didn't hold back. It didn't take long either.

Long bouts of anal penetration and prostate stimulation bring about a most unique orgasm. I'm a heavy cummer by nature but with this type of play I can almost literally cum in buckets, especially if I have something inside of me at the actual time of ejaculation. And the orgasm is always different than those that don't include anal play. A deep, pulsing, rolling type of orgasm. My hand was a blur on my raging hard cock and soon I was gushing cum. Stream after stream rolled out of me as I shook and groaned and fucked and came. So much cum...She went wild and also had an amazing orgasm.

Yes, it was truly lovely indeed and I can't wait to do it again!

 

[DerelictionOfSanity]

I don't do it often, but it's very enjoyable when I do.

 

[Guest]

My baby loves to finger my ass while she sucks me and I love her to do so. She sometimes teases me with a slim jelly dildo we have and it makes me crazy. I come completely and go totally flaccid when she is done.

mmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

 

[elib257]

Love being fingered, probed, vibrated, et al. Somewhere here on Lit is a thread about 'milking a prostrate'. Haven't seen it recently, but as I recall it sure got a rise out of me.

Would absolutely loved to be sucked and milked...

The thread is on the 'how to' but it's hidden on the second page i think...

 

[skitzoid]

Done t

 

[Regular J]

I love to have my ass filled as I stroke off! what a great way to cum!

 

[trask9]

Having the prostate massaged with a finger or dildo or vibe, makes the orgasm very intense. I love it and do it often. More fun if someone does it for you, be it male or female. I like both equally. TJ

 

[jboggy]

I do it all the time

I've finguring myself during masturbation for long time now. I also own a vibrating butt-plug, sometimes I jut lay down and let the toy do the thing. believe it or not I eventually cum, but this it very different, instead of shooting, I cum much slower and lasts longer, just adjust a speed...

I would love to try for real. Posted several times, but chickened out last minute.

Any advise would be appreciated.

 

[mac_46_46]

Oh yea, I love to jackoff with fingers, dildo t vibrator up my ass. When I cum it is so intense!!!

 

[CoastalTom]

Having the prostate massaged with a finger or dildo or vibe, makes the orgasm very intense. I love it and do it often. More fun if someone does it for you, be it male or female. I like both equally. TJ

I have yet to experience this form of orgasm but after reading all the posts I wonder what is taking me so long to try. I think if I asked my SO to do it for me may scare her a bit, so I want to try experiencing this first alone.

Anyone have any suggestions as to the kind of toy to use? What do you guys use and how does it work?

Thanks!!

Tom.

 

[stlpenguin]

I suppose any sort of toy will work, really. There are a billion different shapes and sizes, some vibrating, some not, etc... but find whatever you think works for you.

The few toys I use are:

-- a medium sized jelly dildo - doesn't vibrate, but it's nice and smooth and slightly curved. I use this when I want to concentrate on the in/out "fucking" sensation.

-- a white bulb-shaped butt plug. It's not cone-shaped, so I don't have to shove it in 6 inches to get it in all the way, and has these neat little ridges so it goes in bumpy... which feels GREAT. It does not vibrate either. I use this one for when I want to enjoy the feeling of being filled.

-- A pyrex glass multi-toy. One end's a plug, the other end is a knuckled prostate-massager. This toy is wonderful! It's glass, so it's easily cleanable, and can be heated up / cooled down if you like temperature play. The prostate massager end is very nicely curved, slim as a finger so it doesn't stretch you out and hurt too bad if you're not particularly relaxed that day, and the knuckles give enough friction to make the fucking sensation pretty nice! I use this one when i'm looking for the fucking sensation, but am not feeling adventurous / energetic enough for the purple dildo.

-- Lastly, my wife and I recently bought a Feeldoe. I enjoy the cock end of it (not the plug end - if you've ever seen one, you know what I'm talking about) and this one DOES vibrate! I've not used it very often yet, but what I have used, has been very very fun. I'm attempting to get myself back into the habit of anal play, so I can be stretched out better for Ma'am... and for Sir

Basically, anal play in general, I find enhances the orgasms nicely. But if you're looking specifically for prostate massage orgasms, any toy that you like that can curve in and rub the prostate works well enough. Vibration greatly helps because it does a lot of the work for you.

If you need help with finding the prostate and such, there's a thread in the HOW TO section, I believe, all about "Milking the Prostate."

Hope that helped!

-- Scott / Sara

 

[CoastalTom]

Basically, anal play in general, I find enhances the orgasms nicely. But if you're looking specifically for prostate massage orgasms, any toy that you like that can curve in and rub the prostate works well enough. Vibration greatly helps because it does a lot of the work for you.

If you need help with finding the prostate and such, there's a thread in the HOW TO section, I believe, all about "Milking the Prostate."

Hope that helped!

-- Scott / Sara[/QUOTE]
Scott & Sara,

Wow - thank you so very much for the detailed response. It certainly was more than I expected or asked for.
Given this is so new I thought a small vibrator would good: firm and not to wide, and work my way up if it does what some have described here and in other threads.

I will be sure to let you know how I do!

Thanks again,
Tom.

 

[noise]

i finger myself quite often, recently i got a 8" dildo and use that

 

[StrapFantasy]

surely even straight guys like a finger in the ass when they are fucking. what's not to like?

