Fisting getting out of control

[xBuxombabex]

Hi guys.

Im new here so be kind

Very recently (well, within the last year or so) I have been moving slowly closer to the more 'unusual' sexual attractions.

Ever since watching a 'huge insertions' porn movie on pay TV, I have be more and more curious about how far I can stretch my own vagina. I know its weird and very unusual (especially as NONE of my known friends do it), but the feeling just makes me wild. I started slow, with small objects, a few homemade toys etc, moving onto large and more wide insertions. A few months ago, I finally got the courage to take on my wooden bedpost ball top with a condom on (its just bigger than a tennis ball). With a bit of practice and squat manoeuvring, I have managed to control it and now want (and kind of need) something bigger. Now at this stage, I can naturally take my own fist with alot of lube (I have ridiculously small hands), but crave something bigger!

My main worry is that how big is too big? Will this lust for stretching continue until I am a ruined woman below? I have even started thinking about using un-inflated balls, and pumping them up inside my pussy!?

Does anyone else have this attraction and how do you control it. The problem is, when im doing it I feel like a lady controlled, wanting more and more!!

Thanks for any of your comments guys,

Love Millie

Glad I'm not the only one who's tried that!

 

[slowpoking]

Millie Ann you can shop online for any size toy and they ship discreetly to your front door.If your not comfortable shopping online call around and find a lady who hosts passion parties and see if she will be willing to help you.

There are toys of every size and shape out there.You will see some and think WTF there is no way.Fisting and larger I have found takes trust,time,pratice,relaxiation and of course wetness and plenty of lube.

We have a toy in the store that is a butt plug that is for more of topic of conversation than anything else.It is enormous.Ladies comment all the time "I couldnt even get this in me (meaning vagina)".At the base it is 12 inches around.At the tip it is 1 inch.

I have to disagree. There may be lots of larger toys out there, but they are not easy to find. When my wife became interested in larger toys last year, I spent lots of time looking online. I was looking mostly for vibrating dildoes, but I think this applied to plain ones, too. Once she got above 2 1/4 inches in diameter, it was difficult to find anything.

This is what led us to cucumbers and yellow squash.

 

[slowpoking]

tightening back up

By the way, Millie, I thought this might apply to your original post. My wife laid off the large insertions for a few months -- not for any particular reason, just hadn't got around to them. Then we started harvesting some large squash from our garden, and she asked for help sampling them. I was only too happy to oblige. We had a range of sizes, but the largest that she was able to accommodate was significantly smaller than she was able to take before.

I don't know for certain that this is true, but for me this reinforced the idea that the vaginal opening is like a muscle that with regular practice can be limbered to accommodate larger objects but that without such practice looses such capacity.

 

[gabriel16]

<Millie?

This is a great old abandoned thread on a delicious topic.
I've enjoyed fisting a lover........

Where is everyone?

Come speak!

You still here on this old abandoned thread?

Gabriel

 

[bootsnz84]

ooohhh fisting!!
its something ive dreamed about
I can currently take a standard size shampoo and 4 fingers
but thats it so far
I cant wait till I can put my whole hand inside

 

[magicalmoments]

ooohhh fisting!!
its something ive dreamed about
I can currently take a standard size shampoo and 4 fingers
but thats it so far
I cant wait till I can put my whole hand inside

Aren't you afraid of opening your pussy so wide that you won't feel the average sized cock when it's in you? Or does the natural flexibility of the pussy take care of this>

 

[looking4mom613]

My experience with an ex is I could only get four fingers in (I have large hands) and she wanted to experiment with fisting but we could never get there. She was bi and always wanted to see her getting fisted by a woman who naturally would have smaller hands than I. Would have been hot.

If a woman can give birth and return to tightness (and sometimes tighter), I am sure most of these objects are not a concern.

I think the thought of being full is why some women desire DP.

 

[bootsnz84]

Aren't you afraid of opening your pussy so wide that you won't feel the average sized cock when it's in you? Or does the natural flexibility of the pussy take care of this>

Well women go through child birth.... they seem to still be good with the size of their man

you would be shocked how a few pelvic exercises can tighten you back up

 

[magicalmoments]

Well women go through child birth.... they seem to still be good with the size of their man

you would be shocked how a few pelvic exercises can tighten you back up

Oh yes. Pelvic floor exercises. I'd forgotten. I've been the beneficiary of those. Seems you know what you're doing. good luck with it.

 

[bootsnz84]

Oh yes. Pelvic floor exercises. I'd forgotten. I've been the beneficiary of those. Seems you know what you're doing. good luck with it.

I reasearched before I really got started inserting never can
be to careful

you being a kiwi could walk through the supermarket and find my brand of shampoo bottle I use....
quick trip to the supermarket and half a hour later im moaning and screaming well worth the risks to try id say

 

[norfolklad]

I've had one girlfriend who could take my hand with relative ease and loved it and another who could but found it too 'gynæcological' to use her word

 

[joe_cox]

I agree, it's very hot.. For me it seems there is just not a lot of woman around my age that are into it..

 

[norfolklad]

I agree, it's very hot.. For me it seems there is just not a lot of woman around my age that are into it..

I have an FWB who loves the feeling of being stretched but three fingers is about her limit, even though she's had two children.

 

[Impact12345]

My wife has begun to stretch her pussy very nicely, I love using bigger and bigger toys on her and can't wait til I can fist her. I love her training her muscles and pussy to take more and more and leaving her gaping afterwards until her muscles slowly go back to normal.

 

[HussarVanburen]

Continually stretching the vagina will eventually make it so loose as to lose any sort of sensation for a male partner. So yes, eventually you'll want to stop with the girth. It's going to blow you out.

 

[jp_2012]

Thank you for all your feedback guys. Its nice to be part of a understanding community.

The sensation of being 'filled up' is my absolute everything now. Sometimes I take days off work just to stay around the house all day, with inflated or heavy objects inside me. The feeling drives me wild, making my underwear soaked and my pleasurable senses heightened! I dont know whether its the position of something large inside me, or how aroused i am, but even my ass begins to get wet with slick goo. So much so that a quick fingering is essential to crave my urge!

I have not met any other fisters yet in the real world. Being 22, all of my known friends regard it as a tad taboo and weird, so talking to you guys makes me feel normal

The best feeling in the world is sticking my suction based dong toy onto my fridge and squat doggy fuck it. I am still to try it sitting on the old washing machine, but the weekend is coming so who knows

Love Millie

xxxx

That's like the hottest thing I've read on here! If you ever need a hand or more let me know!

 

[bdave2]

Looseness Bullcrap

Continually stretching the vagina will eventually make it so loose as to lose any sort of sensation for a male partner. So yes, eventually you'll want to stop with the girth. It's going to blow you out.

This reply is absolutely bullshit. Anal fisting and vaginal fisting increase muscle control if done properly in a loving way. Tightness for receiving smaller hands, objects and body parts is controlled by the fistee. Passing on this kind of misinformation is irresponsible.

(I will add the qualification, however, that I have no experience with violent or S&M fisting which could theoretically damage muscles, I suppose. If someone has experience-based, and not fantasy-based, information to the contrary, let us know.)

 

[Joeknoxville]

My wife enjoys being fisted (I have very large hands) but when she really wants to get stretched out we go for the inflatables. It's fun to pump them up slowly to a point, let her pussy adjust, and then pump some more. The best thing about these types of toys is that they stay big and wide until you decide to deflate them. I can keep her stretched out as long as I want to .

 

[coacheric]

Hey there! I completely know how you feel. I am the same way. I started out with typical dildos or vibrators but my hubby and I started using bigger and bigger ones.

He eventually asked if he could fist me. I love the feeling of being stretched and filled up. I can't seem to get enough of it now. He wants to be able to double fist me. We aren't quite there yet.

There have been times when he puts a dildo and him inside of me and it feels so good. I can't get enough.

I like girth not length on a dildo. The biggest one I have now is 3 inches in diameter ( I hope I am saying that right, I always get it wrong). I want to find a bigger one but can't seem to. If you know where to get one, please let me know.

I worry about stretching out my girl too much and not being tight on my hubby anymore but I just can't help myself.

My wife has let me fist her before and has almost always gone crazy from it. I've also used a large dildo along with me at the same time, again, drives her crazy. It's not an every time thing but when the time is right, it's a lot of fun

 

[LWulf]

Well, this thread is 2 years old and the OP hasn't posted more than 40 comments yet so I doubt they are here anymore, but what the hey!?

You know fisting is out of control when a guy gets one hand inside your vagina, then forces the second hand inside, then starts to clap his hands.

 

[Millie_ann]

Found my old login details from years ago, and realised this post gained a lot of attention!

Many thanks for all your replies folk!

I posted this when I was 22, now I’m 34!! And yes I am still a huge fisting enthusiast!! I fist nearly every day and absolutely love myself. I have great body confidence, knows what I like and don’t like, and I’m proud of my girl for her ability to take one (or two) fists near anytime I want.

Xxx