Absolutely. My wife had been trying to put a finger up my ass since we were teens steaming up the car windows at the drive-in. I resisted for years, then somehow she managed to get a finger home about five years ago and I couldn't believe I'd kept her out for so long. And the jizzless orgasms! Wow. One after the other, so much more intense! She probably wishes now she'd never set me off because my ass constantly craves her. I want to feel her driving a strap on into me! The closest we've gotten is she'll sometimes use a finger while she humps me doggie style, on much too rare occasions to suite me.

I definitely prefer someone else doing it to me, but taking care of it myself is definitely better than the desperation of going without.

 

[Regular J]

i have an 8inch dildo that i love to have filling my ass!

 

[CoastalTom]

Absolutely. My wife had been trying to put a finger up my ass since we were teens steaming up the car windows at the drive-in. I resisted for years, then somehow she managed to get a finger home about five years ago and I couldn't believe I'd kept her out for so long. And the jizzless orgasms! Wow. One after the other, so much more intense! She probably wishes now she'd never set me off because my ass constantly craves her. I want to feel her driving a strap on into me! The closest we've gotten is she'll sometimes use a finger while she humps me doggie style, on much too rare occasions to suite me.

I definitely prefer someone else doing it to me, but taking care of it myself is definitely better than the desperation of going without.

Thanks for sharing - great story. It may just inspire me to ask her to try using a vibrator on me and then one day a strap on. The thought is making me totally thick right now, in case you were wondering!! Ha!

tom.

 

[StrapFantasy]

Thanks for sharing - great story. It may just inspire me to ask her to try using a vibrator on me and then one day a strap on. The thought is making me totally thick right now, in case you were wondering!! Ha!

tom.

I'd love to have her use a vibe on me. Yeah, the thought gets me hard too. We haven't gotten there yet, though. Good luck in your pursuit!

 

[stlpenguin]

Wow - thank you so very much for the detailed response. It certainly was more than I expected or asked for.
Given this is so new I thought a small vibrator would good: firm and not to wide, and work my way up if it does what some have described here and in other threads.

I will be sure to let you know how I do!

Thanks again,
Tom.

No problem I'm always glad to help. I take anal play very seriously, because so much can go wrong and it's too easy to have a bad experience with something that can be so enjoyable if done right. Just remember, the three S's to anal play :

1 - Stretch. Don't try to shove a fist up there first thing. Warm up first.
2 - Sanitize. Put condoms on toys that will be used for anything other than anal. Wash everything well. You can't be too sanitary when dealing with the inside of your ass.
3 - Slide! If you think you have enough lube, add more. You can NOT have too much lube.

-- Scott / Sara

 

[Harper2808]

Prostate

I use a prostate massager - only had a couple of really good sensations - guess I'm doing it wrong - I'll keep trying tho !

Maybe a vibrating butt plug is what I need !!

 

[CoastalTom]

I use a prostate massager - only had a couple of really good sensations - guess I'm doing it wrong - I'll keep trying tho !

Maybe a vibrating butt plug is what I need !!

That's what I thought after lat night's disappointing effort with a semi-hard vibrator. I think I may need to invest in a plug, or a vibrator with an angled head to help reach that spot.
If you find a good plug, please let me - us - know. Good luck!

Tom.

 

[Harper2808]

hi

I will !!!

xxx

 

[StrapFantasy]

I'd love to have her use a vibe on me. Yeah, the thought gets me hard too. We haven't gotten there yet, though. Good luck in your pursuit!

This is just too coincidental. A few months back, I mentioned the possibility of us trying toys. Her expression seemed to indicate she was at least curious about the idea, but she didn't say anything. Not a word. She's always kinda had a hangup about this sort of thing, so I left it go. I didn't want to push it. In fact, I've been wondering if she was thinking her husband was turning into a freak...

She never said a word about it, so I thought the subject had gone by the wayside. Then, the very night I wrote the comment above, she brought the subject of toys up without even a cue from me! Progress!!! Next thing I knew, we were looking at Feeldoes on the web, and my pole was so hard I thought it would explode. She isn't totally comfortable with the idea of toys yet. Still, it was amazing to be sitting there at the computer with her, looking for a way she could screw me silly! And I think her seeing what it did to me might have helped tip the scales toward her maybe being willing to try it out.

We're not there yet, and I don't want to have her do anything she isn't willing or comfortable with, but I feel like we made a major leap! Oh, it gets me hard just thinking about it!

 

[Harper2808]

More !

Let everyone know how you get on !! Literally !!!

 

[goldenrod_444]

Thats funny you say that, my wife is very conservative and bought her first sex toy recently. We just used it a couple times and have to get used to using it first before we hit our stride, but i can't wait till that happens.

This is just too coincidental. A few months back, I mentioned the possibility of us trying toys. Her expression seemed to indicate she was at least curious about the idea, but she didn't say anything. Not a word. She's always kinda had a hangup about this sort of thing, so I left it go. I didn't want to push it. In fact, I've been wondering if she was thinking her husband was turning into a freak...

She never said a word about it, so I thought the subject had gone by the wayside. Then, the very night I wrote the comment above, she brought the subject of toys up without even a cue from me! Progress!!! Next thing I knew, we were looking at Feeldoes on the web, and my pole was so hard I thought it would explode. She isn't totally comfortable with the idea of toys yet. Still, it was amazing to be sitting there at the computer with her, looking for a way she could screw me silly! And I think her seeing what it did to me might have helped tip the scales toward her maybe being willing to try it out.

We're not there yet, and I don't want to have her do anything she isn't willing or comfortable with, but I feel like we made a major leap! Oh, it gets me hard just thinking about it!